Recklessthecat
27Vancouver, Canada
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My self-summary
Hi. :)
I'm a sex positive, queer, inclusive, lovey dovey feminist. I don't like being cold. I love baths, wine and snuggling. I have a kitty, he's a drooly little bastard with little respect for personal boundaries. I live with a partner, he's rad, we have separate bedrooms and pretty separate lives, but if you're gonna be around, he's around. I'm not much for compartmentalizing. Non monogamy is my jam, and I've realized I really just don't have the time/energy to try and talk anyone through it for the first time(again), so experienced players only, please. I'm also transitioning away from a pretty significant long term love, and have a bit of a broken heart, and a lot of free time.
What I’m doing with my life
Petting dogs for my job. I read a lot. I like to dance and sing and cook.

*Currently recovering from a wicked concussion, not working, drinking or doing much*
I’m really good at
Hugs, remembering song lyrics, finding stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have fabulous hair, and an eclectic fashion sense. Boobs. My rad sunglasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books! I read a lot. I like fantasy novels, particularly if they're part of a long drawn out series (Malazan Book of the Fallen, Demon Cycle, Discworld, etc.) Also non fiction about sex, feminism and non monogamy.

Movies: Nostalgia favourites: Phantom of the Opera, Original Sin, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, the Princess Bride, Willow, Chicago.

Note: I love going to movies. Especially if I know absolutely nothing about them. I won't watch trailers. But preferably at the Rio. Going to a movie with me at Cineplex is not really fun. I hate how overpriced it is, how loud it is, the commercials, all of it makes me irrationally angry. Do not recommend.

Shows: Star Trek: TNG, Madoka, Happy Endings, Supernatural, etc.

Music: My musical taste could be best described as "Eclectic Hipster Meets Guilty Pleasures, Also Likes to Rave Sometimes" The National is my favourite band, probably. I like folk, indie, punk, angsty emo music from the early 2000s, EDM, sexy music, I also like a lot of trash pop with dancey beats, and stuff I can sing along to (whaddup 90s ballads?). I DON'T like much new country(but I was raised in small towns and if Fishin' in the Dark or Chatahoochee come on, you best believe I'm singing along), or super hard metal/screamy stuff.

I like food!
I'm a vegetarian(usually), I like most things. Pizza, ramen, thai food, sushi, tacoooos. Whatevs, feed me.
Six things I could never do without
Cat!
Wine
Headphones(Vancouver buses sometimes, amirite?)
Cuddles
Sane humans
Masturbation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Snacks.

When it will be Summer again(or if I can run away to somewhere where it feels like Summer).

If it would be appropriate to take my pants off.

Non monogamy.

If I only tend to date boys because it's easier and I'm conditioned to.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing something, usually.

Out at a gig/DJ show, playing Scrabble, dancey dancing, sexy party. Or eating frozen pizza and watching Netflix. Don't really have a typical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have some codependency/abandonment/control issues I've been working through for awhile, but they're all still very much a thing.
You should message me if
You like kitties.

You want to start a queer femme sex coven.

You want to take me to a show.

You're really into giving NSA back and foot rubs.

You aren't into hierarchical relationships.
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