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My self-summary
I'm happy, outgoing, chatty, and occasionally funny and smart.
What I’m doing with my life
Living it. (Also working as a bartender)
I’m really good at
Singing. No cause for false modesty there, because I really am rather good at that. Also decent at flirting, formulating and evaluating ideas, writing, having sex, listening, and talking.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I talk alot about real things. I've surprised many a person by bringing up intimate subjects, or revealing intimate details about myself after 10 minutes of conversation. I have little patience for small-talk. Big talk however, I can never have enough of. I don't know what people notice about my physique. You'd have to ask them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Lots of TV shows, mostly comedy and fantasy/sci-fi. Californication is great. With movies I go for most anything, though I have a hard time with horror: the best of them are really great, but I don't much care to scare myself intentionally. Music is my life, and I enjoy absolutely everything, from Slayer, via Beyonce, to Bach. Prince is my favorite. I prefer sorta heavy cerebral books (Iain Banks is a favorite), when I read, but I don't read that often. I'm sorry to say I'm not much of a foodie; not that adventurous in that department: just the usual meat and potatoes is fine by me.
The six things I could never do without
Love, in the form of friendship: I would include my family in this, since my brothers and sister, my cousins and even my parents are all near and dear friends, as well as being blood-relatives.

Love, in the form of romance: I would include sex in this, since I want to love whoever I'm having sex with. That's not to say I can't have sex I regret, or experience sexual pleasure without "my heart being in it" (Oxytocin is what it is after all), but I dream of having lots and lots of sex in the context of romance, not just having lots and lots of sex. Not that I'm a happily-ever-after kinda guy; I don't expect a relationship to neccesarily last forever for it to be "worthwhile", but I want my heart to be in it, while I'm in it.

Music: Both listening and performing. That I could never live without.

My nieces and nephews, who I love as though they were my own children. I sometimes fantasize about living in a far off land, starting from scratch and making an exciting new life for myself there, and when I think of my family and friends, my heart breaks a little, but I could see myself leaving them behind, and only seeing them for the holidays and such. But when my thoughts go to my 6 nieces and 3 nephews, I cannot bear the thought of not seeing them grow up. I've grown too close to all of them.

That's only four, but those are the important ones. I suppose I couldn't live without a comfy bed either, and a modecum of leasure-time: I don't live to work, I work to live.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to be kind to people, how to enjoy myself, human history, and our place in the cosmos, how vast the universe is, and naked ladies.
On a typical Friday night I am
Eating dinner at my brother's place after having taken his oldest daughter back, since she's been with me in the afternoon for our weekly play-date, where we drink tea and watch Sci-fi movies or Japanese cartoons. Afterwards the guys usually come round to my place to drink a few beers and play cards. Sometimes I go to dinnerdates with friends or movie-nights. I will go downtown for live-music or a movie, but I rarely go dancing or drinking, just for the sake of it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Anything you wanna know. I am not an exhibitionist, and feel no need to divulge my darkest secrets, but I have no problem being intimate with people, as I've allready said. In case you think that sounds like a cleverly constructed cop-out, I can tell you that I sit down to pee, and that my first kiss was with a boy.
You should message me if
you want a new friend, long distance pen-pal or a romantic relationship. In the first two cases message me if you like my profile, and wanna get to know me, especially if you are from far away (from me, in Denmark), because I love to have online friends from other countries, to learn about other lives in other cultures. Male or female is fine, but I would be lying if I said I wouldn't like to get to know a interesting sexy woman, even if the distance would mean we could only be online friends. We could still flirt and talk about intimate and passionate things, (and no I don't mean cyber-sex: that is so nineties). I would like that, and maybe we could be valuable to eachother's romantic lives in another way than an actual "relationship". Affirmation that you are sexy and attractive is important to all of us, and we can get that from eachother, even just as online pen-pals.

In the third case: an actual relationship, the same applies, but if you are from Copenhagen, Denmark or there abouts, I am not opposed to meeting up some day, if the weather permits.

IMPORTANT UPDATE: I just realized something! Most women on here get bombarded, I'm sure, with little: "How you doin'?" texts. It must be hell to sort through them all, and most of you must get really tired of all the bullshit.

But It's hard and long work to read through every profile, try to get to know each woman's quirks, and take the time to write a original, long, and serious message, but I always do, because not only does "How you doin'?" not work (you all, rightfully, ignore those), but I also don't wanna be that guy.

But when YOU write ME just the smallest text, even sometimes just when you visit my profile (I get, like 4 per day, how many do you get?), I feel so thrilled, and want to write you back, just because you showed an interest in me. So please, write me nothing more than: "I like your profile", and you will make my day. Maybe you get tons of those, but we guys don't, so think about that the next time you visit a guy's profile. If you like him, tell him!

If you don't like initiating, because you think it's the guy's job, think about it like this: It's like if we were at a party together, and you kinda liked how I looked, or what I was talking about, then you could just try to get eye-contact with me, hold it for a moment and smile, and then look away. You're still leaving it to me to walk over to you and initiate conversation, but you just sent me a subtle cue that you might be interested. This means alot to us guys, because even confident men like myself still need a little signal from you that you are actually interested. I consider myself a swell guy, but I'm not so full of myself as to think you ALL secretly want me.