38 Footscray, Australia
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My self-summary
Awkward but sociable recovering punk, enthusiastic about pop culture, radical politics, and BDSM.

I work as a tenant advocate and love getting paid to argue with landlords and real estate agents. I train BJJ and other wrestling styles most nights. And I am very slowly working on a gay porn novel about the Paris Commune. Even though presumably there is a limited target audience for this kind of thing, I'm pretty convinced it's going to make me rich. I do a little political organising and a lot of political ranting.

Obsessed with movies, constantly at ACMI and the Astor, festivals, etc. I guess nobody really uses okc for "new friends" but if you just wanna come see movies with me that would be sweet.
I’m really good at
Dancing, stories, ankle picks and fireman's carries, karaoke, dressing up, making out, making zines, overthinking things, talking about art and politics, crushing real estate agents like bugs beneath my heel.
The first things people usually notice about me
Cute front-teeth gap and/or loud laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, Sylvia Federici, Samuel Delany, Eileen Myles, Maggie Nelson, Jane Austen, Rachel Pollack.

So many movies! Recent favourites: Love and Friendship, Certain Women, The Fits. All-time: Daisies, All About Eve, The Bitter Tears of Petra Von Kant, Female Trouble; Varda, Tarkovsky, Warhol, Hitchcock.

Musically, well, obviously Beyonce. Old rap and new r&b. And if you don't love Taylor Swift I honestly think you are probably a misogynist.
The six things I could never do without
Formation, Halo, Irreplaceable, Best Thing I Never Had, Schoolin Life, '03 Bonnie and Clyde.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Things I should be doing, gentrification and housing politics, aesthetics, outfits, whether my gender is queer enough to identify as genderqueer, wrestling moves, full communism.
On a typical Friday night I am
At wrestling training. It's fun, you should come!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a tattoo of a photocopier on my butt. That isn't really so private though.
You should message me if
- you want to do something fun;
- you have radical politics and a sense of humour;
- you like to smile and/or laugh during sex; and/or
- your idea of a good first date isn't just a beer at Sircuit, or (who am I kidding?) your idea of a good first date is just a beer at Sircuit.

I'm not really looking for a relationship (although great if one comes along) or a hook-up (although... ditto, I guess) but enjoy a range of sexual friendships with varying levels of emotional connection, as well as dating for its own sake (the tension! the awkwardness! et cetera). I even enjoy endless go-nowhere okc chatting, if only to pass the time at work. And I reply to all messages that are more substantial than just a 'hi' or whatever, so, um, say hi.