43Herndon, United States
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My self-summary
Hi everyone! I'm a tall, slender, fun-loving guy. I love music, both listening and making. I enjoy delicious food, craft beer, good wine, and great conversation. I'm a progressive feminist. I'm TERRIBLE at writing profiles...

I am looking to meet and date and maybe fall madly in love with new, interesting people who enjoy witty conversation. I'm hoping that the promise of internet search engine technology will match me with other like-minded people. Perhaps you and I will be interested in each other's profiles and have a few interesting and exciting messages passed between us. Maybe we'll meet for coffee and have a really great time. Hopefully, by the end of the evening, we will have TAKEN OVER THE WORLD! Sounds fun? Let me know!

I find intelligence extremely sexy. The most interesting connections I've ever made have been women that surprise me - who keep me on my toes. Rest assured, flashing a sharp wit will inspire the humors in me and we WILL have a great night!

I do enjoy when I get a "Like" on OKC. Just know that I have a basic OKC account, so I can't tell who likes me. I do hope that you will message me if you think we have something in common and maybe we should check that out. That's why we're here right? Make new connections... (That's why I'm here!)

You should know from the outset that I am married in an open marriage. My wife and I are polyamorous, in which both of us are free to openly purse romantic relationships outside the marriage. She has a boyfriend (he's a nice guy) and she knows I'm looking (she's even given me advice on this profile...) I'm totally honest with her and I'll be totally honest with anyone I'm dating. Honesty is extremely important to me - hence I address this potential disqualifying factor in my self-summary rather than wait to "The most private thing I'm willing to admit" section.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a father of 2 bright, amazing boys and a career level professional. I'm a Cub Scout Den Leader (so my Tuesdays evenings are kinda spoken for...) I have goals of running a few 5K races (after having had ACL surgery last fall), eventually auditioning for some roles in local theaters, and winning a lottery jackpot to fund my life of lazy luxury (but that's still in the planning stages.)
I’m really good at
Music - I'm a formally trained singer. Just wait until you hear my karaoke rendition of "Music of the Night" or the Harry Potter parody I wrote based on "Bulls On Parade" by Rage Against The Machine!

I'm also a self-taught guitarist, flutist, and "anything-I-can-get-my-hands-on"ist. I'm really good at making people THINK I can play the piano beautifully (I really cannot) with a little trick I figured out a while ago involving the pentatonic scale. Be sure to ask me about it on our first date! ;-)

I really enjoy being on stage and/or entertaining a group of people. I have done some limited improv comedy and LOVED IT! (I really should hit the stage more...)

Also, I'm a good listener and I'm also quite romantic and thoughtful. Oh - and I guess I'm a great Dad. That's what my kids say... (And everyone else who knows us...)
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been described as tall, dark and handsome. I've received compliments on my blue/green/hazel eyes. I'm also quite friendly and outgoing.

I'm pretty extroverted and enjoy making people laugh. I'm pretty goofy (but the good kind of goofy... right? RIGHT???)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have GOT to update this section... Until then, here goes:

I enjoy funny, quirky or unusual shows and movies. Some of my current favorite shows include Key & Peele, House of Cards, Reaper, Game of Thrones, Dexter, The Walking Dead, Impractical Jokers, 30 Rock (GOT to love streaming Netflix.)

I adore "The Princess Bride" and like to think I can quote along to it quite effectively. I like me a good zombie flick (and by good, of course I mean terrible) like ZomBeavers. I mean, how could you go wrong with zombie beavers???

My musical tastes span classic rock through 80's pop and onward through 90 alternative & current DC101 stuff. Simultaneously, I love me some Phantom of the Opera (would be thrilled to perform "Music of the Night") and orchestral music (Claude Debussy: Prelude to the Afternoon with a Faun is like therapy to me.)
Six things I could never do without
Easy! They are:
Musical expression
Delicious food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What do I need to do to improve my OKC profile???
On a typical Friday night I am
It may be as simple as staying at home with the kiddos to going, catching an 80s cover band that I really love (The Reflex), going to a kinky party, binging on a show on streaming Netflix with some homemade frozen margaritas, or going on a date. Ask me on Thursday...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I already covered the whole open marriage thing... That's pretty big.
Also, (whispers): I'm not really a prude...
You should message me if
Message me if you are a smart, fun-loving local lady who enjoys good company and a somewhat goofy sense of humor. I promise - I won't disappoint!
The two of us