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My self-summary
naturally and intensely curious about anything and everything...there is nothing i don't know that i find too boring...when i have learnt it, then i clearly find certain things more intriguing and stimulating than others...

same goes for people....i like meeting new people...especially those who are probably very different from me and my world...i like feeds my thoughts, my emotions and my physical perceptions...

i was fortunate enough to live in many parts of the different continents...i met people with an amazing variety of background, culture, likes&dislikes, open minded and narrow minded...all interesting...i didn't like them all....some i hated...but still...even the ones i hated unknowingly taught me something...what i DIDN'T want to be if nothing else...

i am usually relaxed and easy going (well, maybe some of the people working for me might disagree with that!) but i love...i crave the adrenaline rushes...i drive both motorbikes and cars on racetracks...i love the sudden change in pace...the spike in your heartbeat, the intense emotions that take your mind somewhere else...

many years ago someone very wise told me this sentence: never talk when you can listen...that day i started learning...really learning...

i am in a relationship and no my partner does not know about this's a bit complicated as we don't always live together....but i wish to be upfront with anyone who is spending time to read my profile....i am not looking to change that...i am totally happy in that (unconventionally managed) "world"....

so for the few of you who are still reading....i am looking for people to live and experience things in crime...friends with (kinky) benefits (and yes...the focus is on "friends" and not on "benefits" :O) )...the kinky part includes exploring unusual places. ..trying new restaurants. ..trying to find the best pizza in rome or the best bar in Amsterdam. ...kinky is a state of mind not a sexual activity! be clear [stop rolling your eyes!] :o) ....this is not just about sex...i am not looking for a one night stand...been there done that and learnt that it does nothing for me in the process....i'd like to find like minded, open minded people who are not hung up on stereotypes, inhibitions, boundaries, pre-baked concepts,....

in particular, i would love to find a dominant woman who would be interested in developing a real D/s relation with me.

it sounds impossible...but in fact it isn't....very difficult yes...but hey... if you don't play the lotto then you cannot complain you never win (in fact i haven't bought a lotto ticket in a long time...but i am not complaining either!)! :O)

Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing, there is a field. I will meet you there.
What I’m doing with my life
just moved back to Europe after several years in North America...based between Amsterdam and Rome with the occasional trip toLondon...and having a lot of fun in the process!
I’m really good at
cooking, driving motorbikes, figuring people out, kinky sex, making people laugh (once i know them), kissing, climbing stairs instead of riding elevators, courting a woman, listening....
The first things people usually notice about me
that i don't take life and/or myself too seriously!

i am a good boy with unconventional desires! :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I will not read your answer to this question
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what is the first thought that came to you mind when you looked at my profile pic (the one with the guys kissing the girl's foot/leg)

well...ok...i am not really spending a lot of time thinking abut this but i am curious! :)
On a typical Friday night I am
certainly (well at least...hopefully!) relaxing

probably having a beer...only small breweries (i seldom drink during the week)

likely trying to figure out what comes next (which could very well be a relaxing evening at home!)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i find muscular women very sexy....always fantasized about a roll in the hey with a female bodybuilder...

also...i find freckles sexy!

PS: i have a profile on the other site as well! :O)
You should message me if
if you have read my profile

if you are a girl interested in connecting with a bi male for a no-expectation drink or coffee just to see whether we click and chemistry is there

you are girl who understands that being bi doesn't mean being "in the closet" but, rather, it opens to wide array of "additional possibilities" (which you will always be free to take or not!)! :O) (for more info see my answer to a related question!)

you are a relaxed couple and you are looking to add a fun and respectful male to the (play) equation

you have an interest in BDSM (and hopefully you are a dominant woman or part of a couple into BDSM)

you are sex positive, open minded and are intrigued by the idea of interacting with an easy going, adventurous and somewhat intricate person!

oh must enjoy..well must love kissing (and being kissed)....the adrenaline of that split second before our lips touch....

a bonus if you also have a profile on FL :O)

PS: i am not the guy in the leg kissing pic. I just love that pic as it resonates with many things I like...
The two of us