Reactor4
30London, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
I'm a glass half full kind of guy...clumsy with drinks.

Been in a London for a while now, but still retain a little of the country mouse about me. :) Enjoy fairly intellectual pursuits and am a big reader and podcast consumer.

My hobbies are Brazilian jiu jitsu; which is wonderful, so much to learn, so many mysteries for me to work out. Also do a bit of yoga, the token inflexible male at a yoga class. Into meditation but avoid the new age stuff that seems unfortunately attached to it.

Also enjoy travelling a great deal; I've studied in Hong Kong, travelled round South East Asia and have spent a year in Latin America, being a unwilling castaway on an island for three weeks was a highlight! I also greatly enjoy gigs alongside good films and books(obviously don't enjoy bad ones!) also infrequently dabble in stand up.

If I could describe myself, I'd say I'm a pretty upbeat guy with a good sense of humour who enjoys doing new things. Extroverted and enjoy the company of others but need time to myself as well. Also quite introspective, probably to a fault, but think that I have a good handle on myself.

I also bet you a drink I can make you smile :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Attempting to be as happy and content as I can be. Attempting to know and understand myself better.

Practicing and loving Brazilian jiu jitsu, which to the untrained eye looks like two men rolling around the floor in a sweaty embrace, which is exactly correct 😊 but it's also a whole lot more than that.

Job wise working as a financial analyst and maintaining above average Excel skills.
I’m really good at
Remembering lots of disparate facts, aiming to improve myself, sleeping like a log.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Siddartha- Hesse, Watership Down- Adams, 1984 - Orwell, East if Eden - Steinbeck, Meditations- Marcus Aurelius

Music: Beck, The National, Belle and Sebastian, Brian Eno, Blur, Bowie

Food: Anything considered chopstick food.

More interesting is why you like these things rather than what they are. Better
done in person 😊
Six things I could never do without
The breath
Attention
Friends and family.
Conversation
Something exciting to look forward to.
a sense of optimism
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How strange and wonderful it all is. How my mind works.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
On here, that I have once mistakenly worn tights to work.
You should message me if
You are an upbeat, open minded person who thinks that there is too much in this life to just sit around bored

Think of yourself as intellectual in some way.

Are self aware and Interested in improving yourself.

Believe that honesty is paramount; anything else is a barrier between the true nature of things.

Are empathic and are curious in general.
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