I'm into personal connections and personal contact. - Yes, kinda contradictory to say this on a digital dating platform, I know.
Anyway, I try to do as little chatting as possible. I think it is a waste of time to endlessly chat here. For me communication is so much more than exchanging written texts, which more often then not lead to building up certain unrealistic expectations. Communication is looking into each other's eyes, seeing this little spark (or not), decoding body language, sensing chemistry, being fascinated of an intelligent thought, laughing together...So if you are interested in getting to know me it is far easier by meeting up for a coffee or a drink...
Disclaimer for all those lovely ladies from St. Petersburg, the Philippines, the Hawaiian islands, Brazil and Timbuktu: I'm really flattered that you frequently "like" me and send me your "Hi's" and "how are you's", but I'm here to meet real people in real life. If you want to have me as a pen pal, just write me a message telling me something about you and your life (even though I'm actually not looking for pen pals as my life is pretty busy already :-))
To the "good christian"-big boobed-smiley-faces (who always remind me on some kind of "celebrity" I have seen in a magazine at my hairdresser but can't remember her name) who claim they are 29 but looking for a serious relationship with am man between 47-95: Forget about it, it's too obvious...
And if this is too direct: sorry I am german we are known for our directness...
And all the others, who are not offended yet by me being direct, please continue...or go directly to the end of this page (under "You should message me"), where you will find a practical form to fill in and send out...
Thinking in pictures. Trying to transcode thoughts into pictures.
Inventing stories....Giving lectures about all the above. Telling stories...Read, read, read... Wasting time at okc at the moment (and laughing about it).
Yes, I do like food also. I cook. I like to exchange new recipes and tastes....
I'm always open for new culinary experiences.
...whats with all the ...tacos, ...the cats, etc. on this site?
Can tell you more once we meet.
And for those of you who are hesitating for whatever reasons, just fill in the attached form, copy and paste it and forward it to me:
(just tick the box)
0 I liked what I saw, but am too shy. Please contact me.
0 I liked what I read, but am too shy. Please contact me.
0 In particular I liked.......................................................................
0 I'm not shy at all, but why should I do the first move?
0 I never contact anyone and wait for you to contact me first.
0 I'm just hanging around here, wasting time. Don't contact me.
0 I really would like to contact you but don't know what to say.
0 I really didn't like...............and therefore don't want to contact you.
0 I have a particular question, which is:...........................................?
0 Sorry, I can't read or write and therefore can't contact you.
0 I'm actually not here. A friend filled out this profile for me.
0 I signed out long time ago. Somehow okc is still running on my
mobile device. So forget about it.
0 I would like to contact you, but after having completed my profile
here I don't like to fill in an other form.
0 I think it is really offensive to contact anybody without being
0 Hummm, why contact...???