36New Orleans, United States
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My self-summary
i love to be young hearted, silly, and playful... but i am also very mindful, insightful, and serious at times. i often think about humans, behavior, life, and existence... because i am in a constant state of attempting to make sense of it all. It still doesn't make sense to me. i have what i think is a great sense of humor... it can be peculiar and odd at times, but of course i think i am hilarious. I can often be a homebody, but I do enjoy going to certain places and events when it piques my interests.
What I’m doing with my life
As for my daily job, playing my part in the "system," I work in the psychology department of a hospital assisting with Autism evaluations.

For what I am working toward doing in my life, is breaking out of the emotional mold, constructs, and unfulfilling traditions and expectations of the culture in which I have been raised.
I’m really good at
i have been playing guitar for a long time. i have a decent camera that i am wanting to explore the art more with. i am good at making people feel very welcome and comfortable around me, even when the awkwardness is tearing at me internally. i am good at overanalyzing things that most people find no joy or purpose in directing that much energy toward.
The first things people usually notice about me
My shyness that is disguised as extroversion. I have come to the understanding that I am frequently worn out by certain social interactions and situations. I suppose you wouldn't notice that right away, but only if you got to know me in more depth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
i am very passionate about the movies and music i am into. i am into dark, serious, thought-provoking movies. There Will Be Blood is one of my all time favorites if that gives you an idea. Tree of Life, Melancholia, Take Shelter, Another Earth, The Master, Lost in Translation are some of my other favorites. I also love certain documentaries.

The Leftovers is absolutely brilliant. The Knick is one of the most beautifully shot shows I have ever seen. The cinematography is ridiculous. Lost and Breaking Bad were big favorites. On the lighter side, The Office and New Girl. I am trying out and enjoying Baskets and Man Seeking Woman.

food... definitely boiled crawfish and pizza are the top two. But I am actively eating more consistently healthy. Would love to learn more about cooking vegetarian and vegan meals.

as far as music... i am in to bands like the white stripes, the kills, radiohead, arcade fire, foo fighters, nirvana, ray charles, pink floyd, queen, the beatles, elvis, movie scores, classical, delta blues, and older music that you can actually slow dance to. St. Vincent was my recent crush. I have recently been obsessed with Soft Cell's Tainted Love/Where Did Our Love Go song.

for reading... i dont really read much... trust me i know that sucks... i think me and reading have been on bad terms ever since i was in school and had to read a lot. we havent rekindled that flame. catcher in the rye was one that definitely made an impact on me in high school. in college... reading hamlet... forever changed me.
Six things I could never do without
laughing, caring, my dual ability to be so young hearted but so serious, family and friends, my guitar, my camera.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
life... psychology... mortality... existence... behavior...

my deep need be more creative... experiment with photography, film, and musical instruments

where is life leading me... where am I leading life... And the perseverative thoughts go on and on.

How I wanna take the most contrived "spontaneous" road trip.
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing watching a movie on Netflix or from Redbox. Dancing in my kitchen to music on pandora while attempting to cook a half way decent healthy meal. Occasionally maybe hanging out with a small amount of friends. Not that any of these things are limited just to friday nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i think horses are absolutely beautiful... but i am scared to death of getting kicked by one.

I have this tendency to not text or call to congratulate friends when they have a baby
You should message me if
you want to message me.
if you are interested in something i wrote or some impression you get of me.
if you have any questions... and want to know anything more.
if you are seeking a mature healthy relationship that includes communication, trust, attraction, and tons of affection.
The two of us