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My self-summary
I'm a student at U of T, studying clarinet performance, taking queer theory courses, and volunteering at a sex ed centre. I read compulsively, and like thinking, talking, and writing about a broad range of things: art, the 60s, gay history, New York, relationships, porn etc. I can be fairly perverted, but try to be charming as well.
What I’m doing with my life
This year I'm going back to school to finish my bachelors, and playing in a local marching band.
I’m really good at
I'm good at playing the clarinet, choosing books, finding classical music people like, drawing deer, critiquing porn, cuddling, helping people flesh out artistic concepts, choosing essay topics, finding movies, and a lot of other things.
The first things people usually notice about me
They think I'm nervous, but I actually just have a quiet, thoughtful demeanor and a version of Aspergers.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like reading classic novels, short stories, cultural criticism, essay collections, history books, Marxist books, sex manuals, smut, and academic writing. My favourite writer is Susan Sontag -- I've read nearly everything she's written. My favourite book is Bambi by Felix Salten. I like listening to classical music, indie music, some pop music, and the electronic music that plays at gay bars. I'm also a big fan of the Internet, and am a deer furry. This mostly means that I like cuddling, but there's more to it as well.
On a typical Friday night I am
Going to bear night at the Black Eagle.
You should message me if
I'm looking for a lot of sexual, and ideally intellectual compatibility. I'm fairly into bdsm stuff, so it would be best if you're experienced in that area or interested in experimenting. I'm vers, and a switch in bdsm stuff. I'm looking for sexual relationships and friendship, but not for a boyfriend.

I want to meet guys into puppy play! I also love guys with a nice beard, or well distributed body hair :3

I also love having a good conversation with someone interested in similar stuff to me. But preferably in person, over coffee or a drink.