46Somerville, United States
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My self-summary
I would have loved to have done more in life like travel and amassing an obscene amount of wealth, so I'm making up for lost time. I'm still evolving and consider myself a work in progress.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a job I really like at a real estate office in Boston and work as a musician whenever I can. I'm a singer and guitar player and have a band sometimes, and sometimes I play solo. I am also embarking on a whole new outlook on life which is pretty amazing for me and is only possible I think, because I've been single for a while and have been able to focus on myself. I've been kind of playing around with photography with all the places I've traveled to.
I’m really good at
Singing, making people laugh, and carrying on a conversation about almost anything because of my inquisitive nature. I like interviewing people and find that just about everyone I meet has something interesting to share whether they know it or not.
And even though I rarely ever cook, I grew up with a kick ass Italian mother who bestowed upon me her God given talent and cooking Italian food.
I'm pretty good at reading people and uncovering people true motives. I sometimes think my true calling would have been to an FBI profiler chasing down evil men thus saving the world. Meh...maybe next time.
The first things people usually notice about me
My high cheek bones and their inability to guess my ethnicity. (Scottish, Italian and a splash of Native American for my darker color)
I also have a birthmark on my neck and have grown up my whole life being asked "Is that hickey on you neck?" So before you ask. No. No
it is is not a hickey on my neck.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am strictly non fiction and lately I've been reading books about neuro science which has been a shift from reading on topics of psychology and spiritual side of existence– many books regarding spiritual and emotional growth.(I like discovering what makes me tick)
Anything written by John Douglas who pioneered and developed the Behavioral Science Unit branch of the FBI with whose sole purpose was catching violent criminals and serial killers.
Book on historical events and biographies are the other stuff I love reading. I kind of stopped reading fiction because I find true life so much more interesting.

Off beat comedy's, inspirational or compelling documentaries, and a good mafia movie does me just fine. A big fan of Quinten Tarrintino, Cohen Brothers, David Lynch, and Judd Apatow.

80's music, some indy stuff, and for some reason I'm really loving the stuff coming out of Canada lately. They are making the best music I think.
Six things I could never do without
1)My private Lear jet.

2)box DVD Set of "Punky Brewster"

3) keen sense of impending doom.

4)my undying love and admiration for Judge Judy

5)The e-meter I stole from the Church of Scientology

6)my autographed life sized cut out of Lorenzo Lamas

(Update: Due to the economic downturn I have since sold all these items on E-bay)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
not to be cliche or lame...but the meaning of life, or more like, the apparent meaningless of it sometimes..that and how I'm going to make enough money to be fully bi-coastal.
As an agnostic, I'm constantly looking for evidence that there is some kind of universal force in charge of things, but many times walk away feeling that the we exist in vortex of chaos. Apparently, whomever or whatever made us felt that the mysteries of life and why we are here is none of our goddamn bees wax. That's how I explain it to myself, but I really wish I had a better answer.
On a typical Friday night I am
I could be playing music but lately its home relaxing watching Rachel Maddow or out on the town. It all depends on what I'm in the mood for. I think I'm at the age now where I don't feel the need to be hanging around loud places littered with drunken douchebags, although sometimes I like it.
You should message me if
This online dating thing has worked for other people, so why not us? We are all single for a reason after all and let's not get too ahead of ourselves or take ourselves too seriously. But by all means message me up if you're curious and/or interested.
The two of us