36Charlotte, United States
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My self-summary
Hello, all. Thank you for checking out my profile. I'm sure you have been clicking through many and are wondering what's so different about me. Frankly, I am not so dissimilar from the other ladies on this site. I'm ready for that *real* relationship. The one you tell your folks about. The kind of relationship that allows you to make plans, and feel comfortable. I'm ready to walk through life with my other half. That said, I am also a realist. I live for today, and in that I have found a great sense of peace and an endless source of adventure. On the other hand, I am extremely driven. In focusing on what I want, it generally always comes to be.

So, what makes me different? Certainly there are a few things. First, I manage a horse farm, train horses, and also teach people how to ride. I'm the head coach of a collegiate riding team, and have a group of amateurs I travel with locally to competition. This is not the kind of career you hear about every day. It is very demanding and fulfills me in many ways. My partner will find this intriguing and support me in my professional endeavors. By this, I mean cheer me on, be interested even though he knows little or nothing about equestrian sports, and be genially intrigued that I do something really unique. Second, I am fiercely ambitious. I am currently in school for my MBA. I expect to be finished with that by the end of next year. I am constantly looking for ways to better myself, my business, and my future. Living out of my comfort zone is something I am getting use to. Third, I will speak my mind, for better or for worse. You can rely on my honesty and transparency. Lastly, I will make you laugh, burn with desire, and delight your friends and family. I am not without faults, but I am a total package.

What am I looking for in a partner? I would love to meet a man, that is ready in a lot of the same ways I am. This person would know his heart and be able to convey it. It would be great if he were happy in his life in general, regardless of how he got there or what it is that inspires joy. I tend to do better with those that are charismatic, as I can be a little shy at first. Someone that is not phased by inappropriate humor, or would not be offended by some of the things that others would turn beat red over. Someone that would not be deterred when I curse, either on purpose of by accident. Someone that does not think that my sass is "cute" and a silly phase I will get over once I'm in a relationship. Also, my partner will incite passion in me. He will embrace an active lifestyle and be an appropriate physical complement. I am sophisticated with a sparkle in my eye. I am steady, sure, and stable, as much as I am tumultuous, carefree, and brazen. My partner in crime will love all that and some things I haven't been able to put my finger on yet. I am really in the right place and time to find the right guy. Maybe it's you!

If you have made it this far and are still interested, I kindly encourage you to send me a message.
What I’m doing with my life
When I'm not managing the farm and teaching people how to ride, I'm probably at my keyboard either writing or arranging music. Lately, this whole process has been upset by my MBA program, but there is always time for those activities that feed the soul. Other things I love doing that are not part of my core focus are running with my dog by a lake or state park, visiting ice cream stands, exploring new places both in the city and the sticks, taking day trips to sit by the ocean, testing out all the local brunch spots for the best Bloody Mary breakfast! So far, no place has wowed me more than Big Sam's in Virginia Beach, but that is quite a drive for breakfast!
I’m really good at
Keeping my place relatively tidy, taking care of horses, singing and all things musical, and making a mess out of various things.
The first things people usually notice about me
You will notice me. That's really the first thing. I rather enjoy turning heads, which I always seem to do. You might notice my hair or my eyes next; or maybe my distinctive walk. I am almost always making the people around me laugh. I have that special presence that makes you know exactly how I'm feeling. Most of the time, that is happy, grateful, and optimistic. No matter what, my face sells me out every time.
Six things I could never do without
My phone
A car
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The only thing you could possibly do to surprise me at this point is follow through.
On a typical Friday night I am
Fridays I try to keep pretty tame because I actually work on Saturdays. Saturday nights though, watch out!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You will always know my mind by the music I am listening to. For example:

You should message me if
I would love to hear from a man that knows his own heart and acts on it. Know who you are and what you're looking for, and be fair and when considering how someone else fits. Have goals and strive to achieve them. Message me if you can love deeply and express it, and if you can be foolish and have fun with it. If you are dying for a Back to the Future marathon, complete with take-out and beer. Have your priorities straight and know how to live your life in alignment with your priorities. If you want a beautifully edgy woman by your side that looks breathtaking in a black dress and heels--and if your arm is free.
The two of us