29Carnegie, United States
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
My self-summary
Hey there peeps!

Yes, I was born with a male body and parts. However, I am not a man. I am a woman. I have not transitioned yet but want to do so some time this year. There is no timetable on this so you'll just have to accept it and understand where I'm coming from. There's no leeway on this.

I'm on here to find friends, potential partners, and/or playmates who might be interested in me as a woman. Please continue reading if you're intrigued...

I do have a girlfriend and we are both bi and non-monogamous. I can find other partners so don't let this dissuade you.

Truthfully, I can be clingy. I like feelings and the concept of having them and exploring them. If you're in this just to bang and that's it then this won't work for us. I'm not interested in getting married either. A happy medium is good with me.

I don't need you to shower me with material possessions. I just need you to cuddle with me, be a good listener, and let me whine. I'm such a whiner. I whine about dumb things. Just let me vent sometimes, even if it's meaningless, and everything will be fine lol.

If you want the type of girl who will clean and cook you dinner then I might not be your gal. However, I do want to look to cook. I also don't mind the idea of dressing up like your favorite anime waifu or maid, teehee ;)

I'm also a feminist. Not a feminazi. I don't like Anti Sarkeesian. I do like gender equality though. Those things are not mutually exclusive.

I'm also the submissive type. Take that as you will ;)
What I’m doing with my life
Back at work in IT field. Trying to figure out this whole "gender" thing. I'm not so sure I believe in binaries at all. I don't like the way society throws roles and mannerisms into genders and expect people to behave in those prisms.

Otherwise, I'm just being a weeb and watching anime and playing video games.
I’m really good at
I'm good at not being a bad person. I'm an open minded person who tries to be as understanding towards people as I can. I also have no talent so there's that lol
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes and the fact that I act so nice. The reason I act so nice is because it's hard for me to be my true self at first. Don't get me wrong, I generally am nice but I overdo it at first. I'm usually a goofball.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm not much of a book reader, honestly. However, if you do, that's ok. Don't hate the player, hate the game (well I don't hate books so that didn't make any sense).

Some of my favorite movies are Star Wars, Pulp Fiction, James Bond, and Rocky. I like most genres honestly.

Some of my favorites shows are The Wire, Star Trek: The Next Generation, The Fresh Prince of Bel Air, and Law & Order: Special Victims Unit. No, I don't like Murder She Wrote. NEVER ASK THAT AGAIN!

When it comes to music, I pretty much can listen to almost anything except for bland, generic electronic pop music and country music. Love me some Queen, Breaking Benjamin, Eminem, Genesis, Lady Gaga, and more. Yeah, I like Lady Gaga. Wanna fight in the streets about that? Bro, you don't want this!

Food? Food rocks. I'm trying out some bodybuilding.com recipies so I can lose weight. It's working so far. Down to 171 from 192.

It's a shame and video games and anime aren't listed on here though. I could have said something about them but I guess okcupid is way too cool for that. I'm totally tame and not a rule breaker so I suppose if you wanted to know what games and anime I liked, you could always ask. Though, I will add that I love Gundam. What is Gundam? That's the perfect ice breaker question to ask me (unless you don't like long-winded and super excited responses).
Six things I could never do without
I couldn't do without eating, breathing, sleeping, extremities, speaking, and computers. I could do without people shaming others. That would be great but hey, what'cha gonna do? lol
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what awesome clothes I want to buy at Forever 21. I never used to be a fashionista but I think that's going to change lol
On a typical Friday night I am
Friday nights usually just entail me chillin at my place. I usually do most of my activities on Saturday and Sunday. I'm pretty flexible though. This was when I was working which was the typical 9-5 M-F stuff.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
On here, I can admit that I cried for the first time when I found out professional wrasslin' was "fake." I was in the 6th grade and I was sad. For those scoring at home, I still do watch WWE. It's just a part of me at this point.
You should message me if
you think I'd be a cute girl. I mean, I wanna be cute, ya know? I wanna be flirty and cute and adorable and squeezable.

You should message me if you're an understanding person. It's not easy to explain who I am. If you like anime and nerdy stuff too, that'd be cool. Also, if you got any female-based advice for me, I'd love to hear it. I'd to learn about female mannerisms, makeup, fashion, and what not as I'm very new to these things.

I am interested in friendships, poly relationships, and more with men and/or women.

You shouldn't message me if you're a typical dude bro or person who hates Muslims just because you don't understand the difference between ISIS people and non-ISIS people.

I like being courted. Don't expect me to send the first message. I want to feel like I'm wanted so please make the first attempt and make it good ;)
The two of us