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My self-summary
I am a brewer of coffee, a maker of podcasts, and a cooker of meals.

I'm non-monogamous, and have a few delightful relationships in my life, but I'd really like to find a primary-type relationship, someone to come home to.
What I’m doing with my life
I collaborate with a couple amazing friends to make a podcast, that has been more successful than I ever hoped. I pay the bills working in specialty coffee.
I’m really good at
Making coffee, retaining information, giving gifts, teaching people how to make coffee, TCBing, making it look easy.
The first things people usually notice about me
I just cut off my dreadlocks and beard, so I'd guess it's my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors: Thomas Pynchon, William Burroughs, Tom Robbins, Robert Anton Wilson, Phillip K Dick, Allan Moore, Grant Morrison, Neal Stephenson, Hunter Thompson, Warren Ellis, Hakim Bey

Filmmakers: Kubrick, Wells, Coppola, Scorsese, The Coen Brothers, Gilliam, Aronofsky, Kevin Smith, Tarantino, P.T. Anderson, Charlie Kaufman (I know, he's a screenwriter...) Mamet, Woody Allen

T.V.: Golden Age Simpsons, Archer, Futurama, Venture Brothers, Mad Men, Game of Thrones, The Wire, BSG, Dr. Who (I'm old school on this one, I used to tape the late night PBS broadcasts of the original run on my Betamax as a kid.)

Music: I like hip hop (mostly underground stuff,) jazz, electronica, a weird array of rock bands, and world music. I'm open to most any kind of music, but I find myself less motivated to immerse myself in it as I get older.

I like whole delicious foods of all sorts. I also love to cook.
Six things I could never do without
Love, art, coffee, conversation, conviviality, chaos
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The people around me, coffee, books I'm reading, epistemology, food, sex, intimacy, politics, the mystical experience.
On a typical Friday night I am
I have Fridays and Saturdays off for the first time since the 20th century, AND I'm living in an exciting new metropolitan area, so hopefully I'm going somewhere I've never been, with exciting people, to eat, drink, see a show or destroy something.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
With my new short haircut, I suddenly feel like an adult.
You should message me if
You're too smart for your own good.
You want to drink coffee until your eyes shake.
You can teach me something.
You want to help me get to know my new home.
The two of us