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My self-summary
I'm DIFFERENT. If you are not ok with different, I'm not the one for you.

I engage in direct, grown up communication and prefer to meet right away to gauge real life chemistry. Same should go for you.

I'm intelligent, affectionate, loyal, tough--and tender--earthy but sophisticated. My passions are editing quality motion pictures and watching my 10 yr old son grow up.

I am fit and sensual. This doesn't make me a player (I'm monogamous not poly.)

LIKES: Children, quality movies/tv, kissing, whole organic food, baseball/basketball, underdogs, Charlie Hebdo, hiking in redwoods, water, directness, wit, joy, tomboys, curls and grey, deep divers, sass, trampoline-ing, sarcasm, iconoclastic thinkers, affection, those who have one's back, mavericks, fine craftsmanship, women with meat on their bones, great books, order, bucking at propriety, singers/dancers, routine, big hearts, making love, scatological humor, minimalism, random kindness, women with strong male energy, egalitarian relationships, good Samaritans, women with husky voices, self-reliance, old folks who've lived, unique voices/accents, and MORE!

DISLIKES: Political Correctness, harming the young, pretension, cravenly commercial media, marketing (except with a basket), religion, phonies, poor quality goods, rackets (legal and illegal), spiritual materialism, plastic bags, travel junkies, food with a million ingredients, comic book movies/tv, the notion of fashion, identity politics, party thinking, propriety, green-washing marketing, the increasing leverage of the 1%, encouraging panhandling by giving change, knives in the back, pretension, indirectness, urban folks with multiple big dogs, PC "thinkers", skin color bias and--I promise!--not too many MORE!

Those who spend more money on clothes or travel than on food. The religious and the excessively conventional. Those not willing (or able) to be near Lake Merritt often (I'm a bicycle and Lyft traveler.) Those who would insist on bringing a pet on a first date. Those who are dog-centric, especially with big dogs (cats are ok).

I am proud to use this ancient tool of natural science. If I like your profile, I'll most likely ask if you for your birth info or Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars placements. My birth info and placements are: APR 29, 1965; 6:40pm; SF, CA (Taurus Sun & Venus, Aries Moon, Virgo Mars, Libra Rising)

Regardless of whether we're a good astro match, I will offer to share with you the compatibility report I generate with my astrology program. The report contains lots of good general astro info about each of us so it has value beyond any compatibility. If you're concerned, one cannot do anything sketchy with birth info alone, unless you offer up your SSN and last name, which I strongly discourage.

6 "The Loyalist" with a 5-Wing "The Defender"

The Golden Rule
What I’m doing with my life
Preparing and eating healthy food, editing motion pictures and sound , playing ball with my son, trampoline-ing, skipping around Lake Merritt (yes, I skip!)
I’m really good at
Affection, wit, kissing, massaging, being real, playing with children, analyzing, having your back.
The first things people usually notice about me
Down-to-earth attractiveness. Then--after some time with me--warmth and sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
TV: Billions, Better Call Saul, The Walking Dead, Ray Donovan, Alpha House, House of Cards, Wolf Hall, The Wire, The Bridge (Scandi), Bleak House (05), Duchess of Duke Street, Deadwood, Line of Duty, Top of the Lake, The Way We Live Now, Wallander (Scandi and Brit), The Killing, In Treatment, To Serve Them All My Days, I, Claudius and MORE!

MOVIES: All is Lost, The Celebration, Crimes and Misdemeanors, Tootsie, The Hunt and too many Classics to mention (Film Noir and Westerns are fav genres).

AUTHORS: Conrad, Cain, Chandler, Roth, Elliot, Stephen Arroyo, Grant Lewi, Stanley Keleman

MUSIC: Dire Straits (Mark Knopfler), Bee-Gees, Stones, Springsteen, Dolly Parton, Beatles, Van Morrison, Marvin Gaye, George Jones, Willie Nelson, Counting Crows, Rufus Wainwright, Kris Kristofferson, Merle Haggard, Show Tunes and MORE.

FOOD: Pretty much Paleo/Keto. I prepare most of the meals I eat and eat mostly whole food.
The six things I could never do without
Water, whole food, shelter, my son, exercise, internet (streaming)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
A multitude of things philosophical and practical. Motion pictures I'm working on or viewing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Streaming something after a skip around the lake. Yes, I am a skipper.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm very open: ask me.
You should message me if
You have read my profile, are available, are intrigued, believe in meeting in real life right away and communicate like a grown up.