30 Somerville, United States
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My self-summary
The best video games differentiate between single player and co-op mode. Life is not very different, just longer. I'd like to find my player 2, mostly figuratively, but literally would be amazing.

Describing myself as recognizable characters: I’m a little Marshal Ericsson, Ted Mosby, Chandler Bing, Randal Graves, 10th Doctor, Winnie The Pooh, Ron Swanson, and Andy Dwyer.

I’m a little random, intense, relaxed, out going, and shy. I'm very nerdy. I make no apologies for this and kind of hope that you're similarly nerdy in some way, shape, or form.

I prefer low-key situations/gatherings, dive bars; Netflix binges, and any kind of game... board game, video game, mildly physical game (pool, mini golf, Buck Hunter, Disc Golf), actually physical.

And for you Meyers-Briggs fans, I’m an INFJ… this article does a fun job of decoding that (some more accurately than others, but it's a basic idea and mostly true):
What I’m doing with my life
Using my creative mind, random sense of humor, and desire to pave my own path forward.

The more focused part of that vague description immediately above is going into a(n arguably ridiculous) youtube channel with multiple series planned for release. Still setting up the launch, but I'm excited for the ideas/videos to be out there.
I’m really good at
Corny dad jokes...

It must be tough for a woman going through her OKC inbox to find a decent message... it's like finding a needle in a "hey"-stack :)

Listening, helping with problems, being considerate/thoughtful, writing, creating (all manner of things), contextual/situational humor, cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'd like to say it's my strikingly handsome face and cheerful disposition, but I'd have to guess it's probably my beard...

I also got LASIK and don't wear glasses anymore (sorry I don't have more recent pictures, but I'm not regularly in picture situations, and I'm not a selfie taker).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Let's see... to name a few...

Books: The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, The Giver, The Zombie Survival Guide, The Golden Compass (and His Dark Materials in general, truly one of the best series of books ever), The Tao of Pooh, Hamlet, the Hunger Games series, the Harry Potter series, and The Watchmen (if you never read more than 1 comic/graphic novel in your life, make this that 1), currently reading (and enjoying) The Sandman by Neil Gaiman.

Movies: Stranger Than Fiction, The Invention of Lying, The Usual Suspects, Lucky Number Slevin, Serenity, Love Actually, Ratatouille, Pitch Perfect, Guardians of the Galaxy, Field of Dreams, basically any Marvel movie...

Shows: Doctor Who, The Walking Dead, How I Met Your Mother, Firefly, Dollhouse, Parks and Recreation, Breaking Bad, Community, House of Cards, Pushing Daisies, Chuck, Sense8, Daredevil, Jessica Jones, Top Gear, Wheel of Fortune and Jeopardy.

Music: The Avett Brothers, Old Crow Medicine Show, Mumford and Sons, Radiohead, Damien Rice, Ani Difranco, Pink Floyd, and in general classic rock and current alt. rock (along with at least a mild appreciation for just about all types of music... even if it's band specific).

Food: Pretty much all food is good food... I've been on a recent sushi kick... And I'll almost never turn down a good burger.
The six things I could never do without
Non-Material: Family, Friends, Good Conversation, Personal Thinking Time, Creativity, Randomness.

Material: Guitar, Computer, Internet (damn do I hate to admit that), Card/Board/Video Games, Writing Implement/Paper, Multiple Pillows... I'd rather have too many pillows than not enough...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Anything and everything... philosophical stuff, political stuff, the next thing I'd like to create/work on, what's going on in the world, what I want for dinner... you know, the usual stuff.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'll say I can (quite shamelessly) be a homebody. I enjoy hanging out with friends, playing games, enjoying some drinks, laughs, and an easy end to the week... That being said, I'm also up for going out - playing pool, karaoke, trivia, cover bands, original bands (if they sound good, or it's a venue I like (I've seen a decent few that I've never heard of but the show was great)), drinks at a dive bar, movies, or anything else that might seem cool/fun.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I got both the hey-stack joke and accompanying gif from reddit #repost
Overall, I'm a pretty open book, willing to answer basically any question at any point. I just don't fully see the point in sharing "the most private thing" unsolicited/without genuine curiosity on a dating site...

Something random/weird though for shits and giggles - I love to absent-mindedly pop bubble wrap when I'm trying to think through creative issues... And sometimes just for fun... bubble wrap is amazing... I almost always save bubble wrap included in packages for the sake that I know at some point I'll be thankful that I can pop it.
You should message me if
You should message me if!
- You're a gamer girl - seriously #RelationshipGoals (I make no apologies about this, it looks comfy, fun, and awesome).
- There were things in my profile that gave you this reaction.
- You're looking for someone that you can share some of your interests/hobbies with and vice versa.
-You like games: videogames, board games, card games, drinking games... everything but stupid mind games... I don't see the purpose in messing with people that way.
- You enjoy conversations ranging from politics and religion, to zombie survival tactics and food.
- You're looking for an eventual best friend that you can enjoy sexy-fun playtime with. (link SFW)
- You made it this far and you're still reading with some level of curiosity/interest... which is either very concerning, or it means you're insanely awesome! I'm going to guess insanely awesome...

Lastly, I think this is the kind random/weird/awesomeness of who I'm looking for...
Someone that can listen to that song and picture it being a fun, upbeat first dance (wedding) song where the bridal party is slowly but surely brought onto the dance floor (maybe in some ridiculous pre-planned dance (possibly with a bit of swing dancing involved (and a dance circle toward the end?))) as the song continues... I don't know why, but whenever I hear this song I always picture how much fun that would be... call me a quasi-hippy, slightly hopeless romantic that randomly thinks about stuff like that (got no shame in my relationship game), but at least I'm honest that sometimes those things pop into my head... sometimes it's also just the writer/director in the back of my head picturing awesome music videos/random videos that could be shot... either way, I think it'd be fun-mazing (totally a word).