I prefer to follow my own narrative based on experiences. I can talk about anything and think its time to evolve the dialogue. I notice haircuts. I sometimes say things I don't mean. I listen when others are speaking and participate in two-way conversations. I will shake your dads hand and look your mom in the eye. I have a smile that can light up a room and my energy is infectious. I am intense at times but I am also silly, impulsive and light-hearted at other times. I can be serious when I need to be. I'm rarely bored and rarely predictable. I'm not secretive and prefer opening doors to closing them. I enjoy naps. While I am sex positive, I enjoy sex most with someone worth waking up to. I cry when I need to and I can tell you how I feel. In tough times, I tough it out. I like to live in the now. I am intuitive and rarely led astray by my intuition. I am comfortable being alone but I can be gregarious when I want to be. I thoroughly enjoy my downtime because I've earned it. I'm confident but not egoic. I am compassionate and often champion the underdog. I lean into people that I like. I may even touch them. I surround myself with people that help me grow and I generously return the favor. I tell those close to me how much it means to have them in my life. I have deep eyes that can see through faces and illusions.
If proximity is a major factor in your life, I live in Sonoma. If that is a concern at this stage (the profile viewing stage aka stage 0), then stop reading here -> ;)
When you quiet the noise, its amazing what you can hear. When you stop staring into the lights, its amazing what you can see. When you stop trying to feel, its amazing what you can feel.
During the day, I work in new media & web software and I have my own photography biz. All other times I work on me.
My sense of humor: Team America, Paul Mooney, Strangers with Candy/Amy Sedaris, Dave Chappelle, Samantha B and almost anything Kristin Wiig does.
My music taste: Space Cowboys/Shissla/8Ball, Nickodemus, Cut Chemist, Sia, M83, Silversun Pickup, MIA, Tom Eno, Gotye, Santigold , Die Antwoord, Muse, Balkan Beat Box, Adele , Royksopp & Jay-Z (maybe not all together unless you are a truly gifted DJ)
My food taste: a quality hotdog (no pun), Vietnamese, Thai, Himalayan, Nachos, BBQ (Carolina!).
In the city, possibly at dinner with friends or a cocktail somewhere interesting.
Sometimes curled up, horizontal under a warm blanket or cuddling with my pup.
Oh yeah...And I'm really 44. Are you really how old you say you are?
Maybe you're not all of these things. Maybe you want to be. Maybe you don't have the time. Maybe it scares you. Maybe I'm here to help. Maybe now... Maybe tomorrow... Maybe never... Maybe forever... Maybe... Maybe...