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My self-summary
I am polyamorous, and I enjoy my world being surrounded by wonderful and fun-loving poly family and community. Through polyamory, I have been able to strip away all the expectations of society and live and love the way I want, and it has been very freeing and rewarding. However, if you are a jealous person, Polyamory might not be for you. If you would like to talk or are interested in learning more about the poly world, let's chat. I always like making new friends and finding activity partners. I can also introduce you to other polys in the area if you are interested.

I am also a host on a sex-positive variety talk show. After years of talking with and helping poly people explore the possibilities of an open relationship model I wanted to create a show that would explore not only Polyamory but all aspects of sex. From fetishes, identities, genders to toys, events, and humor. I have a radio and television background and degree and have wanted to create a show that was informative, funny, and helps to normalize everyones sexuality for so long now. Want to know more or where to find the show? Now ya have to say hello. 😀

I am a sweet, understanding, laid back individual with a more than a healthy share of comedic timing and silliness mixed in. I am very gregarious, and I feel that one of my greatest characteristics is meeting new people and making them feel like we've been friends forever.

I'm constantly coming up with new stories to write about, read too much, love with al my heart and always looking for new ways to experience life. I talk with strangers in line and people on the street. I am not afraid to take the chance at doing things that might make me look silly or foolish; a close friend called me Adorkable. It is just life and being embarrassed is just as exciting of emotion as falling in love. If you don't take a chance, the opportunity is lost.

I like exploring cities, parks, museums, and beaches. (Not into camping... nope nope nope.) I constantly am trying new things even when I fail, I learn. I love outdoor concerts, live theater, and watching anyone create art out of thin air. I enjoy going street parties for the music, energy, and fun that brings everyone together.

I appreciate originality and am interested in creative and quirky people that can see the world for what it is and for what it could be. I enjoy being with people that are not afraid of trying something new and sometimes scary, always open minded and willing and able to looking at something from a different point of view.

I'm a very open person with a damaged (but healed) past and more than willing to share my life, experiences, and thoughts. However, I cannot learn about you if you will not do the same. I like to share, but it doesn't mean it is all heavy and serious topics all the time. In fact, most of the time, I prefer to laugh. If you make me laugh, think, and blush within five minutes, I know we will be friends forever.

I have been working on losing weight gained since a back injury and have been going to physical therapy and hitting the gym. It has been a serious challenge at times since my injury, and two surgeries took their toll. However, it is for me, my health, and hopefully a long healthy life.

And now for dating...
I am currently in an open (poly, polyamorous, polyamory) relationships wonderful and beautiful women. I talk openly with my partners about everything including dates and possible relationships, so you should be comfortable with this and possibly meeting them at some point.

As I've said, I enjoy meeting new people for friendship and enjoy dating. If you are still reading, and all this is still OK with you, please feel free to send me a note and say hello, I promise I won't bite.

I am writer, sweet, and silly.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a writer... technical and creative... I write comedy, sci-fi, fantasy, satire, rants, erotica, romance, and whatever catches my fancy on any given day. Professionally, I am a technical writer. It is a bit annoying but allows me to work with amazingly intelligent people that challenge me and make me a better writer personally and professionally.

I enjoy singing and becoming part of the music. It can be such a transcending experience to not only hear music but to feel it.

I am very into growing and learning new things. If you are not learning or exploring new ideas and concepts, you can become stuck in a closed minded state of being without the ability to change.

I love to play games, listen to music and podcasts, reading, watching TV shows, and especially movies. I watch a lot of movies and enjoy original stories over sequels. I like TV, being a child of the 80's, it was defiantly a friend that allowed me to escape and still can.

I am a board and video gamer and have even made money competing professionally in my 20s. Today, I like the social aspect of board games more often than a video game jaunt... but I will not count out a deep dive into an immersive video game.

I have one old lady German Shepard mix who is almost 16 years old. I love animals, and my heart breaks every time I see a stray or lost animal. I have also helped lost animals find their way home many times.

Since you have come to the end of this little path, I must say again. I am Polyamourous. I am one of the leaders of the local poly community here in Sacramento. If you want to ask me any questions on the subject or are interested in coming to a meeting, please drop me a line.
I’m really good at
Being a goofball... I love comedy and know how to make people laugh at the drop of a hat. From old ladies to little kids.

I am great at meeting people and making life long friends.
I listen well and take an interest in my friends and try their hobbies.
I am open and honest with my world and respect others.
I have also brewed some fantastic beer, mead, cider, and wine.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am friendly, funny, silly...
I have been told that my eyes are beautiful, and their hazel color changes with the seasons or my emotions.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Sci Fi Specially Heinlein, Asimov, Vonnegut...
Movies: I enjoy them all...
Current TV shows: Westworld, Sense8, Humans, Big Bang Theory, Emerald City, and Dirk Gently's Holistic Detective Agency
Aural Pleasures: Queen, The Eagles, Prince, 60s-70's-80's-90's and a lot of Podcasts... actually an annoying number of podcasts. I have also consumed a challenging number of audio books.
Food: Yes I like food... where are we going???
Six things I could never do without
Humor: to me, funny is where the heart is
Performing Arts
Furry little animals
An incredibly beautiful wife and wonderful and amazing girlfriends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My life's motto is 'Funny First.' I live for the punchline or the moment where the perfect line can lighten the mood of any situation. I like to laugh and make others laugh. So, when I am in a business meeting, or at a funeral, I am constantly trying not to snicker at whatever joke my mental filters just kept me from blurting out.

I am also a science geek and enjoy studying and reading science journals. I think most of the answers to the universe are in the sciences discovered and still undiscovered.
On a typical Friday night I am
In 2008 I fell and injured my back. I was suffering from back problems and fretted going out. I am now healed, off of pain pills, and regaining my life back.

On any given Friday I am hanging out with friends and going on dates. I could be staying home and having friends over, or just picking up a book but I am trying to live and experience more. So, I like to be out doing anything.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am willing to try anything at least once... twice if it is free and feels good.

I am magnificent at drawing people into my ridiculous stories and convincing them that they are true.
You should message me if
You are looking for intelligent and funny conversations. You consider yourself a geek and enjoy music, art, comedy, science, or just being true to yourself.

If you are interested in poly, just want to learn more about poly without having to make date, or are poly and would like to make a friend, then you should also send me a note.
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