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My self-summary
I'm happy, outgoing, chatty, and occasionally funny and smart.
What I’m doing with my life
I write, hoping to do it semi-professionally some day. I am currently working on an erotic romance novel while also working as a bartender. (Check out "Write me if" if you wanna know more.)
I’m really good at
Singing. No cause for false modesty there, because I really am rather good at that. Also decent at flirting, formulating and evaluating ideas, writing, listening, and talking.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I talk alot about real things. I've surprised many a person by bringing up intimate subjects, or revealing intimate details about myself after 10 minutes of conversation. I have little patience for small-talk. Big talk however, I can never have enough of. I don't know what people notice about my physique. You'd have to ask them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Lots of TV shows, mostly comedy and fantasy/sci-fi. Californication is great. With movies I go for most anything, though I have a hard time with horror: the best of them are really great, but I don't much care to scare myself intentionally. Music is my life, and I enjoy absolutely everything, from Slayer, via Beyonce, to Bach. Prince is my favorite. I prefer sorta heavy cerebral books (Iain Banks is a favorite), when I read, but I don't read that often. I'm sorry to say I'm not much of a foodie; not that adventurous in that department: just the usual meat and potatoes is fine by me.
Six things I could never do without
Love, in the form of friendship: I would include my family in this, since my brothers and sister, my cousins and even my parents are all near and dear friends, as well as being blood-relatives.

Love, in the form of romance: I would include sex in this, since I want to love whoever I'm having sex with. That's not to say I can't have sex I regret, or experience sexual pleasure without "my heart being in it" (Oxytocin is what it is after all), but I dream of having lots and lots of sex in the context of romance, not just having lots and lots of sex. Not that I'm a happily-ever-after kinda guy; I don't expect a relationship to neccesarily last forever for it to be "worthwhile", but I want my heart to be in it, while I'm in it.

Music: Both listening and performing. That I could never live without.

My nieces and nephews, who I love as though they were my own children. I sometimes fantasize about living in a far off land, starting from scratch and making an exciting new life for myself there, and when I think of my family and friends, my heart breaks a little, but I could see myself leaving them behind, and only seeing them for the holidays and such. But when my thoughts go to my 6 nieces and 3 nephews, I cannot bear the thought of not seeing them grow up. I've grown too close to all of them.

That's only four, but those are the important ones. I suppose I couldn't live without a comfy bed either, and a modecum of leasure-time: I don't live to work, I work to live.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to be kind to people, how to enjoy myself, human history, and our place in the cosmos, how vast the universe is, and naked ladies.
On a typical Friday night I am
Eating dinner at my brother's place after having taken his oldest daughter back, since she's been with me in the afternoon for our weekly play-date, where we drink tea and watch Sci-fi movies or Japanese cartoons. Afterwards the guys usually come round to my place to drink a few beers and play cards. Sometimes I go to dinnerdates with friends or movie-nights. I will go downtown for live-music or a movie, but I rarely go dancing or drinking, just for the sake of it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Anything you wanna know. I am not an exhibitionist, and feel no need to divulge my darkest secrets, but I have no problem being intimate with people, as I've allready said. In case you think that sounds like a cleverly constructed cop-out, I can tell you that I sit down to pee, and that my first kiss was with a boy.
You should message me if
You like my profile. I like getting messages, and unlike most of you girls, I don't get swamped in them, so you don't have to try and be super original to get my attention. A simple: "hello" will do :)

Also, If you read Fifty Shades of Grey and either hated it or loved it, I am very interested in hearing from you. I realize this is a dating site, but if you are an english speaking woman, I am working on a novel currently, spurred on by my own very ambivalent feelings about that particular best-seller, and would like to get in contact with some women who would be interested in reading it, to see what they think. It's porn, not great literature, but I take it seriously, and being a straight man, I want to get some feedback from the kind of reader I'm writing to, sorta like a focus group...

Short version is it's a story of a woman who engages in an affair with a stranger, and quickly finds herself in over her head.
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