I recently came out as trans. At the moment I mostly pass/present as male and I'm figuring out how that's going to change. Probs best if you don't message me unless you're okay with being supportive around that.
So many movies! Recent favourites: Love and Friendship, Certain Women, The Fits. All-time: Daisies, All About Eve, The Bitter Tears of Petra Von Kant, Female Trouble; Varda, Tarkovsky, Warhol, Hitchcock.
Musically, well, obviously Beyonce. Old rap and new r&b. My friends' unbearable noise/art projects. Pop.
- you have radical politics and a sense of humour;
- you like to smile and/or laugh during sex;
- you wanna watch and/or talk about the new Twin Peaks episodes together;
- your idea of a good first date isn't just a beer at Sircuit, or (who am I kidding?) your idea of a good first date is just a beer at Sircuit.
I'm not really looking for a relationship (although great if one comes along) or a hook-up (although... ditto, I guess) but enjoy a range of sexual friendships with varying levels of emotional connection, as well as dating for its own sake (the tension! the awkwardness! et cetera). I even enjoy endless go-nowhere okc chatting, if only to pass the time at work.