49 Berlin, Germany
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My self-summary
Just some hints: Passionate, sensitive, thoughtfull, spontaneous, organized, grounded and down to earth but flying high. Knowing everything but searching for the rest of it. Laughing about me and others...sometimes dreaming.

Personality is beyond the spoken or written word and sympathy is always between those moments...with other words, however interesting the story might read, how do you know its true?

To shorten it up for some of you:
For all the lovely ladies from St. Petersburg, Tokyo, Beijing, the Philippines, Los Angeles, the Hawaiian islands, Brazil and Timbuktu: I'm really flattered that you frequently "like" me and send me your "Hi's" and "how are you's", but I'm here to meet real people in real life. I can't afford to board a plain in order to get to know you and I'm also not so desperate...:-) If you want to have me as a pen pal, just write me a message telling me something about you and your life (even though I'm actually not looking for pen pals as my life is pretty busy already :-))
And if this is too direct: sorry I am german we are known for our directness...
And all the others, who are not offended yet by me being direct, please continue...or go directly at the end of this page (under "You should message me"), where you will find a practical form to fill in and send out...
What I’m doing with my life
Working as a Communication Coach and Trainer, Consultant and Filmmaker. Asking questions. Giving Answers. Giving advise without beeing asked (for free). Giving advise to people who asked (payed).
Thinking in pictures. Trying to transcode thoughts into pictures.
Inventing stories....Giving lectures about all the above. Telling stories...Read, read, read... Wasting time at okc at the moment (and laughing about it).
Talking Tacheles...
I’m really good at
Thinking Dreaming Talking Listening Telling People how to organize their lives Organizing Coocking
Singing Arias in the shower
Reading stories to kids and adults...(love it)
Analizing some weird communication issues
Getting lost. Sometimes.
The first things people usually notice about me
they usually don't tell me, but it might be my smile (smiling a lot), my green-blue eyes (you can't see them if I smile ;-), My Hands... My Nose (thanks Grandma...) From behind my behind...
Don't realy know how OKC evaluated my "personality" (guess there are some things right others not) you will find out - But there is deffinitely one thing wrong: I'M NOT AGGRESSIVE!!!! But rather I'm realy KIND!!!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm a little bored by al those endless lists of authors, names and titles... I read, I have shelfs full of books and boxes in the basement. I go to the cinema, I love music of all kinds. Come in and find out...
Yes, I do like food also. I cook. I like to exchange new recipes and tastes....
I'm always open for new culinary experiences.

Just love it:

The six things I could never do without
coffee in the morning. nature. digging my hands into earth. good food and drinks. a place to stay. somebody to talk to. physial contact. intelligence. beauty. My sons. And I'm sure if I had to I could do even without...except for my sons, of course.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whats the right strategy to win the next football game with my boys team.*

...why, the heck, do quite some women here put up pictures of themselves with a little not that, but like a painted one, a fotoshoped one, or one of cardboard or so. Is there any secret code behind it? Please let me know.

* (I have come up with some pretty successful strategies lately and we won our last game 12:4)
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm usually here or there...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Most of the days I look younger then I am but sometimes I feel older then I look...
You should message me if
You like of course. But I know how difficut this might be.
And for those of you who are hesitating for whatever reasons, just fill in the attached form, copy and paste it and forward it to me:
(just tick the box)

0 I liked what I saw, but am too shy. Please contact me.
0 I liked what I read, but am too shy. Please contact me.
0 In particular I liked.......................................................................
0 I'm not shy at all, but why should I do the first move?
0 I never contact anyone and wait for you to contact me first.
0 I'm just hanging around here, wasting time. Don't contact me.
0 I really would like to contact you but don't know what to say.
0 I really didn't like...............and therefore don't want to contact you.
0 I have a particular question, which is:...........................................?
0 Sorry, I can't read or write and therefore can't contact you.
0 I'm actually not here. A friend filled out this profile for me.
0 I signed out long time ago. Somehow okc is still running on my
mobile device. So forget about it.
0 I would like to contact you, but after having completed my profile
here I don't like to fill in an other form.
0 I think it is really offensive to contact anybody without being
0 Hummm, why contact...???