32San Jose, United States
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My self-summary
****************This is going to be a slimmed down (shitty) version of things as this page is a work in progress. Just moved, just got out of a 5+ year relationship, and just re-activated. Be patient or feel free to ask for specifics***********

I don't know how realistic it is to find someone on here, but I figure it doesn't hurt. I am a 29 year old born and raised here in the Bay Area. I've spent a few years in different states but have always called San Jose home. I just moved back from a terrible 8 months in Phoenix. I don't care for the bar scene and prefer a quiet night at home to a drunken party.
What I’m doing with my life
Working and get re-acclimated to the bay area. Currently powering through The Office. This area needs more attention from me and not just for this profile.
I’m really good at
I kill it at trivia and can almost always name that band if it came out during the 70/80/90/00's.

I can make really good analogies if I can't find the right words to describes my feelings or a situation. Must have been the Darmok and Jalad episode from TNG.

I seem to be really good at random things that will never have any prospect of making me money.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am very sarcastic and outgoing. I actively make conversation with strangers.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I used to read a lot more than I do now. Some favorites are Tolkien, Neil Stephenson, AC Doyle, and Whitman.

I love movies! I like comedy, thriller, cheesy horror, bad action B movies, dramatic foreign films, and everything in between. I can watch just about anything. Some favorites would be Shawshank Redemption, Pan's Labyrinth, Step Brothers, Pulp Fiction and way too many others to name.

As far as TV shows go, I have a deep and abiding love for Gordon Ramsey. I also watch Family Guy, South Park, Daily Show, Colbert Report, American Dad, Tosh, and my ultimate guilty pleasure, Teen Mom.

My music taste is fairly broad. I really like the music my parents grew up with like 70's classic rock, 80's hairy bands, and New Wave. I grew up listening to grunge, punk, alternative rock, with a little rap and country here and there. I like new alternative but appreciate good songs from every genre.

I say am not too picky about food, but texture is important to me.
Six things I could never do without
Computer with access to the internet
Comfortable pillows
Cinnamon Bears
Clean socks
Background music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I don't dwell on anything in particular. I take things as they come and can usually react on the fly.
On a typical Friday night I am
A night off would usually be spent at home watching a movie/tv or browsing the internet. This is the type of excitement that I would like to change.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have seen every Golden Girls episode ever. I have been active in the SF kink/bdsm scene and have gravitated towards poly/open relationships in the past. I'm definitely open to monogamy, though.
You should message me if
You aren't flaky. So many people on here are just looking for someone to talk to. I am interested in cultivating new friendships and meaningful relationships.

You can tell me what kind of bear is best.

You want to start a new show on Netflix and have company while marathoning it.
The two of us