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My self-summary
UPDATE: I'm currently in a serious, monogamous relationship with a lovely gentleman and am quite happy at this time. He is intellectual, kind, funny, and non-materialistic, like me.


If you feel that age is a state of mind (sometimes I feel like 6 years old), and are joyful to be here today, then write me a quick note.

Please be in my age range within about 5 years plus or minus (but definitely not younger than 58), local to my home (within 30 miles) or within 1 hour travel time. (This may be subject to change in the future.)

I am a little Jewish woman who is open to learning new things, both about the world and myself. I have a broad interest in and knowledge of diverse fields, such as biochemistry, instrumental music, journalism, the law, psychology of intangible sales (among other things), insurance, real estate, and finance.

I'd like to meet someone who has an interest in both sciences and the arts, but who is also grounded in reality. I am 64% left brained (logical, science or music oriented). It is important to me that you have a healthy optimism and good outlook on life, be fairly active, financially stable, and interested in a healthy lifestyle without being overly rigid or restrictive.

I'd find a man attractive if he is easy going, yet has a hunger for learning and growing, is a good listener, has a quirky sense of humor, and is gleefully playful.

Oh, and being a great kisser would be marvelous!

I am fairly intellectual, surprisingly sensual, and even-tempered...most times.
What I’m doing with my life
I am not retired, but have been looking for just the right job for me in my current status. Over the years, I have enjoyed an interesting and varied career, which includes property management, insurance, working for a specialized lab, marketing for The Philadelphia Orchestra and working for a small law firm, where I enjoyed advocating for our clients and negotiating settlements.

At this time, I have been gardening, cooking, and enjoying other hobbies, like playing clarinet in several local community bands.

For fun, I enjoy specialized musical events like the Delaware Valley Bluegrass Festival, unusual museum displays, and trying to memorize calculations of Pi to the 27th place, or making a food chemistry experiment in my kitchen, aka cooking.
I’m really good at
Listening. Speaking. In that order. Kissing and more.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, genuine interest in others, and my ability to speak to almost anyone, despite being an INFJ personality type.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite pieces of classical music include Scheherezade, Mahler's Second, Mozart Clarinet Concerto (of course!). "This Kiss" by Faith Hill is the perfect expression of what I hope to feel when you kiss me...

Favorite musical artist is probably Joshua Bell in the classical venue and Blake Shelton in country. Stephane Grappelli, Diana Krall, Pavarotti, all favorites, in addition to many oldies (50's & 60's). Actually, I like music from the 1930's to 1960's best but listen to "The Voice" with great interest.

Best movies I enjoyed include: Hunt for Red October, A Fish Called Wanda, As Good as It Gets, The Bourne Identity, Ghandi, Drumline, Star Trek, Sleepless in Seattle, The Open Window, When Harry Met Sally, The Fugitive (original) The Shawshank Redemption, and Schindler's List, among others.
Six things I could never do without
My son, my extended family, my Jewish heritage, music, the internet, books, affection, and garlic...and did I mention, kissing? Whoops, more than 6...oh, well!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything.....and nothing.
On a typical Friday night I am
There is no typical Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
1) I'm really looking for a LOCAL (within 30 miles) preferably Jewish man at this time, but local and Jewish may be relative to other important core personality traits.

1.5) I am not the most organized person...I may have ADD, but have learned many coping skills. Please be patient with me.

2) On a lighter note, I can't slow dance. Always played in the band, but I'd love to learn....Hope you have a sense of adventure and steel-toed shoes!

3) Ask me after our 3rd date.
You should message me if
You live within 60 minutes from me. (At this time.)
You are within my age range, plus or minus only a few years.
You can host, at least occasionally.
You are kind, gentle, and considerate.
You are willing to help me do dishes after dinner.
You are flexible, both literally and figuratively.
You find many things (like science and music) fascinating.
You think you can pique my interest and make me laugh.
You know you are sensuous and a good kisser.
The two of us