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My self-summary
I'm a genderfluid pan sexual, and if you know what that means, hit me up. I've been living in California for four years now, (I hail from the mid-west originally) with my beautiful girlfriend and our pets. We live in mid-town. I love Sacramento.

I'm an artist, born and raised, writing is my typical poison, but I dabble in visual arts as well. My newest project is lovingly called "Pornograffiti fuck you tshirts" maybe I'll wear one when we meet.

Down to business, I'm only interested in friends right now, if you want more than that, find youself another genderfluid pansexual, I'm not the boi you're looking for.

If you do message me, don't tell I'm pretty or that you could fall into my eyes (ew). I'm most likly to respond if You say something relevant or fascinating. I don't think my looks are relevant or fascinating, just genetics.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a writer, although I haven't been writing much lately.
By night I dawn a cloak and perform experiments on animals muhahaha!! .... Or rather I wear a lab coat and help doctors determine whether or not certain puppies have cancer.
I’m really good at
Singing, joking, making puppets, needle felting, making costumes and making my own fun. I also play the guitar, ukelele, mountain dulcimer and the violin, although I'm not very good at any of them.

I love Karaoke and Roller Skating.
The first things people usually notice about me
My dimples, but watch yourself, I kinda hate them. Sometimes my hair, it's always changing color shape and size.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm completely obsessed with Patrick Califa right now, and if you know who that Is message me immediately. In short I'm reading a lot of dystopian bdsm erotica. Yep that's my poison. I'm also a huge fan of John Green,
The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Worlds of Wonder, Contract with God, Me Talk Pretty One Day, Kite Runner, The Einstein Insurrection, Illusions, Harlan Ellison, Ender's Game, Breakfast of Champions, Slaughter House Five and so on...

Jurassic Park, Wrath of Khan, Office Space, Strings, The Muppet Movie, Blade, Blade Runner. The most recent thing I've seen in theaters was the most recent Batman movie. Yeah, I don't get out much. (Haha I haven't updated my profile in a year and this is still true)

I also feel I must divulge that I love south park. I mean love. I know it's not always great (understatement) when it comes to gender and sexuality issues, but what can I say... I'm a sucker for crass political commentary. I also like Buffy, if that helps.

David Bowie, Lou Reed, L7, Northern State, K's Choice, They Might Be Giants, Johnathan Colton, Lady Gaga, The Killers, Dead Milkmen. I like Punk Rocker Chick Music! Riot Grrl.

I'll eat anything. I've had Sea Urchin, which tastes like a tongue that dissolves in your mouth. I'll try anything once.
Six things I could never do without
1. My novel, it's kind of my life right now.
2. My art (Not that I've made, but that I've collected)
3. My wife and kids (kids being the dog and the two cats... yeah... I'm that lesbian.)
4. The rest of my family. I love my siblings and my parents, very very much.
5. My bike- I mean I could live without her, but it would be hard to get places.
6. My friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
People. How people interact with each other, and treat each other, and justify very strange things to each other. People are fascinating creatures.

I also think about hoboing or rambling too. I listen to a lot of rag time and folk, which makes me want to jump on trains and not in the legal way. I often think about packing a bag and Kerouacing it.

I've been thinking a lot about gender and gender expression. I've been frequenting Trans support groups, but it's not really a home for me, but I guess it'll have to do for now.
On a typical Friday night I am
Karaoke! Did I mention I love the karaoke. My favorite Karaoke bar is in Sacramento, and its to the point where the DJ will put me in the rotation as soon as I walk in the door. A beer in one hand, a mic in the other. Night well spent.

When I'm not making an ass of myself at bars, I love telling and hearing stories. Watching movies is great, but I would prefer a beer or a hookah and a good story. I love to hear people talk.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That story, or rather urban legend about Bloody Mary scares the hell out of me. I always turn the light on to pee, even in the middle of the night.
You should message me if
I'm looking for friends who want to make art or have long conversations about gender or lesbian herstory. Or both. I'm looking for people who get me.

Please DONT message me if you want to tell me about Jesus. My mother is lovely and has that base covered. (this has happened to me more than once.)
The two of us