33West Hollywood, United States
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My self-summary
(been about a year so figured I'd keep it current - stay tuned)
What I’m doing with my life
Own a Travel Concierge Service ... think personal assistant meets travel agent. This explains why my most successful relationship in the last few years was bicontinental.

After six years as a Hollywood Writer's PA and a year as pearl clutching blue haired headset wearing travel agent, I decided I wanted something in the middle. No matter what, I enjoy being my own boss. There's too much to do in life that happens between 9 and 5.

Undergrad and masters coursework in psychology. I pride myself in my ability to communicate openly and honestly, definitely seeking the same.

Otherwise I enjoy exploring the world as often as possible, it's nice to be able to say that I spend every day loving what I do and always wish there was more on my plate.
I’m really good at
Bringing people together. Humor and a smidge of self depreciation as a defense mechanism tends to give people a common ground and sense of community even if their world's have nothing to do with one another.

... And memorizing lines (and monologues) from TV and movies. This is typically a great love/hate litmus test.
The first things people usually notice about me
The curls.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Wow ... just those huh? How does one choose a star from the sky or grain of sand from the beach?

Wicked / Son of a Witch / Lion Among Men is a good start for me. The three together tell the story of every lifetime and create such reality from a world of fantsy. Really loved Kramer's Faggots and Vidal's City and the Pillar. For the lighter stuff I loved Devil Wears Prada and all of Weisberger's other books.

Movies could go on forEVER but for now I'll just be fun and go with Troop Beverly Hills and First Wives Club.

Am pretty partial to the show Hairspray despite seeing it more times than I care to admit. Also a huge fan of Suddenly Last Summer.

For food ... I'm pretty basic. Love great food and great wine. Always ready to try a new adventure but happiest with a well executed turkey burger and fries.
Six things I could never do without
(1) Netflix/Hulu -- they count as one thing
(2) Classpass (Bootcamp and Yoga)
(3) Sabre (travel industry thing)
(4) Passport
(5) Bathrobes
(6) Cloud Bed

Had to laugh at this one and try to take it seriously but the last couple years of my life (and a recent period that I've been without a cellphone) have helped me realize what's important and that there are very few things we can't live without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where I want to go next ... what I'm really doing with my life ... if I should be focusing on the problems of others or just working on myself ... constantly assessing my goals ... what I could be doing ... what I should be doing ... what did I have for breakfast ... do I have time to get to the gym ... did I reply to that email ... I haven't heard from her in a while ... wonder if I should sell that artwork ... I need a maid ... it's all junk ... UGH STOP THINKING AND GET TO YOGA!

It never stops ;-) This has been my stream of consciousness ... we now take you back to our regularly scheduled program.
On a typical Friday night I am
out to dinner with great friends or finishing unpacking in a hotel ... either way I'm just as ready to tear up the town or spend a night in relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I drink milk straight from my carton at home. I live alone. Who's going to come over for milk ... really.

Fine. *hides in corner*

I have a lot of private things to admit but I'm not hindered by them. I'm an open book. Some chapters are more entertaining than others but just the same they're all part of me and I'm happy to share. I have a past that makes a Nascar flag look striped, can you handle the ride?

"Forget the past, it has already happened, worry not about the future, it has yet to come. Concentrate on today, and make every moment count...."

"I am not what happened to me, I am who I choose to become."
You should message me if
you are ready to. I know we all want someone else in our lives but I know that it takes time to get to that place where we're open and ready enough to be with them.

Looking for a guy that can enjoy a night in as much as a night out. Maybe spending a weekend at home doing nothing or just spontaneously deciding to head to Turks and Caicos for the weekend...
The two of us