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My self-summary
I'm kind of over the casual hook-up thing. Not that it was ever my ideal scenario. I think I was just in a negative space for a few years and didn't have much hope for people (including myself) to achieve the kind of intimate in-love connection we all secretly want. Or maybe we don't. I don't know. I do. It makes the sex SO MUCH BETTER.

For eleven years, I only worked Mon/Tues, and even that "workend" (as my friends called my work "week") was mostly optional. If I hung out w someone for a while and it wasn't transcendent but we were friends and liked similar things, it was okay with me that after a month or two or three or six I wasn't head over heels...because I always had MORE TIME.

Then I fired my distributor. To the day I die, I will be in awe of myself for moving through the unprecedented levels of terror I experienced in making such a ginormous shift. I didn't know I had it in me. Discovering that I DO have it in me has been one of the most amazing experiences of my life...

However it left me with no free time at all, for over a year, and somewhere along the way, every minute became precious...and I became more inclined to treat them as such- to fill them only with people and things and activities that truly satiate, fulfill and make me happy. There wasn't time anymore for fast food AND gourmet encounters. I had to choose.

Not to say that casual hookups lack meaning and don't make people happy, because we are all different and love different things, and if that is your authentic pathway to bliss then follow it, enjoy! I'm just saying that for me, Right Now, I'm in a place where I.............still want the friendship and liking similar things bit, but I also want to fall in love. It's been a while and I'm in a really positive happy place in my life.
What I’m doing with my life
After spending the past 15 months building our own distribution system, I'm finally starting to have time to go back to circus school, and the other night I played piano for the first time since March 2016. The Aerial 101 class kicked my ass and I've lost a lot of strength but my body was soooooo happy to be in its favorite position again: upside-down and as high above the ground as the ceiling will allow. I will not be performing any flawless Chopin any time soon again either but it felt amazing just to have the keys beneath my fingers.

I just finished 100 Days Raw Vegan that I did with my cousin to heal his advanced diabetes this spring (blind, body parts being amputated bc of infections the drs couldn't heal, etc) and Mission Accomplished! Even his vision returned, and the "dead" nerves that drs say cannot regenerate, regenerated so fast that in less than a month he regained full use of his hands which had been numb and useless for years. (We didn't grow the foot back but as we're starting another 100 days next week, I'm not ruling it out.)

He agreed to do this because I did the same thing with his mother two years ago. It turns out I love feeding people the most delicious nutritious elevating high vibration happy healing lovefood on the planet and seeing them HEAL THEMSELVES. I also love stealing our abominable health industry's best customers away from them. My aunt was spending $1200/month on insulin and consequently "couldn't afford to eat expensive healthy food". But after only 18 days raw vegan she was 100% off the meds and wow! Now she has $1200/month to spend on way more fun things than overpriced pharmaceuticals that don't even work...even after you subtract the dollars she now gives to her local health food market instead of her national drugs-that-don't-work-and-have-disastrous-side-effects company!

I'm considering transitioning into doing this for a living I love it so much.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair color... my laugh... my smile...

People always think I'm high, even on the many occasions when I'm not. I hear it's a common side effect of living a raw vegan lifestyle ... But lest you be one of those vegans who writes things like "YOU SHOULD DIE" to the vegans on youtube or IG when you see them wearing leather, I must warn you that sometimes I wear leather. I also go on and off cheese (right now off). I wish I was one of those vegans who is disgusted by cheese, but sadly, even though I am aware of the cruelty and torture that produces it, and the detrimental effects of eating animals and animal by-products on the environment/planet, not to mention the body I myself inhabit, my addicted taste buds persist in craving cheese. I'm doing the best I can guys. Every time I do a cleanse it takes me longer to go back to cheese. It's been four months now...maybe this will be the time I won't go back? I probably shouldn't even call myself "vegan" until I am as perfect as the militant activist vegans ha.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
For non-fiction I'm currently reading The Tapping Solution by Nick Ortner and Stealing Fire by Steven Kotler and Jamie Wheal. Kotler's Rise of Superman changed my life. Have read all of Malcolm Gladwell.

Love sexy literary fiction a la Nicholas Baker, Anne Rice. Channeled books are fun (Bashar, Barbara Marciniak). Non-sexy literary fiction is good too (and sexy in its own way, to literary nerds like myself), like early Douglas Coupland and Martin Amis. The Beat Poets did it for me for a long time- Kerouac, Burroughs etc. In the fantasy fiction realm The Amber Chronicles are number one for me, though the first time I read Tolkien I had the sensation that I was reading the true secret history of the planet. Octavia Butler is brilliant.

Last movie I saw and loved was Wonder Woman which made me cry at the thought of all the little girls today getting to grow up with a badass Gal Gadot role model. Love 3-D movies. Avatar was spectacular. Saw the last Star Wars in 4-D which blew my mind. I do prefer the more unique creative approaches of European movies to Hollywood blockbusters in general, tho reading subtitles after 11pm can put me to sleep, so if it's later in the evening, best if I only attempt movies in languages I speak.

I watched all of Breaking Bad twice.

Currently obsessed with Sufjan Stevens' Carrie & Lowell, and Planetarium. Been re-discovering Buena Vista Social Club and Manu Chao. Bjork from back in the day. Current favorite Spotify stations: Kalya Scintilla, The Human Experience, Tipper, Stereo Express, The Polish Ambassador, Bach Inventions & Sinfonias, Violin Partitas...I enjoy a vast range of sonic experiences. I am hardpressed to think of a more peak experience than doing aerial pole to dubstep.

Last place I ate out was Sage in Echo Park, before that Cafe Gratitude, before that Farmer & Cook (Ojai)...this was ALL yesterday lol. We started a juice cleanse today (6/22/17) so yesterday we prefaced it just the way you're not supposed to: by eating all the solid foods we imagine we're going to miss the most. Sage happened only because Au Lac DTLA and SunCafe were closed- but that being said, Sage's vegan chilaquiles and Spicy Avocado Mac & Cheese are TO DIE FOR, AND they finally offer wine yay!

Speaking of wine, my favorite places to have it: Black Cat, Semi Tropic, Figaro Cafe, Stella Cafe.
Six things I could never do without
Aerial arts
Radiant health
My devices
My awesome rent-controlled situation in Silverlake
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My next raw vegan creation :)))

How I'm going to steal the remaining 30 million diabetics in this country away from the horrific health anti-care business that profits off suffering and the continuance of disease.

The female upper body vs. the male upper body and how much more comfortable and nice it feels to be topless as opposed to being strapped into a bra/bikini top- male chests are just as sexy and attractive as female chests so it is ridiculous that only men are "allowed" to be topless in public and on social media etc...I am counting on millenials to #freethefemalenipple !
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't have typical Friday nights. Any night can be Friday for me. It's sometimes more fun to go out on other nights when places aren't as crowded.
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