I'm quite introverted and prefer to stay under the radar. Not your typical gay quality and certainly not helpful for finding dates. I Like observing people but without the verbal judgements. Contrary to my outward appearance, I'm pretty mild mannered and even tempered. I appear confident to most but I'm VERY shy when it comes to guys.
I am a proud father of 3 French Bulldogs who are the only reason I still have my sanity from all the craziness of school. The right guy for me has to invariably love dogs because eventually he will inherit them, lol. The contrary is a deal breaker. Also if you find yourself at Hydrate on all 4 weekends of the month, we are unlikely a match. Just sayin...
For whatever reason, it is quite hard making connections in this city despite being 2x bigger than Philly. I haven't quite figured out the Chi guys yet but they are surely NOT like east coast boys. My rule of attraction is fairly simple: I have to be stimulated mentally, emotionally, AND sexually. It's all 3 or nothing with me. I tend not to settle and I prefer that you didn't either. The last thing I want is someone who is inclined to think that I am replaceable.
Shows: American Horror Story, Project Runway, Looking, Top Chef, SYTYCD
Music: All kinds except heavy metal and country
Food: Japanese, Filipino, seafood, DIMSUM!!!!!!