I'm Jay...a rare Nashville area native, starting fresh from a very long drawn out divorce.
Recently relocated back from NYC...BK, Wyckoff off the L! What's up!!
As much as I adore the Big Apple, there's just something to be said for being able to go outside barefoot and simply put ones toes in the grass. :)
Do have one 9 yr old son that lives with his mother on the other side of the world...no baby-mama drama...
I like to travel, non-work related, when possible...Italy is on my list for 2014. I love enjoying a quiet night at home of cooking a nice dinner and just hanging out as much as being out and about. I just like being...well...happy and satisfied. :) I go wherever when I feel like it and stay home when I don't.
I can never think of anything to say when asked to describe myself. I might think of myself as totally different than how someone else perceives me. Send me a message instead of just reading what I think you want to hear. :)
Of course, looking for that one best friend to share it all with, but my focus is to make some new friends since relocating back to TN and discover some new things and people....one step at a time. :)
I've worn lots of hats...former NASCAR media driver, test driver for a major car magazine, ran a nightclub on Bourbon St in NOLA, worked in movies and television, and so on. "Retired" from concert touring (a "roadie", if you will.) I'm now working as a freelance Production Coordinator for live events...concerts, festivals, conventions, VIP events, fashion shows, movie premieres...as well as dabbling in local entrepreneurship and philanthropy. I'm active with St Judes charities, as well as a couple other smaller local programs.
But in general, I'm just being the best me I can be. :)
And yes, I really did graduate from Space Camp...when I was 12. Don't judge me. Lol!
That they didn't realize what a freak I really am since I tend to be so quiet and reserved.
After that, how inordinately friendly I tend to be...when I want to be.
I'm told I'm easy to talk to, get along with.
And honestly, I'm getting more and more nice booty compliments lately. Hahaha!!!
I generally read for knowledge instead of entertainment though.
Movies, hmmm. Well, my degree is in film/video technology...so you'll either love or hate watching movies with me. More often than not I can tell you the entire plot line within the first 15 minutes...its all a well crafted formula, carefully honed over many, many years.
Music....anything I can feel...Bill Withers, Etta James, Ray Charles, Billy Paul, Lee Fields and the Expressions, Freddie King, Ozric Tentacles, Jack White, Dead Weather, Black Keys, AC/DC, Led Zepplin, Motorhead, Johnny Cash, Charlie Daniels, Stravinsky, Paganini, Tchaikovsky...I really do like just about anything.
There's so much I have done and do like, but I like finding new things to enjoy. :)
Show me something new. I may be able to do the same.
-Honesty...does this really need explaining?
-Solid friends...friends that couldn't bail you out of jail because they're right there with you. ;)
-A fabulous lady. I mean, really...who the hell wants to be alone in life, all the time? If you did, you wouldn't be here.
-sunglasses...staring into bright lights is sometimes a job requirement. Haha.
-a razor...gotta keep everything tight and clean, right?
Right now, thinking about the next opportunity.
Are you really still reading this? Oh just say hi already.
-In-school suspension came about in TN because of me...true story.
-I get giddy like a 16 year old school girl about Katy Perry. Problem? I didn't think so.
-I'm a sucker for smilies and the ellipsis.
-I worked in the porn industry for about a year.
-If you're not so lost in your life you expect someone else to do it for you. (ie, self stability...you've got some things going on in your life. I'll absolutely help my lady if she is truly in need, but I'm not a sugar daddy. )
-You're tired of reading my wall of text.
-You have a really awesome spot that you think I should experience, but doubt I'd find on my own....on a day/night out, I mean...maybe.
-If you're NOT insecure enough that you have a problem that I still have friends in a former line of employment in my "what will I admit" section.
-You want to have a better chance at surviving the zombie apocalypse.
...or if you would just like to say hi. That'd be fine too. Seriously, I'm pretty damn friendly. :D