32Trenton, United States
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My self-summary
"We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness, and call it love." - Dr, Seuss

I'm up for almost anything as long as the company is good. My favorite outdoor activity is and always will be swimming. I grew up on the beach, and still miss the smell of the air down on the shore. I get back to the ocean as often as possible. Watching a movie on an off night, when the theater isn't packed is one of lifes simple pleasures.

I've become a huge Flyers fan over the last few years. Hockey is the only sport I truly follow all year long. Its the only thing that's ever made me yell at my tv.

I love getting in the car with someone and driving, even if we have no place to go, maybe even especially if we have no destination. Getting lost in museums and aquariums, at least the natural history or science center types. The fossil rooms at the Natural History Museum is still one of my favorite places on this planet.
What I’m doing with my life
Shopping for my first home, just got pre-approved and now I just need to find the perfect place.

Just started playing Disc Golf, turns out it's a ton of fun. Plus it's a great excuse to get out and hike around parks ... you know ... that have Disc Golf courses in them ;)

I've recently decided that I really want to learn how to Scuba dive. I also intend to go Skydiving for my 32 birthday.

I'm a locomotive engineer for NJ Transit, I'm the guy hauling the commuters into New York ... or at least Newark every day.
I’m really good at
Acting like a goofball and making sure my inner child never dies, while at the same time being a responsible adult male that contributes to society ... It's a fine line but I walk it ;-)

I'm good at making friends and family laugh. I'm good at defending my opinion intelligently and listening to the other side of the coin with an open mind.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably that my beard is a different color then my hair. That always seems to get comments.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
MUSIC: I have a fairly eclectic taste in music. There is definitely a special place in my heart for any music that has a fiddle in it (read most Irish Punk). Dropkick Murphy, Flogging Molly, Shilelegh Law. I just really enjoy hearing the modern spin on songs and thoughts that have been around for so long. I also love Coheed and Cambria, Puddle of Mudd, Electric 6, Blink 182, Disturbed, Rev Theory, Sick Puppies. Just some great bands.

BOOKS: I love most scifi and fantasy and there are way too many favorites for me to list them all. So to name just a few. The Dresden Files by Jim Butcher is a fantastic series. The character is compelling and full of human foils. All set against a modern fantasy background.

The Belgariad and The Malloreon by David Eddings.

A Song of Ice and Fire by George R Martin. Again such relate able and human characters set in an extraordinary setting.

The Emberverse Series by S.M Sterling. A great apocalyptic tale of people trying to survive a interesting set of circumstances. Also kinda plays into my other hobbies.

MOVIES: Braveheart, A Knights Tale, 50 First Dates, American Beauty, the entire MCU, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, John Wick, 80s action movies, etc. I'm a pretty big movie buff. Cuddling up with some good company and watching a movie, is a favorite activity :)

SHOWS: House of Cards, Being Human, Raising Hope, Cougar Town, Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad (me and everyone else), Justified, Dirty Jobs, Walking Dead, Sons of Anarchy.

FOOD: I'm a sucker for all Italian food and sushi. Recently found that I really like Thai food. Hard Cider over beer.
Six things I could never do without
Netflix - Held out as long as I could, now I wouldn't know what to do without it. Ive become completely spoiled by watching 6 seasons of a show that I decide I like in a month, completely commercial free.

Internet - I could live without it ... but I would miss google an awful lot.

Weekly game night with my friends.

A Book - Whatever book I happen to be reading at the moment. What better way to fill the down time?

My car

Something to keep my creative side flowing, whether it's painting or tinkering with an electronics project. My house is kept fairly clean ... except for my desk, thats usually covered in some project or another.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whats next, as in what does tomorrow bring. How am I going to get to all the places I want to visit. If Ill ever get enough guts to go skydiving like I want to.

Whether this this link (SFW) is the coolest or the most fucked up thing Ive ever seen :) probably both.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sitting around my dining room table with all of my friends for our weekly game night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Spiders in my bedroom are an acceptable excuse for tearing the room apart at 2 am.
You should message me if
If you have an opinion on the which house is best in Game of Thrones ... and aren't going to hold the fact that I like the Lannisters against me.

If you know your way around a d20.

and especially if you're a great, funny, nerdy lady.
The two of us