I am looking for a relationship. I'm getting too old now for games. I don't need or want someone to play with. I'm looking for someone CLOSE TO MY OWN AGE thanks. Please read my profile to find out about me and what I do want.
Thank you for understanding.
Tis but a scratch! - My life story! No matter what, I keep going!
I'm a divorced mom of two, ages 22 & 25 and raising my 14 year old nephew. I enjoy anime, reading, watching tv and movies, and traveling up north. I love visiting Frankenmuth and Mackinaw City. The old 60s and 70s muscle cars and going to classic car shows are awesome. The roaring sound of an big engine is one of my favorite things. I love the smell and sound of rain. Attending the Michigan Renaissance Festival is lots of fun. I also like museums, the zoo, and historical places.
I am a geek and I am proud of it! I'm a Whovian, I like dragons, and I play video games- including Pokemon on my 3DS(can't wait for Nov. for Sun & Moon). And yes, I do play Pokemon Go. It's fun. I like to think I have a good sense of humor. I find myself very funny. LOL
I have four tattoos and I want to get more. If you have them that's a plus.
All I really want is a guy who wants me as I am- To talk to, watch tv, go to car shows, anime cons, see movies, go up north, or just be with me doing whatever really. I'd really like to find love again someday.
Also, if you love pitbulls and/or have one you already have points going in your favor. :-)
I don't really care to hang out in bars, I'm not a big drinker.
If religion is a major part of your life we probably won't get along well. I do believe in God, just don't believe in churches.
Also, if you are voting republican, please pass me by.
I know my profile is long winded, but I'd rather you knew how I am up front. I've tried just putting basic info and then guys are put off by my geeky nature. It's who and what I am. I'd rather find a guy that likes me because of it, instead of in spite of it. I'm just me.
(Playing Pokemon Go counts as doing something right? LOL But seriously, it gets me out and seeing new things, places, and people!)
I like to bake too, mostly cakes. I'd love to open my own bakery someday. I've actually made a little money doing it too.
That or one of the tattoos on my wrists or leg if it was showing. Hard to miss them. :)
Sci-fi, fantasy, comedies, science-y shows and historical stuff, too. I watch NCIS, Limitless, The Big Bang Theory, Castle, Scorpion, Psych, Bones, The Librarians, Ash vs. The Evil Dead, iZombie, The Walking Dead, Monty Python, and Doctor Who. Britcoms are awesome, too! I love most of the ones on PBS and bbc America. (I hate reality shows, just to let you know. Note the lack of girly crap shows.)
I listen mostly to alternative rock and metal. 30 seconds to Mars, Avenged Sevenfold, five finger death punch, third eye blind, Disturbed, Linkin Park, Staind, Uncle Kracker, Slipknot, Beastie Boys, Eminem and lots more. Just recently gotten into twenty one pilots, different and good.
(I can't stand country, sorry.)
I read A LOT! I like anything from sci-fi and fantasy to romance and mysteries. I really like when the genres are mixed like paranormal romances or mysteries. Love Jim Butcher(Dresden Files), Piers Anthony(Xanth), Sherrilyn Kenyon(Dark Hunters), J.K.Rowling(Harry Potter), Jim C. Hines(Libromancer), and lots more.
Food wise I am kinda picky. I do love Chinese and Mexican. I love steak, but it must be well done. I don't want my food still bleeding. A good grilled cheese makes me happy. Oh and I love chocolate. Godiva is the only reason I go to the mall. I like to bake my own sweets mostly. Brownies are my favorite! I love trying new teas and honey. (No coffee!) Recently discovered Menchie's (froyo) and I love their sorbet. Yummy!
Movies ... well I like a lot of different kinds. Sci-fi, fantasy, comedy, action ... Here are a few; Pacific Rim, The Transporter, xXx, Fast and Furious movies, the old & newest Godzilla movies, Happy Gilmore, Pitch Black/Riddick movies, Star Wars AND Star Trek, Spaceballs, Harry Potter series, all Disney & Pixar movies, Pirates of the Caribbean series, LotR & The Hobbit series , Studio Ghibli anything, and lots more that I can't think of right now. LOL
Watched all of the Avengers movies and love them, Iron Man is my favorite. Oooohh, I watched Deadpool and I LOVED it! The best romantic/comedy/action movie I've seen in a long time. (Gets better every time I watch it.)
(Bonus items- Ice cream/sorbet, movies, vacations, and video games )
I think a lot about how long until I can go on vacation again, or at least a weekend away.
I'm also thinking about am I going to find that special guy to spend the rest of my life with? Is someone going to get to know the me inside and not just overlook me because my outside isn't perfect. I have a lot of awesome in me.
Are there any guys on here that want a relationship or do you all just want sex?
Why do most guys my age look so old? I understand I'm in my 40's, but there are guys on here in their 40's that look my dads age and he is 64!
I also think about the fact my daughter says I'd be a Slytherin when I consider myself more Gryffindor.
I guess I think about a lot of stuff.
(Side note- To the guys I've seen on here with super negative profiles saying all women on here are skanks and losers, that's why you can't find someone. No woman wants to be with someone with a terrible attitude. That's why you'll stay single, not because of how you look. Don't be a jerk.)
(Saturdays and Sundays are free as well! I don't work weekends.)
Also, I really couldn't care less about shoes and other "girly" stuff. I don't own a pair of heels and the only dress I have is a ball gown I used for an anime con and a fairy outfit. LOL So really, don't expect me to dress up unless I REALLY have to.
Also I'd really like to find a guy who wants an actual relationship and not just sex. (How many times have I mentioned that now and guys are STILL messaging me for only hook-ups. )
I am 45 and I put 35-50, a year or two either way may be all right. I just don't think it's appropriate for me to date someone in their 20's(young as my kids) or in their 50's or 60's(old enough to be my father). Seriously, all I am getting lately are guys in their 20's. I can't afford to take care of another kid. Too young, thanks.
If you know how to use proper grammar. An occasional word incorrectly spelled is one thing, but please read what you write before hitting send or save. Sorry, it makes me crazy. I've had a few guys message me and it was so bad that I thought they were from another country. LOL
No crazy fetishes, one night stands or poly relationships. Also no married guys or guys with girlfriends. Don't waste my time.
If you like anime and/or cosplaying and want to talk about them that's a BIG plus.
Or if you'd like an awesome new friend to hang out with.
Also, I'd really prefer that you lived in Michigan near Warren, no more than 20-30 minute drive please. Long distance relationships suck!
I don't respond if you don't have a picture or have an empty profile. That just screams fake/scammer profile.
(FYI-I am very anti-drugs of all kinds. Yes, this includes all you 420 enthusiasts.)