56Carrboro, United States
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My self-summary
I'm pretty laid back but also have a clear direction in my life and know what I like and what I am looking for in relationships. I am happy to make new friends but also looking beyond friendship if it happens.

What I’m doing with my life
I'm employed full time and have both a job and a career--the two don't always go together but right now I am working at something I enjoy and can see myself doing five years from now.
I’m really good at
Traveling--I like to travel and am pretty spontaneous, whether it's a weekend in Asheville or a trip to Paris. I don't like to plan too much--just enough to make sure that I don''t spend all my time in train stations and airports. Also, I make a good travel companion; I am pretty laid back and willing to share the itinerary with someone. For me it often is truly the journey more than just the destination.
The first things people usually notice about me
I guess my eyes. Many people mention that I make eye contact and that I have nice eyes. I don't stare at myself so not too sure about this but it's a reasonable answer.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I just finished "A Thousand Autumns of Jacob de Zoet" by Charles Atlas which was pretty good. I read lots of historical fiction with the occasional trashy gay novel thrown in from time to time. I like movies and go to SIFF pretty consistently. I like many types of food but if I get to choose the restaurant it will likely be sushi, Chinese or Thai. I listen to a wide range of music and have an appreciation for many genres--except most country. Also, i don't care too much for opera but my friends say that is because I don't understand it, which is true.
Six things I could never do without
--A big suitcase so I can take more than six things
--My ability to laugh at myself
--My friends and family
--My ability to put things in perspective (i.e. "Don't sweat the small things")
--My heritage--I am first generation American
--A really good homemade tuna melt--the only thing I crave when I travel abroad.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Being purposeful in my life and in my dealings with others. Being thoughtless is not forgetting someone's birthday but rather doing the right thing for the wrong reason or lacking understanding on why we treat each other the way we do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either hanging out with friends or going to a venue to hear music or trying a new restaurant.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Some mystery is a good thing....
You should message me if
you are considerate and curious about the world around you. Also, you should be willing to listen as well as talk. Ask me a question-start a conversation.
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