48Berlin, Germany
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My self-summary
Passionate, sensitive, thoughtfull, spontaneous, playful, inventive, grounded and down to earth but flying high. Knowing everything but searching for the rest of it. Laughing about me and others...sometimes dreaming.

I'm into personal connections and personal contact. - Yes, kinda contradictory to say this on a digital dating platform, I know.
Anyway, I try to do as little chatting as possible. I think it is a waste of time to endlessly chat here. For me communication is so much more than exchanging written texts, which more often then not lead to building up certain unrealistic expectations. Communication is looking into each other's eyes, seeing this little spark (or not), decoding body language, sensing chemistry, being fascinated of an intelligent thought, laughing together...So if you are interested in getting to know me it is far easier by meeting up for a coffee or a drink...

Disclaimer for all those lovely ladies from St. Petersburg, the Philippines, the Hawaiian islands, Brazil and Timbuktu: I'm really flattered that you frequently "like" me and send me your "Hi's" and "how are you's", but I'm here to meet real people in real life. If you want to have me as a pen pal, just write me a message telling me something about you and your life (even though I'm actually not looking for pen pals as my life is pretty busy already :-))
To the "good christian"-big boobed-smiley-faces (who always remind me on some kind of "celebrity" I have seen in a magazine at my hairdresser but can't remember her name) who claim they are 29 but looking for a serious relationship with am man between 47-95: Forget about it, it's too obvious...
And if this is too direct: sorry I am german we are known for our directness...
And all the others, who are not offended yet by me being direct, please continue...or go directly to the end of this page (under "You should message me"), where you will find a practical form to fill in and send out...
What I’m doing with my life
Organizing, communicating, coaching, some times filming. Asking questions. Giving Answers. Giving advise without beeing asked (for free). Giving advise to people who asked (payed).
Thinking in pictures. Trying to transcode thoughts into pictures.
Inventing stories....Giving lectures about all the above. Telling stories...Read, read, read... Wasting time at okc at the moment (and laughing about it).
Talking Tacheles...
I’m really good at
lot's of things, including ... touching, inventing my story with you, thinking, dreaming, talking, listening, coocking, kissing, singing Arias in the shower. Getting lost. Sometimes.
The first things people usually notice about me
they usually don't tell me, but it might be my smile (smiling a lot), my green-blue eyes (you can't see them if I smile ;-), my hands... my nose (thanks Grandma...) From behind my behind (I was told) ... wondering what is the second thing you will notice...or the third?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm a little bored by al those endless lists of authors, names and titles... I read, I have shelfs full of books and boxes in the basement. I go to the cinema, I love music of all kinds. Come in and find out...
Yes, I do like food also. I cook. I like to exchange new recipes and tastes....
I'm always open for new culinary experiences.
Six things I could never do without
coffee in the morning. nature. digging my hands into earth. good food and drinks. a place to stay. somebody to talk to. physial contact. intelligence. beauty. My 3 wonderful sons. And I'm sure if I had to I could do even without...except for my sons, of course.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How comes I'm so naiv to not realize that there are some really, really evil people in this world...
...whats with all the ...tacos, ...the cats, etc. on this site?
Can tell you more once we meet.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm usually here or there...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Most of the days I look younger then I am but sometimes I feel older then I look...
You should message me if
You like of course. But I know how difficut this might be.
And for those of you who are hesitating for whatever reasons, just fill in the attached form, copy and paste it and forward it to me:
(just tick the box)

0 I liked what I saw, but am too shy. Please contact me.
0 I liked what I read, but am too shy. Please contact me.
0 In particular I liked.......................................................................
0 I'm not shy at all, but why should I do the first move?
0 I never contact anyone and wait for you to contact me first.
0 I'm just hanging around here, wasting time. Don't contact me.
0 I really would like to contact you but don't know what to say.
0 I really didn't like...............and therefore don't want to contact you.
0 I have a particular question, which is:...........................................?
0 Sorry, I can't read or write and therefore can't contact you.
0 I'm actually not here. A friend filled out this profile for me.
0 I signed out long time ago. Somehow okc is still running on my
mobile device. So forget about it.
0 I would like to contact you, but after having completed my profile
here I don't like to fill in an other form.
0 I think it is really offensive to contact anybody without being
0 Hummm, why contact...???
The two of us