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My self-summary
Not feeling 100% at the moment, so not up for dating right away. (Removed most of my profile pics but they can still be seen tucked away in my 'Other Pics' album folder.) Just looking around, reading random people's profiles, because the wide variety of humans on this planet is so intriguing... *she shrugged sheepishly*

Nota Bene: I'm a petite plus-size Asian chick. Usually sporting a funky (sometimes colourful) short hair style. Hoping to find a monogamish (as defined by Dan Savage) primary relationship, with possible room for play with others. No kids, and don't want any.

She was earnest, irreverent, and whimsical.
And believed in the Oxford Comma.

"I came upon a cache of old photos
And invitations to teenage parties
'Dress in white' one said with quotations
From someone's wife - a famous writer
In the 1920s
When you're young, you find inspiration
In anyone who's ever gone
And opened up a closing door
She said: 'We were never feeling bored'..."
~ Pet Shop Boys
What I’m doing with my life
I'm sat on your rug, biding my time, drinking your wine. But I promise not to light a fire. Isn't that good? Norwegian Wood.
I’m really good at
Social justice & activism, cosplay, karaoke, paper crafts, mixed-media, jewellery. . . I like to sing, and play bass guitar (not at the same time, I'm not McCartney). Really wanna form a British music covers band! Looking to learn comic strip drawing, screenwriting, film production.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm short 'n' curvy. Shy but friendly, kind, curious, sweet, and polite. But I also have a huge belly laugh, get excited easily, talk loudly, enjoy a satirical / sarcastic / raunchy sense of humour, and fight tirelessly for the rights of the underdogs and the oppressed!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Beatles, the Zombies, the Creation, the Who, the Jam, Madness, the Specials, the Clash, Big Audio Dynamite, Genesis, Phil Collins, Peter Gabriel, David Bowie, Madonna, Lady Gaga, Pet Shop Boys, New Order, Depeche Mode, the Cure, Siouxsie & the Banshees, Shakespear's Sister, Emilie Autumn, the Housemartins, the Beautiful South, the Smiths, Johnny Marr, Oasis, Noel Gallagher (and his High Flying Birds), the Stone Roses, Happy Mondays, Lily Allen, Paloma Faith (sooo much better than Adele, no offense)… Mod / Psych / Freakbeat, UK Punk, 2Tone Ska, NewWave, SynthPop, Madchester & Britpop, Triphop & Downtempo, modern Brit-rock.

Action thrillers, gangsters, spies, assassins, heists... Science fiction and graphic novel adaptations. My inner goth loves me some good old-fashioned Victorian ghost stories and demon/vampire-slaying supernatural stuff. Too many to list!

BBC Sherlock
Murdoch Mysteries ('The Artful Detective' in the States)
The Mentalist (where'd he go??)
The CSI series (all of 'em)
The Shield
Gang Related
Criminal Minds
How to Get Away With Murder
…pretty much all cop/crime/detective shows and true crime documentaries
Star Trek series (incl. reboots) - esp. TNG & Voyager
Doctor Who (4th, 5th, 10th are my faves)
Firefly / Serenity
Battlestar Galactica (the new one - kinda obsessed!)
and most documentaries on TVO kick ass.

The entire Sherlock Holmes canon by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle
Neil Gaiman / Amanda Palmer
Edward Gorey
Roald Dahl (his dark adult psych thrillers)
Erin Morgenstern
Audrey Niffenegger
Angela Carter
Joan Aiken
Joyce Carol Oates
Joseph Sheridan LeFanu
Robert Murray Gilchrist
Six things I could never do without

Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot. Like a towel, and a book of Vogon poetry...

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, the Universe, and Everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
DJing at the Restaurant at the End of the Universe.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm on Fetlife. Looking forward to release of 50 Shades movie on Valentine's Day, lol! ;D

Update: I've been told that the Fifty Shades of Grey book is very poorly written, and fails to cover some really important shit like scene negotiation, limits, safe words, emergencies, and aftercare. A bit not good. I had been looking forward to the movie, as I became quite the Jamie Dornan fan after seeing him as the creepily sexy yet terrifying serial killer in The Fall (also starring Gillian Anderson as the police detective hot on his trail)... but the trailers for 50 Shades make it look like some sort of boring clichéd romantic comedy! I also heard from a Fetlifer that the film isn't even all that exciting or erotic, and that there are plenty of vanilla films out there that are more erotic than this. Distinctly inauspicious, I must say.
You should message me if
You are Adult Wednesday Addams.
Awwww shite - apparently the estate of Charles Addams brought a lawsuit against the actress/creator of the show, so the episodes have been pulled off YouTube, for the time being. :P Dammit, should've downloaded them when I still had the chance! Update: Someone has uploaded the torrents! *WooHoo*

Important: Please understand that, whilst I'm totally cool with run-of-the-mill swear words, I am extremely uncomfortable with people using derogatory slang. For example: "That is so lame/ dumb/ gay/ retarded"; "We got gypped!"; "I feel so schizotoday!" Please do not contact me if you insist on using derogatory slang, as I consider such words offensive. Thank you for your understanding.
This has nothing to do with so-called 'political correctness' - it
is about being a compassionate human being and doing right by others. We should all be actively working against the societal oppression of women/girls, minority communities, gender/sexually diverse people, and people with disabilities => towards universal equality! 💗

NOTE: Just because I support the rights and safety of the citizens of Palestine, doesn't mean I support terrorism (quite the opposite!). Just because I am very critical of Israeli govt/military policy, doesn't mean I am against the welfare of the citizens of Israel. I'm for PEACE & LOVE EVERYWHERE! ✌ 🌍 Je ne suis pas Charlie, #JeSuisAhmed. Indeed!
The two of us