Hi, thanks for looking at my "best foot forward" profile. I have had some experience in on-line dating, so let me start with a few knock out scenarios.
Please do not reach out if any of the following apply:
1) If your profile pictures focus more on your cleavage than any other aspect of you. Don't get me wrong breasts of all sizes will be admired, but....While I appreciate physical beauty in all forms...we all age, so I'm looking for depth, complexity and beauty...and all of that is fluid for me.
2). If you are VEGAN. I'm ok with vegetarian avo/lacto, pescetatian, no red meat, Kosher all ok. I'm sorry I just don't seem to align with a vegan's perspective.
3). If you have multiple pictures of you doing yoga poses (yes, this is my issue, but I believe yoga is a personal practice between you and the mat, not for show). I do appreciate a good tree or crow pose, I just don't see the need for show...is about personal growth.
4). If you are not very confident in who you are as a person (and yes I acknowledge that 50% of you think this doesn't apply to you, when in fact it does). Btw...asshole points well received. My life is expansive and fluid...probably not the best fit for a really "structured" person.
If you made it this far:
I'm a dad (like a cool dad with a great relationship with my ex....see number 3) I also love to surf....And I am trying my best to live my life in the present...and unfortunately I am not sure where God fits into that whole picture. I am a mish-mash of beliefs and might be the most interesting person you meet....if it doesn't work out on the romance scale...so be it. I take people as they aren't.
I have a great (grown-up/big boy) job but work to live rather than live to work.
Native San Diegan, living in OB...
Unless I'm at work, you will typically find me in jeans/shorts and flip flops...I'm still trying to figure out how I can pull off jeans and flip flops at work.
Sense of humor
My dog Blue (yes, her name is Blue)