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My self-summary
Awkward but sociable recovering punk, enthusiastic about pop culture, radical politics, and kink.

I can't believe how many people here list that fake news four letter personality type thing but don't specify their moon, like where are your priorities? (Me: Virgo sun, Libra moon, Cancer rising.)

I recently came out as trans. I mostly pass/present as male (idk if this is the right way to express that but shrug emoji) and I'm figuring out how that's going to change. Probs best if you don't message me unless you're okay with being supportive around that.
What I’m doing with my life
I work as a tenant advocate and love getting paid to argue with landlords and real estate agents. I train BJJ and other wrestling styles most nights. I do a little political organising and a lot of political ranting. And I am very slowly working on a gay porn/conspiracy novel about the Freemasons. Even though maybe there is a limited target audience for this kind of thing, I'm pretty convinced it's going to make me rich. Hey if you message me can you remind me to stop wasting time and get back to working on this?
I’m really good at
Dancing, stories, ankle picks and fireman's carries, karaoke, dressing up, making out, making zines, overthinking things, talking about art and politics, crushing real estate agents like bugs beneath my heel.
The first things people usually notice about me
Cute front-teeth gap and/or loud laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, Ariana Reines, Sylvia Federici, NK Jemisin, Samuel Delany, Maggie Nelson, Jane Austen, Morgan Parker, Rachel Pollack.

So many movies! Recent favourites: Love and Friendship, Certain Women, The Fits. All-time: Daisies, All About Eve, The Bitter Tears of Petra Von Kant, Female Trouble; Varda, Tarkovsky, Warhol, Hitchcock.

Musically, well, obviously Beyonce. Old rap and new r&b. My friends' unbearable noise/art projects. Pop.
Six things I could never do without
Formation, Halo, Irreplaceable, Best Thing I Never Had, Schoolin Life, '03 Bonnie and Clyde.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Things I should be doing, gentrification and housing politics, aesthetics, outfits, gender, wrestling moves, full communism.
On a typical Friday night I am
At wrestling training. It's fun, you should come!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a tattoo of a photocopier on my butt. That isn't really so private though.
You should message me if
- you want to do something fun;
- you have radical politics and a sense of humour;
- you like to smile and/or laugh during sex; and/or
- your idea of a good first date isn't just a beer at Sircuit, or (who am I kidding?) your idea of a good first date is just a beer at Sircuit.

I'm not really looking for a relationship (although great if one comes along) or a hook-up (although... ditto, I guess) but enjoy a range of sexual friendships with varying levels of emotional connection, as well as dating for its own sake (the tension! the awkwardness! et cetera). I even enjoy endless go-nowhere okc chatting, if only to pass the time at work. And I reply to all messages that are more substantial than just a 'hi' or whatever, so, um, say hi.
The two of us