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My self-summary
DISCLAIMER: I am way more interesting than this profile makes me seem. Yes I know it reads like a frakking insurance brochure. Sadly I am horrible when it comes to writing. The only way to see the real me is to talk or chat with me. When interacting with others I truly come into my expressive abilities.

Geeky, passionate, adventurous, curious, playful bordering on kinky, GGG. Dominant, but in no way a Dom.

Currently in an open relationship with the love of my life and looking for a fun, adventurous, woman to explore some intense mutual chemistry with.
What I’m doing with my life
Breaking video games and getting paid for it. I can't imagine a more enjoyable career for myself. I get a kick out of knowing that the game you end up playing will be more enjoyable for you because of the work I have done on it.

Going out with friends, playing poker, going to as many hockey and baseball games as I can afford tickets to, chilling at home with myself and a good book, lying on the couch with my cat (see pic) watching some horrible movie on Netflix and picking it apart piece by piece, reading, finding a new friend and seeing where things lead.... Damn after reading all of that it amazes even me that I find time to breathe. ;)

Oh and taking pictures along the way to remember it all by when I am senile and unable to keep up with the world anymore.
I’m really good at
Reading a person to know if they have the nuts or are just on a draw.
Reading a partner to know what they want sometimes before even they do.
Playing devil's advocate on nearly any side of any issue.
Keeping people on their toes.
Screaming at a ref after a bad call.
Picking a movie apart piece by poorly placed piece.
Kissing. Not bragging. Just stating fact. I am a phenomenal kisser.
The first things people usually notice about me
Eyes.. (They tend to change color with my mood.)
Sense of humor.. (A bit on the twisted side. I have the occasional HR issue at work. ;) )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
UPDATE: Recently finished the Hunger Games Trilogy and was completely drawn in. Can't wait for the movies!

Anything Alexandre Dumas wrote.
Most things Stephen King wrote.
Lots of things Dean Koontz wrote until the last 5 years.
Piers Anthony's Incarnations of Immortality
(You'll hate me but...) I loved the Dan Brown books.
Recently truly enjoyed the "Girl" series by Steig Larson
Margaret Weiss and Tracy Hickman did an amazing job hooking me when I was younger with the Dragonlance Chronicles and Legends
I re-read the Hobbit and LOTR trilogy at least once every two years.
I could not consider myself a true geek (which I do) without having read and become addicted to Douglas Adams' Hitchiker's Guide to the Galaxy series.
Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep
The Princess Bride

Enough books for now.. (there are many more too numerous to list). On to...

Top ?: (Not in order of greatness)
Empire Records
Star Wars (A New Hope)
2010: The Year We Make Contact
Three Musketeers (Oliver Platt played the best Porthos EVAR!)
The Princess Bride
After that there are soooooooo many movies that I will list more as I think of them but this should give ya a good idea. :)

I just burned through the first 3 seasons of "Sons of Anarchy" in about a week's time. I just could NOT stop hitting "play next episode" on Netflix streaming! One of the best, most engaging series I have EVER seen!

Firefly (hugest cancelation travesty of all time)
How I Met Your Mother
True Blood (Still have only seen the first season but it was AMAZING)
Big Bang Theory
Again I could go on for a while but I think I hit the important ones.

Fanatical about good food. I love trying new things and have recently discovered I may not be as strictly carnivorous as I once thought. (Gee thanks amazing vegetarian samosas)

1. Mexican. I could literally eat tacos every day of the week and never grow tired of them. Even better if there is a tasty salsa verde involved.
2. Actively searching for the perfect cheeseburger. So far the best I have found locally is at Pearl's Deluxe Burger in SF. AMAZING!
3. Vietnamese. Namely Pho. Something else I am seeking the perfect version of. This wonderful stuff has prevented me from getting a full blown cold many times in the past.
4. SUSHI! Yes a beefeater from Texas that loves good sushi. And I mean GOOD sushi. I have eaten tuna as it was being carved off of a freshly caught fish in Hawaii and let me tell you, that is an experience that will spoil you. I have 2 places I love here in the bay area but I do not share them lightly as they are already normally busy and I do like to get a seat at the bar.
5. I COOK! You ladies you heard right. I cook. My grandmother taught me to cook starting when I was 6. I can make you truly authentic chicken fried steak, mashed potatoes and gravy, (did I mention she was southern?) but I am still working on the perfect biscuit.
And yup once again this list is incomplete but I will continue to add as I go.
Six things I could never do without
1. Books
2. Hockey/Baseball (Is this cheating?)
3. Movies/Music (See above note)
4. Technology
5. Friends
6. Passion/Intimacy (Yes, again)
(Not necessarily in that order)
Crap! only 6 things? Really? Where the hell am I supposed to put coffee?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I can do to make the most out of what I have been given.
Good food and where to find it.
Where this newest chapter of my life is going to take me.
Does good BBQ even exist in California? So far the answer is no.
Where the best secluded make out spots are.
On a typical Friday night I am
Lately the answer to this question tends to be "working". Trying to do better with the work/life balance thing though.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I was 5 I destroyed the hopes and dreams of an entire kindergarten class...

Also I used a Magic 8 Ball to answer most of the questions on here.
You should message me if
A friend asked me if I knew what I was looking for and this was what came out in the moment. This, in a nutshell, is what I am looking for right now so if any of it fits or resonates with you lets talk: (Cut and paste directly from the aforementioned conversation)

"What I really want is a woman that truly enjoys being with me when we are together and vice versa.. Someone I LOVE talking to and being close to. Someone that is attractive and attracted to me…
Someone I can be both passionate AND playful with.. sometimes separately and sometimes both at the same time...

Someone to go out to dinner and a movie with or to stay at home in bed for a whole day...
All of that without the need or expectation of being together ALL the time..."

Also if any or all of the below are true of you:

Anything I have said in my profile causes you to want to know more about me.
If you can prove me wrong about the lack of good BBQ in California.
You know (or want to know) what an "inside straight draw" and a "backdoor flush" are.
You want to debate any issue big or small, serious or silly.
A steamy make out session can be just as enjoyable for you as "going all the way".
You think it would be awesome to experience a new restaurant with a new friend and flirt over dinner.
You'll help me pick a crappy movie apart while cuddled up on the couch sipping a glass of wine or a good beer.
You want to find out if I am really good at what I claim to be good at.
Hell if you think I'm cute and just wanna jump me. ;)
The two of us