I'm extremely accepting and supporting of LGBTQIA+ and polyamory. I am queer and bisexual (leaning towards women). That being said, I'm not looking to be the "cool queer girl" you can have a threesome with or experiment with.
Being an introvert. I have very little energy for socializing in person, and it's not that I don't want to go for a walk, or go shopping, but I'm already exhausted after work and it's really hard to justify leaving my apartment. To be honest, I'm happiest when I'm merged in a series I love and I get to babble on about it, so that's always a good place to start if you want me to talk.
Being grumpy, to be honest. I get passionate about stupid shit and then I get frustrated and I tend to dwell on it and have a little black cloud following me around for awhile. Let me get it out of my system and I'll by right as rain, though.
I have become pretty independent and self-sufficient by trying to prepare for various disasters from a bad front wheel bearing to infected piercings. (In case you're wondering, sea salt soaks and Bactine are gifts from god with any piercing problem I've had.)
I'm also super good at spoiling my cats and giving them snurgles.
Otherwise, I normally come off as standoff-ish or short until I get a feel for a person. I suppose it's become habit to gauge how much of myself to reveal to anyone new, mixed with just not knowing how the new dynamic works.
Movies: PotC, the Mummy, Howl's Moving Castle, Spirited Away, LotR, High School Musical, Marvel films, Jurassic Park/World
Shows: Game of Thrones, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, American Horror Story, The Walking Dead, Farscape, NCIS, the 100
Anime/manga: Yu Yu Hakusho, Fullmetal Alchemist, Yu-Gi-Oh!, Witch Hunter Robin, .hack//SIGN, Angel Sanctuary, Samurai Deeper Kyo, Wolf's Rain, Naruto, Skip Beat, Free!
Video Games: Final Fantasy XIII-2, Shadow Hearts, Folklore, Resident Evil, DotHack, Castlevania, Parasite Eve, Persona, Catherine, Portal 2
Music: Avenged Sevenfold, Black Veil Brides*, Escape the Fate, Falling in Reverse*, Three Days Grace, Sick Puppies*, Dir en Grey, The Band Perry, Good Charlotte, Panic! at the Disco, My Chemical Romance, Red Jumpsuit Apparatus*, Kalafina*, Ke$ha, Nicki Minaj, Maroon 5, Papa Roach*, Seether*
(* seen live)
Food: Chinese, pasta, bread, potato soup, egg sandwiches, potato anything really..., smoothies and slushies
-My lovely babus (Elendil, a white tabby mix, Ghost, a black long hair)
-A reliable escape
-Hope for a better world
Does saying, "I don't like Star Wars," count? Not exactly private, but people tend to act like the world is ending when I admit this. I also find Harry Potter overrated. Oh, and for the life of me I can't get into Firefly. Sorry, not sorry. Also please don't try to play the "GASP YOU DON'T LIKE ____"card in an attempt to be cute or flirty. You sound unoriginal and disrespectful.
Long distance doesn't dissuade you. I'm willing to work with it, are you?
You're not looking for a threesome or to liven up your current relationship.
Also, I have a really bad habit of checking my emails and OKC on my phone and then planning on respond on my computer, which I often forget to do, so if I'm slow to respond, that's why.