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My self-summary
First off, let me start by saying, I am real; I do everything in my power to not lie to people, even if it hurts me or another. I have lost friends over my honesty and unwillingness to lie. It is very important to me that people understand my motives. It is very important to me that I am not lied to; I do not abide by it. I even try hard to avoid "white lies", and though I am far from perfect and have a willingness to hear an apology, it is by far the biggest turn off, next to apathy or a heart driven towards anger or hate.

Also, my apologies to anyone who messages me and thinks I disappeared; real life gets hectic and sometimes going online just isn't on my mind, then by the time I remember, I'm pretty sure everyone I was talking to thinks I'm a dick. "My bad" is all I can say for now with little reason other than work and family as distractions.

I am 6'& 2" tall, so you better be prepared for it. I have full, plush lips and a pierced tongue. My hair is naturally a dark brown. I am a thick girl and I make a good pillow. n.n;

I am pretty outgoing. I'm generally personable and like the occasional social scene. I'll go to a club every now and then, but usually intimate forays are common with me. I thoroughly despise the Gay 90s for multiple reasons (mostly concerning the poor service, regardless of gender).

I love to table-top RP, OL RP, play video games, MMORPGs and other things often categorized as "nerdy".

I am Christian, but don't let that push you away. I studied Tai Chi for a couple years and learned about other faith traditions back in high school to see which one I wanted to be a part of before deciding. God is the biggest part of my life and, though my faith is an integral part of me, I try not to be judgmental, because it is not my place and only causes Christians to misrepresent our beliefs to unbelievers. I don't bible bash.

As the saying goes, "Don'tt judge people because they sin differently than you," and I take this to heart.

I like to meditate. I love pets, to read and write...even to dance. I love learning. I like learning about new cultures and I have an interest in computers and electronics. I would study them more thoroughly and build them myself had I the time and money.

I get really busy sometimes and I probably don't get a chance to contact people like I probably should, or do things I really wanted. On the same page, I get a little lazy sometimes and just don't want to do things I coulda/shoulda/woulda done in other circumstances, like call people. But I don't outright neglect friends. Right now I pretty much just seek friends.
What I’m doing with my life
I rent an apartment in St. Paul and have roommates. I want to be a returning student to Century College and I work for a mainstream oil company, though I still seek better employment. I have been through hell, but I'll be alright. I am taking this period of my life to get myself together. I have been exercising daily as part of my self change and I'm really excited about the results thus far! Its exciting to see results so quickly! Anyone want to go hiking with me? :) I am working towards being able to bike for a cure for something this summer and I'm getting there fast. Haven't decided the cause as of yet...maybe breast cancer...? Or something for children?
I’m really good at
Stuff. And Stuff that is completely random, and probably generally unnecessary as far as knowledge goes.

I'm an alright writer, considering the writing I've seen outside of professionals, I suppose. ...Unfortunately, I can't always remember the technical words for things; its mostly this almost inherent understanding. Iunno. :) I seek to change that.
The first things people usually notice about me
My height. It's something you can't help; if you meet me while I'm siting, you might think, "She's pretty," but then I stand to shake your hand and enough people have been taken aback by my height that I think it warrants mention. A lot of people I've met are shorter than me, but I used that to my advantage; if a person looks at me and judges me based on physical appearance, I'll know if they're worth my time or not.

Why attempt to continue communication with someone if they don't even take the time to get to know who you are?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
First, let me start off by saying I love being introduced to new things in music and readings. If you're someone who listens to something other than what I do, I would love to get to know you! I like sharing. :)

Books: I have a deep love for many different kinds of books. First obvious one would be The Holy Bible (Life Application Version - King James Version). Beyond that, The Earth Children Series, by Jean M. Auel, The Lord of the Rings Series, by J.R.R. Tolkien, The Harry Potter Series, by J.K. Rowling, "1984" by George Orwell, Chronicles of Narnia, by C.S. Lewis, and most anything by Shakespear, though yes, his writings are more plays than books.

Movies: I hold my interests in sci-fi and fantasy like Firefly and the Princess Bride... I also dig comedies, suspense, action, sometimes drama...like Jericho or The Colony. ...And Anime. Lots and lots of Anime. I don't get to watch it as much as I'd like, but if I did, I'd be such a huge Otaku.

Shows: Firefly, Robin Hood, (obsessed with) Doctor Who, Torchwood, Heroes, things like that... Don't actually watch television anymore; ah Netflix, my new friend. ^.^

Music: I love love love Daft Punk, Skrillex, Deadmau5, Chopin, Bach, Florence and the Machine, Royksopp and very recently found a group called Steam Powered Giraffe. Look them up, they're pretty epic and have amazing voices; I plan to go to the coming show this August in Minneapolis. ...Otherwise, almost anything beautiful or with a good beat and especially if there's loads of bass (dubstep gets me going, if you know what I mean)...

Foods: I like a wide variety of things (especially sushi) and occasionally find something I don't like, like tapioca pudding, but that doesn't close me off to new things...like something made using tapioca pudding, which might not be so bad, I suppose.
Six things I could never do without
2)My family tied with sustenance: love and foodstuffs are just basic human needs.
3)My sanity (or what's left of it).
4)Good intellectual/intimate company.
5)Good music of various genres.
6)Good books, also of various genres.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Many things... Mostly what I am going to do with my life direction. Being 26 and having gone through some scary incidents has recently made me acutely aware of my mortality. I am changing the core of who I am to who I want to be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working! I do the graveyard shift half the week. I don't go clubbing too much any more, though it is not out of the question. I tend to keep things pretty low key for the most part, even though my personality isn't usually. :P
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
A woman I was extraordinarily close to passed away April 13th, 2008. She was my best friend, and damn near a lover. I adored her, but we never went anywhere beyond friendship. I've gotten much better at dealing with the ache, but it still sometimes pains my heart. I think I blame myself still, even though it was her choice; hard pill to swallow.
You should message me if
...you love video games, love to read, support yourself financially and are willing to be just be friends for a while.

I didn't join -just- for sex, and I'm tired of people -only- contacting me for a one-night-stand. I am worth more than that.

Feel free to message me if you'd like to make a friend and can actually court a woman. Thanks. :)
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