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My self-summary
Somewhere between an intellectual and a bizarrely compassionate primitive. I am very enthusiastic about the things I do and the things you do.

Professional comic artist, former boxer, self-published novelist with a degree in Fine Arts. Also, now working to help special needs kids with their physical health and communication skills.

Playful, very physical, yet extremely considerate. I vacillate between intense thoughtfulness and affection.

I am bold, quick, and kind.
What I’m doing with my life
I work with kids on the autism spectrum by day, and I draw freelance comics by night. For the most part, I get to tell strange stories with strange illustrations. Currently writing vast works of graphic fiction for future projects and enjoying the way it's all coalescing.

I still box for fun whenever possible, but rarely do 10 round sparring sessions anymore, as my vanity won't allow for a broken nose. I also competed in Olympic lifts and still enjoy general athletic physiology, and often research it casually in a flawed, naive effort to be competent in as many disciplines as possible. I just think the body is a miracle, and if you ask me about it, I will go on at great length to convey how incredible your fibrous tissue is.
I’m really good at
Analysis, humorous introspection, drawing, writing, athletic play, boxing, challenging the flawed logic behind the Met closing at 5:30.

being witty while maintaining conversational focus, being totally comfortable with other people's emotions, asking you many questions about your interests.

It has also occurred to me recently that I have really good taste in friends. Every person who has gone the distance with me socially is a truly good and loving person- and if someone isn't, they simply fade back into anonymity.

The first things people usually notice about me
Phenotype of old-timey strongman, sans handlebar mustache.
I make fairly consistent eye contact.
I just broke the touch barrier in a pleasant way.
I'm riding a horse.
I may or not be bearded at the time of the meeting, so that's also a factor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Jonathan Strange and Mr. Norrell, Lord Of The Rings, Atonement, Ladies of Grace Adieu, American Gods, Consider the Lobster, The Adventures of Baron Munchausen, The Speaker for the Dead, Even Cowgirls Get the Blues, Ender's Game, Delta of Venus. I've been attempting to put my face in Infinite Jest again, but honestly I really prefer Wallace's journalistic stories.

Movies: Assassination of Jesse James, Star Wars, Big Trouble in Little China, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Let the Right One In, Marvel Movies, Gattaca, Michael Clayton, You and Me and Everyone We Know, Seven Samurai, The Lord of the Rings trilogy, Children of Men, Inception, Batman Begins/ Dark Knight, Zeitgeist, WALL•E, Watchmen, Buckaroo Banzai, Interstellar

TV Shows: Mad Men, Venture Brothers, Frasier, GoT

Music: Queen! Magnetic Fields, Future Islands, Aurora, Joanna Newsom, College, This Will Destroy You, The Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Hans Zimmer, Sigur Ros, Fever Ray, Mates of State, The Books, Nico, The Beatles, M83, The Cure, Bob Dylan, Manchester Orchestra, James Horner, Animal Collective, Explosions in the Sky, Florence and the Machine, Conor Oberst/Bright Eyes
The six things I could never do without
pencils, the joy of seeing another human face, books- some with pretty pictures, boxing gloves, banter, James Horner's "Ride Of The Firemares"
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My own fictional characters, how to circumvent the wild inconsistency of NYC commute, other people's books, the sociology and biology of gender, the anarchist politics of 1930's Superman.

How can I cultivate a mystery that people will whisper about at my funeral? How can I soften my enthusiasm when speaking to you, so that my rapidity of thought is endearing and not cartoonish? Should I exercise outside in spite of the heat/cold? Yes I should. I need to own a dog so I can name it Charlemagne, but would the nominative predetermination make him/her anxious? Where will the revolution start, and who are the key players?
On a typical Friday night I am
Staying out later than I intended, sometimes due to invitations from friends, other times due to a looming sense that my youth will be wasted if I go home to draw or write something instead. There's also a good chance I'm doing pull-ups at a local park.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I'm comfortable, I can be obnoxiously sweet. Like, so sweet that you'll want to punch me.

In social gatherings, I am always well-liked, and always slightly out of place.
You should message me if
If you feel compelled to do so, if you find yourself intrigued or delighted by the idea of a conspicuously male person in remarkably good health and temperament,
if you would like to teach me something.

If you want to hear a true story about how I once pulled a woman from the train tracks! (not kidding, this totally happened)

If you are uncommonly decent and indecently desirous.

If you want to knock me on my ass with how awesome you are.