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My self-summary
I'm looking to make more friends, I am happily married. I am a Bisexual, Poly, Kinky, and I love intelligent conversation. I am a bit of a bookworm, I love to read supernatural fiction, historical, sci-fi, and Vampire books. Otherwise I can be found cooking or baking in my kitchen, doing all kinds of art from beading, or sewing, to drawing or painting. I also love photography and photo editing on my computer. I love all kinds of music some pop, to trip rock, and about everything in between, though I do admit I don't understand most Hip hop and modern Rap.

I am creative, sassy, and sexy
What I’m doing with my life
Ummm... living?

I'm in IT ( have you turned it off and on again?), I'm in help desk support. Taking care of my daughter, or does chueffer fit better... not sure. :D
I’m really good at
Wouldn't you like to know... ;)

According to my friends and my daughter's friends at school (yes they will ask to try her lunch at times) I am one hell of a good cook. I make one mean apple pie... I have been told by people that hate fruit pies that they love my apple pie. I bake and cook almost everything from scratch if possible.

Drawing, kissing, and using my imagination... in all kinds of ways...
The first things people usually notice about me
I am not sure really... maybe my tattoos, maybe my ummm... ample endowments (my chest), or the large proliferation of Hello Kitty I have, maybe? I have even been told that I can come off being a little intimidating or shy, but I am actually rather out going and kind (unless you get on my bad side).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
To much of all of these to mention... Ugh!
Books... some of my favorite authors in no certain order: Charlaine Harris, Laurell K. Hamilton, Neil Gaimen, Neil Stephenson, Shel Silverstein, Anne Rice (before she sold her soul), William Shakespeare, Alfred Lord Tennyson, & Edgar Allen Poe. These are just some of them...

Movies... hard to say a favorite, I like so many kinds, I am not a typical Girl I love going to see a action flick. I love anything by Tim Burton (I loved Alice in Wonderland), Kevin Smith, Cameron Crowe. Cult classics, Thought provoking dramas, silly romantic comedies, Black and White, Musicals, and I love indie films. Specifics: Alice in Wonderland (new and old), Dogma, Chasing Amy, Almost Famous, No Reservations, Lords of Dogtown, Domino, Center Stage, Save the Last Dance, The Breakfast Club (I love 80's teen movies), Love and Other Drugs, Rocky Horror, & and the list goes on... Oh and I forgot my love of Vamp, Werewolf, other supernatural creatures, & campy Zombie Movies.

Music: Well we could be here forever with me listing music. Classical to Texas Music, Oldies to Metal, Country to Swing and Old standards, musical soundtracks to celtic and world music, and I love trip rock. Some stuff I have on my iPod: Blue October (one of my favs), James McMurtry, Sarah McLaughlin, Ani DiFranco, The soundtrack to "Once More With Feeling", the Rent soundtrack, some songs from GLEE, Trading Yesterday, Stabbing Westward, Green Issac, The Gathering, Metallica and Many, many more.

TV: 2 words Joss Whedon. I love all of his work, so she I am a browncoat, A scooby, a doll junkie, and Angelite. Other wise I like those cerebral type shows (Lie to Me, Criminal Minds, Without a Trace, and others), weird kind of off the wall comedies (The Big Bang Theory, How I Met Your Mother), dramadies (United States of Tara), shows were teens sing all the time (Yep, I'm a GLEEK), British comedies, and some anime. So are we on info over load yet? Don't worry there will be a test later. :)

Food: Asian (Chinese, Thai, Korean, Japanese, you get the idea), Southern Soul Food (Good old stick to the ribs down home cooking), Caribbean, South American, Auth. Mexican, Tex-Mex, Fusion cooking, French food, Italian.... ok I just like Food Good Food!

I bake and loved baked goods from scratch, and unless it is royal icing on cookies, or the royal or syrupy icing on bunt cakes, There is no such thing as real icing on cakes unless it is butter cream icing.... especially with real butter.... mmmmmm.
Six things I could never do without
1. My family
2. My geeky Mac toys (iPhone, iPad, and MacBook Pro)
3. My black bag of fun goodness ;)
4. A good book
5. Sex
6. my drawing supplies
I spend a lot of time thinking about
42... ok well other stuff too like what I want to be when I finally decide to grow up (ok I am a grownup, but I like to think I am not at times :P)... What we are having for dinner... sex... laundry... what am I gonna wear this weekend... sex... key lime pie... sex...whipped cream... Ummm wow I digress... a lot it looks like...

I can be a very serious person at times... but not always as you can see. :P
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging with friends, hanging out with the family, out with friends... never a boring time around here.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
mmm... Wouldn't you like to know? ;)
You should message me if
You like to:
meet new people
you like intellectual conversation
to talk to someone that is not just here to pick up someone for a one night stand (I have no problems with them, but I prefer I know the people I let in my bed)
You understand Poly is not about cheating on my spouse (yes he will know about you if it looks remotely promising, maybe even if not.) and that he is not cheating on me.
You have questions about poly.
You know what a Quirt is and you know how to use it.
You are into to Kink.
You just want to meet a genuine person, who is a little eccentric, and a bit quirky, and can hang with it.
The two of us