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My self-summary
Is this the part where I talk about how I like to walk on beaches? Tap, tap, tap. Is this thing on?

Oh, hi!

I grew up in the cornfields of Indiana. After my 8th grade field trip to Chicago, I figured out the city is where it's all happening and started plotting my escape that day. Fast forward to my college graduation from Indiana University, I walked right from the ceremony to a packed U-haul truck and moved to NYC that day with no job lined up. It all turned out just fine. (I told you it would Mom!)

I'm a confident person, without arrogance, and like that quality in others as well. I like having my life experience expanded by those around me. Change is a good thing and I'm always open to new experiences and life situations. I'm adventurous and looking to add some stamps to my passport.

I enjoy the crazy fun that life can bring and always find humor where ever I go. You never know what life will give you unless you are willing to say "yes" and just live it. Just being "in the moment" is my mantra. For instance, one Saturday night, I started the night at a lecture/recital with Yo-Yo Ma and ended my evening at The Eagle for the Mr. Eagle contest. Um, didn't see that one coming, but it was a fun night for sure!

I spend most of my weekends in the Catskills, where I am restoring a 130 year-old farmhouse.

My ideal guy would ski with me in the winter, hit the beach in the summer and get in to all kinds of trouble with me at IML and Folsom in between.

Walks on the beach- check! Theatre and Art-check! Cooking- check! Reading- check! Being with friends- check!

Fine Print: Guys that are prone to attend IML or MAL to the front of the line please. I like both bunks, but if you prefer to top a bit more, who am I to argue. Kinksters will always get priority seating.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in the wild west of TV. I make Reality TV shows. It's nutty and every day is an adventure. I think it's like working in an insane asylum, but there are no Doctors or pills.
I’m really good at
Figuring people out really quickly and understanding what they are experiencing.

I can also twirl anything and can ride a unicycle.
The first things people usually notice about me
Usually my eyes and next my direct approach and personality.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I like fiction and bounce to and fro from classics like Jane Austin to Michael Cunningham. Currently reading Jane Lynche's Memoir.

Movies: I lean towards arty/period movies, but I am a total sucker for the Harry Potter series. I think Jim Carry is an idiot (except in the Truman Show).

Shows: You will find me in the Theatre more likely than in a live music venue.

Music: Love classical, modern chorale, jazz, pop, rock, American songbook/standards, showtunes

Food: Love to cook and explore new food. There's not much I won't eat.
Six things I could never do without
"Things"? Hmmm. I can't think of 6 things, but...

Herring Cove Beach in Ptown
Traveling the world and discovering new places
Sense of Adventure
Art/Music that explores the human condition
Trusted Friends and Family
Sense of Humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The meaning of life? I'll have to think about this and come up with something snarky. Oh, maybe that's it? I'm thinking about this question...
On a typical Friday night I am
I would rather be at home with someone special or dinner with friends. Not much a big club scene person anymore.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a marching band geek and my ipod can prove it.
You should message me if
You have a sense of adventure, established career/life and looking for a serious relationship. You like to travel and want to add some stamps to your passport. You are a gentleman in public, not so much in the bedroom. I like the bottom and top bunk (wink) and you should as well. And if you prefer the top bunk more- well, who am I to argue. HIV neg and on Prep. I am much more Dan Savage than Ward Cleaver when it comes to my views on sex and relationships. If you are looking for a very traditional guy, that's not me. Kinksters to the front of the line please.
The two of us