I have lived in San Francisco for over 2 decades. I know a ton of its hidden nooks and crannies. I want to know even more. It blows my mind to think that as of Dec. 2016 I have been here for 22 years.
Half of me believes that nothing is ever going to work out for me in this lifetime. The other half of me believes in the magic of everything around me. Cynical optimism...
I found this website while reading Questionable Content. I used to own a rock and roll club in San Francisco, but it closed in 2008. I love live music. Was a big Deadhead when there was a Grateful Dead. Love Phish. My parents raised me on Broadway, so I love musicals more than a straight man should. I am originally from New Jersey, and have no shame about it. Love The Decemberists and any Jack White project, Dr. Dog and Dawes. I have a dog named Bucky and a one eyed cat named Socket,. They are the best and they are slowly falling in love. I used to be in a theater troupe. I am currently acting in a Shakesperean version of The Big Lebowski. It was a blast. I am thinking about directing a play. A stage version of The Breakfast Club.
I work at Kink.com, at the Armory on 14th & Mission. It's fun working in a castle.
I would love someone to cuddle and discuss geeky movies, TV and music in between makeout sessions. Someone who can understand that bigger men can be amazing lovers. Someone who is interested in coming into my world but still has a world of their own for me to share. Someone who I feel like a better man when they are around, and feels like a better woman around me.
Is deprecator even a word? It would have to be, right?
Movies: Too many to name. Short Cuts, Until The End of the World, Brazil. Gilliam, Coen Brothers, Wes Anderson, PT Anderson. The Christopher Nolan Batman films, Brick, The 5000 Fingers of Dr. T.
Music: I like stuff from every genre if it is good. Not into electronic music, prefer bands. Tom Waits and The Residents are two of my favorites. I was a Deadhead when they were alive. I see Phish live. I love Jack White. You've already read this stuff. Unless you are skimming.
TV: I am so excited about how superheroes have taken over Television. The Flash, Gotham, Arrow, Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D., the list keeps growing and I love them all for the different voices they all have.
LOST (until the last episode), Fringe, 24, EVERY SINGLE THING JOSS WHEDON HAS EVER DONE, Eastbound and Down, Weeds, Breaking Bad, The Wire, Arrested Development, 30 Rock, Dr. Who. Sorry about yelling about Joss Whedon. Stranger Things and Jessica Jones and Orphan Black and, well, basically I watch too much TV.
2. My pets
5. The sun
6. Kissing (although I am doing without these days and surviving ok)