25 Traverse City, United States
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My self-summary
I'm 24, living on my own. I'm huge into technology, and spend a lot of time on the internet. I love to cosplay, but find I spend more time dreaming of and planning cosplays that never get finished. I love Starbucks and anything spoopy.

I'm extremely accepting and supporting of LGBTQIA+ and polyamory. I am queer and bisexual (leaning towards women). That being said, I'm not looking to be the "cool queer girl" you can have a threesome with or experiment with.
What I’m doing with my life
At the moment I'm sort of at a stand still where I'm trying to figure out just what I want. I'm a manager at the store I work at, so we'll see how that goes down the line.
I’m really good at
My job. Often times an information-peddler too. I tend to be good at overreacting, reading into situations and just being a bundle of anxiety. I'm also really great at starting projects and never finishing them, to the point where I still have craft stuff from elementary school.

Being an introvert. I have very little energy for socializing in person, and it's not that I don't want to go for a walk, or go shopping, but I'm already exhausted after work and it's really hard to justify leaving my apartment. To be honest, I'm happiest when I'm merged in a series I love and I get to babble on about it, so that's always a good place to start if you want me to talk.

Being grumpy, to be honest. I get passionate about stupid shit and then I get frustrated and I tend to dwell on it and have a little black cloud following me around for awhile. Let me get it out of my system and I'll by right as rain, though.

I have become pretty independent and self-sufficient by trying to prepare for various disasters from a bad front wheel bearing to infected piercings. (In case you're wondering, sea salt soaks and Bactine are gifts from god with any piercing problem I've had.)

I'm also super good at spoiling my cats and giving them snurgles.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my hair. It's always cut strangely, or dyed, but I haven't really ever been in a position where I've been told what someone notices first.

Otherwise, I normally come off as standoff-ish or short until I get a feel for a person. I suppose it's become habit to gauge how much of myself to reveal to anyone new, mixed with just not knowing how the new dynamic works.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors: Kim Harrison (The Hollows series is my lifeblood), Anne Rice (The Vampire Chronicles), Patricia Briggs (Mercy Thompson series)

Movies: PotC, the Mummy, Howl's Moving Castle, Spirited Away, LotR, High School Musical, Marvel films, Jurassic Park/World

Shows: Game of Thrones, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, American Horror Story, The Walking Dead, Farscape, NCIS, the 100

Anime/manga: Yu Yu Hakusho, Fullmetal Alchemist, Yu-Gi-Oh!, Witch Hunter Robin, .hack//SIGN, Angel Sanctuary, Samurai Deeper Kyo, Wolf's Rain, Naruto, Skip Beat, Free!

Video Games: Final Fantasy XIII-2, Shadow Hearts, Folklore, Resident Evil, DotHack, Castlevania, Parasite Eve, Persona, Catherine, Portal 2

Music: Avenged Sevenfold, Black Veil Brides*, Escape the Fate, Falling in Reverse*, Three Days Grace, Sick Puppies*, Dir en Grey, The Band Perry, Good Charlotte, Panic! at the Disco, My Chemical Romance, Red Jumpsuit Apparatus*, Kalafina*, Ke$ha, Nicki Minaj, Maroon 5, Papa Roach*, Seether*

(* seen live)

Food: Chinese, pasta, bread, potato soup, egg sandwiches, potato anything really..., smoothies and slushies
The six things I could never do without
-A safe place to always return to
-My lovely babus (Elendil, a white tabby mix, Ghost, a black long hair)
-A reliable escape
-Hope for a better world
-Good stories
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking about work, my cats, shows I'm interested in, stories in my head, continuing my education, feminism, things I need to do but almost immediately forgetting to do them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Without a doubt working. And if by some miracle I have it off, it's probably because I requested it and I'm on a road trip or at a convention. I'm a total blast, I know.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I really like roleplaying, however, I only do this if I'm totally comfortable with the other person. (Sexually and non.)

Does saying, "I don't like Star Wars," count? Not exactly private, but people tend to act like the world is ending when I admit this. I also find Harry Potter overrated. Oh, and for the life of me I can't get into Firefly. Sorry, not sorry. Also please don't try to play the "GASP YOU DON'T LIKE ____"card in an attempt to be cute or flirty. You sound unoriginal and disrespectful.
You should message me if
you would genuinely like to get to know me and would like to pursue something, even just a friendship. I'm really bad at communicating on OKC, but I do have a tumblr.

Long distance doesn't dissuade you. I'm willing to work with it, are you?

You're not looking for a threesome or to liven up your current relationship.

Also, I have a really bad habit of checking my emails and OKC on my phone and then planning on respond on my computer, which I often forget to do, so if I'm slow to respond, that's why.