49Minneapolis, United States
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My self-summary
I've been engaged & in some wonderful relationships but for various logical reasons I have not yet married. You'll be to my liking if you're 40 ish to 60 ish & a devilishly handsome gentleman ... a heartthrob with heart.

Admirers say I'm lovely, vibrant, creative, a sharp dresser, smart, interesting, & a good conversationalist. I am discovery-oriented & live well within my means. I seek a financially stable & fairly established man. Someone unpretentious, like me, with integrity.

I'm family oriented & may be open to being a stepmom, etc. There are benefits too - to meeting a man without children. I love celebrations, events of all kinds, recreational activities & frugal traveling. (I have a basic campervan for road trips.) I enjoy nature, especially being on, in, or near the water & I am a novice photographer.

I make a point to broaden my mind & awareness continually. I investigate topics of interest (current & world events, scientific, psychological, economic, etc. findings) & I like a good philosophical discussion/debate. I equally appreciate any chance for laughter & am naturally silly when at ease.

I'm not on here to write many messages or instant message. I want to cut-to-the-chase & talk to select sincere, thoughtful gentlemen by phone as soon as it feels comfortable. Let's evaluate the potential of meeting face to face & see how the spirit moves us.
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently a personal assistant after previous positions in Marketing, Development and Interior Design. I am evaluating several business ideas.

I attend activity groups like discussion/educational ones, live performances & social groups. I am open to developing more healthy, respectful, mutually fulfilling friendships with like-minded people.

I continue to practice living both peacefully and/or excitedly in the moment. I've learned to let go of things more, rather than let them bother me. I know what I want & don't want, for the most part, in my life.

I'm continuing to improve myself & to become more empowered - and do my best to encourage others.
I’m really good at
Being in tune with others, readily putting people at ease, being respectful & taking plenty of time to listen & validate.

Finding great deals, generating ideas & preparing healthy foods.

Being playful with adults & children; I can be very nurturing. Exceptional kissing (it takes two) & providing (exchanging) some nice massages when in a great relationship!

Being extremely tenacious, very resourceful & eager to overcome obstacles.
The first things people usually notice about me
My piercing blue eyes, beautiful smile, long pretty hair & shapely legs. My genuineness, openness & caring ways.

My confidence shines! My optimism & overall gratefulness is readily apparent.

Soon people learn I can accomplish amazing things by thinking & behaving "outside of the box".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Business books, various educational books, occasional novels & select personal growth/ relationship books.

Movies: dramas, priceless comedies, romantic tales, stories with a moral to them, occasional foreign films & documentaries, thrillers & some adventurous, sci fi & animated movies.

Shows: I like aerial dance shows, live music & various artistic productions - including musicals & select plays. News/educational shows & select movies.

Music: I appreciate a variety, from rock and blues to classical, folk & jazz. Reggae & occasionally a bit of country-rock. My taste in music expands through my associations with others :)

Foods: Asian, Italian and Mexican meals. I love seafood & meats, fresh veggie dishes & fruits, & yummy salads. I like very flavorful foods, sometimes spicy.
Six things I could never do without
Love (giving and receiving), close friends, sharp senses (all 5), good health, hope & happiness.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to make each day the best & how to plant seeds for a bright future including more compassionate friends & a beau who may evolve into a life-long mate.

I get enthused about how new paradigms could gradually improve our personal lives & the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing, cooking, sipping a beverage, watching a good movie, hanging with a friend, being cozy with a special man if I'm seeing one.

Some weekend nights, I like to hear/dance to live bands, dine out, attend events, art shows, parties, potlucks, etc. I also enjoy staying home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have an inversion table and I like stretching & hanging upside down. It is great being silly & having some good belly laughs on a regular basis. If we click - perhaps we'll enjoy monkeying around together?
You should message me if
you live near me or in or near other cultural, action-packed, beautiful cities in the USA (NOT OUTSIDE THE US.)

you're intrigued with me, if you're attracted to me physically, value-wise, intellectually, "spiritually".

If you're handsome, kind, refined, well-spoken, fun, emotionally healthy, youthful looking (preferably not bald/permanently) & within my age category.

If you're well-educated, confident & curious. If you're more liberal or middle-of-the-road politically with somewhat traditional values.

If you have at least several (fairly current) life-like pictures of yourself posted. If you know how to write in order to make a good first - & potentially - a lasting impression.

If we click, I will fully appreciate you, treat you very well & likely, inspire you.
The two of us