46Fultonville, United States
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My self-summary
I am NOT looking for a relationship. Also not looking for casual sex with someone I haven't even met. I have been let down by people who I thought I could depend on lately so I'm really not interested in anything too deep. I am looking for people with similar interests to do things with. This is my first time living by myself and it can be lonely. I like watching movies, listening to music, playing video games (casual), watching anime and reading manga. Sometimes I want to tell someone something and realize I have no one who would care. For example, I love that the Villager and Wii Fit Trainer are going to be in the new SSMB. It cracks me up, but I don't know anyone who would get the joke. I'm really getting into going out to see bands lately and I'd like to find someone who knows the local music scene to clue me in. I enjoy WEQX alternative type music. I have a lot of manga and anime and would be more than happy to share some suggestions for someone who may be just getting into it. Like anybody, I like talking about the things I enjoy. I think it would be in my best interests if I didn't continue having those conversations with just me.
What I’m doing with my life
That's what I'm trying to figure out. I thought I knew what my life was going to look like and what I wanted. Now I feel like my life is that old game Perfection.
I’m really good at
Over thinking. Being lucky; I win things. Undervaluing myself. Grammar. I'm trying to rediscover myself right now. Questions like this are tough.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my smile. If I'm not smiling, probably nothing or my glasses. I don't think I stand out.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Oh, boy! Lists, I love lists.
Movies: Roger Rabbit, Die Hard, Singing in the Rain, anything Hayao Miyazaki or Sergio Leone, The Princess Bride, Alien, Lord of the Rings, Jackie Chan, Columbo.
Books: The Lord of the Rings trilogy, Watership Down, One Hundred and One Dalmations by Dodie Smith, Siddhartha, Harry Potter, manga, Harlequin Spice.
Shows?: (I'm going to go with TV) anime, Criminal Minds, Doctor Who, NCIS, I only have Netflix and Hulu right now, so I'm limited.
Music: Rage Against the Machine, L'arc-en-Ciel, Korn, Marilyn Manson, Gorillaz, Radiohead, Boom Boom Satellites, Capital Cities, Arctic Monkeys. These are just the ones I've listened to multiple times. Actually got to see L'arc last year when their world tour hit the Garden. It was awesome!
Food: Italian, Chinese, Thai, Mexican. Not much meat, although I enjoy it when eating out.
Six things I could never do without
Other than the obvious necessities everyone needs, I'd have to say:
1. My computer. I use it for pretty much everything: keeping in touch, paying bills, shopping, entertainment, research, etc. I am not super impetuous; I like to plan at least for the necessities whenever I leave the house for the day. Which brings me to...
2. My GPS. If I haven't been somewhere before, I get lost very easily. Once I know where I am, though, Ms. Recalculating gets stowed quickly.
3. Human interaction. One of the main reasons I'm on this site. I'm living alone for the first time. While I am not averse to doing things by myself, doing everything alone can be, well, lonely. Also, I like people. I like how we're all different and every interaction pushes my mind in a new direction. I believe all people are basically good and want to be kind to one another. When I see that in action, it renews my faith.
4. Music. It just makes me happy.
5. My car. Although, I'd love if I lived somewhere that I didn't need it.
6. Sex. Well, I guess affection and passion really. I can orgasm anytime I want, but there's nothing like wanting someone and knowing they want you. I don't think I'd like making a date just for sex, though. It's like a mustache on a porn star. I prefer something more organic and spontaneous.
Gee, I didn't think coming up with six things would be so hard. I'm sure I'll probably think of a dozen things I should have written later on.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I want to do with the rest of my life. I feel like I've entered a second adolescence of sorts. All of my ideas of what my future would be were always something I thought of as for tomorrow. Suddenly all of those ideas are out the window and I have to start all over. What seemed a long way off feels more like now. I've always thought of myself as young, but now I feel like there isn't enough time. With so many options, I'm at a bit of a loss as to where to even begin. I know I should start small, but there's so much! I feel a little like Veruca Salt during her big solo.
On a typical Friday night I am
taking a nap or hanging at my friend's house before meeting the gang at the bar.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I call myself bi on my profile, but I've never actually had sexual contact with a woman. I just know I've always felt attracted to women. I would like to explore that part of myself more fully, but right now I am trying to get to know myself. I really lost who I am while I was married and I can't help but feel the need to question my judgement. Not a good time to jump into the deep end.
You should message me if
You live in the Albany area and you like to hang out, play pool, shoot darts, watch movies or listen to live music with friends. If you live more than an hour away, I'm really not into traveling. If you're looking for arm candy or someone to take care of you, please don't waste my time. I do have an FWB, but it would be nice to cuddle occasionally or have someone to hold hands with in public. I miss affection.
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