52Portland, United States
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My self-summary
I'm complex, thoughtful, loving, creative, and intelligent. I'm very open spiritually and believe each of us has to work out his or her own relationship with the universe. I believe we have a lot more power to find our true paths than most of us acknowledge. I'm well-rounded and have diverse interests and tastes.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working on practical goals and trying to find time for creative work. I'm also examining where I've been and where I would like to go/what I would like to accomplish. I hope to find someone who will value my abilities and be willing to help with my challenges, someone who will gladly welcome me into his life. It's so much nicer to share life with a pleasant companion. I tend to automatically look for and see the best in people. I'd like to find a kind, stable, and sincere person.
I’m really good at
Listening, conversing, healing, intuition, music, theatre, weight training, skating, cooking, writing, making friends with animals.
The first things people usually notice about me
It depends on the person doing the noticing or if I want to be noticed. I've received positive comments on my hair, my eyes, my humor and intelligence, my voice, something unusual I might be wearing... I hope you'll notice that I'm smart, funny (and also sincere), sensitive, creative, and interesting in good ways.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like biographies, literary fiction, and a wide range of other literature. I enjoy character-driven films or those with a quirky or esoteric theme. I'm musically diverse, though prefer anything with deep feeling and power in it. Food...I'm diverse here, too, though prefer healthful stuff across many different cuisines. Load on the veggies, please! I really enjoy good company and a nice meal.
Six things I could never do without
Six is so random. I'll ignore it. Friends; deep conversation; kindness; love; good food; silliness; seriousness; loyalty; truth; honor; and something to read, create, or think about. Something to inspire me. Hope. Appreciation. A spiritual sense of connection and purpose. A sense of humor.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...what we're all doing here in the cosmic scheme of things. How we can help and support each other through a crazy, beautiful, terrible, mixed up world. What is each person's life purpose and how do they all work together. Cooking. New things to read, experience, learn, or create. Making and achieving goals. The patterns in life, what they mean, and how to learn from everything and everyone.

I also wonder how a serious lifelong book lover like myself could get pegged as "less well-read" on the personality portion of this site. Perhaps I've not answered the right questions.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sharing music, reading, researching, communicating with friends, writing. I like sharing a meal, seeing a film or theatrical performance, or just talking.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If you get to know me well enough, I'm pretty much an open book.
You should message me if
You're serious about finding a long-term partner if things really click and seem to work on that level. You're brave, kind, diligent, and loyal. You're a good communicator. You have a fondness for animals.

You're not particularly interested in alcohol (preferably do not use it at all) and don't do drugs. You have a sense of humor, but don't make a joke out of everything. You're accepting of natural healing methods. You are spiritually open to different views.

You are a superhero, in disguise or overtly. You are financially stable and willing to welcome someone caring into your life. You like an intelligent and sensitive partner. You have a loving, open, and generous soul and are naturally monogamous. You enjoy a variety of food and music.

You want to get to know me better. You'd like to see a picture and/or meet me. You'd like to take me to dinner, coffee, the gym, a play, a skating rink, horseback riding, or to a concert or music event. If things are really going well and we've known each other long enough, a trip to the coast would be fun. I'm also happy with a simple walk once I get to know you well enough or a cup of tea or meal/snack at any time.
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