31 Phoenix, United States
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My self-summary
I'll treat a woman like a queen and accept her flaws, but I want some respect and courtesy. If you're a self-centered bitch towards me, I'll lose interest, no matter how hot you are. Not all, but too many women from my generation have no sense of manners or common courtesy, and frankly, it's getting old.
I have worked a variety of jobs - white collar and blue collar. I have done well at anything I put my mind to, but always stayed humble and grounded. I've done a lot of traveling and seen/experienced a lot. I believe in being responsible but also not be scared to try things and live life to the fullest. There's too much to discuss in a few sentences, so if you'd like to hear more, go ahead and ask!
What I’m doing with my life
I bartend. Love the job and I have great guests and co-workers. Eventually I'll pursue management, but for the moment, my situation and my income suits my needs. I love helping people in numerous ways, whether it's helping them relax after a long day at work, or assisting the less fortunate at shelters or on the streets. I like to keep active at my job and enjoy a different challenge or experience everyday.
I’m really good at
Striking up conversations with people, playing basketball, playing darts, listening and remembering places, faces, directions, and what people say or do. I have a knack for making people feel better, giving them guidance (as long as they're willing to listen), and making babies smile! I love to sing, although how I sound is a matter of opinion! (I think I do fairly well)
The first things people usually notice about me
I am on the shorter side, but I'm feisty, tough, and accomplish what needs to be done. I get complimented on my smile a lot. My wacky sense of humor is noticed right away by some people, but for others it might take a little time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
"Tuesdays With Morrie" was one of the most impactful books I ever read, and "Angela's Ashes" was a great book as well. Regarding movies, I like a lot of the older films (mid-90s and earlier), enjoy a lot of the Alfred Hitchcock movies, along with the Rocky movies. I've recently gotten into NCIS, and also like re-runs of Everybody Loves Raymond, Family Guy, and a little bit of Seinfeld.
The six things I could never do without
Pro sports, music, sunshine, coffee, good food, and last but not least, having God in my life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My mind is always thinking of so many things, in no particular order! Some of them are funny, others are serious, and others can be very deep. It leads to some interesting conversations!
On a typical Friday night I am
If I'm not working, I will usually be having a few drinks with friends. Sometimes I'll stay in and relax, but if friends are available to hang, I'd rather be with them.
You should message me if
You're not going to bullshit me or play games with my heart. I'm tired of not getting appreciated or treated with courtesy by these women who say they want "a good man". Give respect = get respect. I start a new page with everyone new I meet and try to give them the benefit of the doubt. I'm not someone who carries over bad feelings from a previous relationship and takes them out onto a new woman; that's not fair to her, because the new woman hasn't done anything wrong.