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My self-summary
I am polyamorous and I enjoy my world being surrounded by wonderful and fun-loving poly family and community. Being able to just strip away all the expectations of society and live the way you want is very freeing and rewarding. However, if you are a strongly jealous person, Polyamory might not be for you. If you want to talk or are interested in learning more about the poly world let's get drinks or coffee sometime. I always like making new friends and finding activity partners. I can also introduce you to other polys in the area if you are interested.

I am a sweet, understanding, laid back individual with a more than a normal share of comedic timing and silliness mixed in. I am very gregarious and I feel that one of my greatest characteristics is meeting new people and making them feel like we've been friends forever.

I'm constantly coming up with new stories to write about and would like to think of myself as adventurous looking for new ways to experience life. I talk with strangers in line and people on the street. I am not afraid to take the chance at doing things that might make me look silly or foolish, a close friend calls me Adorkable. It is just life and being embarrassed is just as exciting of an emotion as falling in love. If you don't take a chance, the opportunity is lost.

I like exploring cities, parks, museums, or just listening to the wind with my eyes closed and feeling the sun set on my face while listening to the waves crash on a beach. I constantly am trying new things even when I fail, I learn. I love live outdoor concerts, live theater, and watching anyone create art out of thin air. I enjoy going street parties because the music, the energy, the fun just brings everyone together in such a universal way.

I enjoy originality and am interested in creative and quirky people that are able to see the world for what it is and for what it could be. I enjoy being with people that are not afraid of trying something new and sometimes scary, always open minded and willing and able to looking at something from a different point of view. I'm always open to someone that can be free to make friendships and knows what it takes to keep that friendship growing.

I'm a very open person with a damaged (but healed) past and more than willing to share my life, experiences, and thoughts. However, I cannot learn about you if you will not do the same. I like to share but it doesn't mean it is all heavy and serious topics all the time. In fact, most of the time, I prefer to laugh. I laugh out loud and enjoy the silly moments I have shared with friends just as much. If you make me laugh, think, and blush within five minutes, I know we will be friends forever.

I have been working on losing weight gained since a back injury and have been going to physical therapy and hitting the gym. It has been a serious challenge at times since my injury and two surgeries took their toll. However, it is for me, my health, and hopefully a long healthy life.

And now for dating...
I am in an open (poly, polyamorous, polyamory) relationship with a wonderful and beautiful woman that I have been with for nearly 25 years (send her a note if you like, to Nayla_m). I talk openly with her about everything including dates and possible relationships, so you should be comfortable with this and possibly meeting her at some point. Because we are open and poly, secrets just don't happen. As I've said, I enjoy meeting new people for friendship and really enjoy dating.
If you are still reading and all this is still OK with you, please feel free to send me a note and say hello, I promise I won't bite.

I am writer, sweet, and silly
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a writer...technical and creative... I write comedy, sci-fi, fantasy, satire, rants, erotica, romance, and whatever catches my mind on any given day. Professionally, I am a technical writer. It is a bit annoying but allows me to work with amazingly intelligent people that challenge me and make me a better writer personally and professionally.

I enjoy singing and becoming part of the music. It can be such a transcending experience to not only hear music but to feel it.

I am very into growing and allowing myself to learn new things. If you are not learning or exploring new ideas and concepts you can become stuck in a closed minded way of being without the ability to change.

I also enjoy photography and taking videos. I have a few still and video cameras that I have with me a lot of the time. However, when I am having fun I almost always forget to pull them out. I have a couple of friends who are professional photographers, and I always covet their equipment and skills. Recently, I have worked on a project Ladies Of SteamPunk Magazine. The magazine combined Steampunk and boudoir elements. I started out as a calendar project at first and then became a successful magazine. In the Summer of 2015, I handed the reigns off to someone new. (35 hours a week, a full-time job, and multiple relationships were all too much.)

When I allow my mind to relax from writing, photography, or self-education I love to play games, listening to music, reading, watching TV shows, and especially movies. I watch a lot of movies and enjoy original stories, however even though it can be painful, I have also watched the sequels and squeekuels. I like TV, being a child of the 80's, it was defiantly a friend that allowed me to escape.

I am a gamer and have even made money competing professionally in my 20s. Today, I like the social aspect of board games more often than a video game jaunt... but I will not count out a good dive into an immersive video game.

I one old lady German Shepard mix. I love animals, and my heart breaks every time I see a stray or lost animal. I have also helped lost animals find their way home many times.

Since you have come to the end of this little path, I must say again. I am Polyamourous. I am the Host and director of the local poly community here in Sacramento. If you want to ask me any questions on the subject or are interested in coming to a meeting, please drop me a line.
I’m really good at
Being a goofball... I love comedy and know how to make people laugh at the drop of a hat. From old ladies to little kids.

I am great at meeting people and making life long friends.
I listen well and take an interest in my friends and try their hobbies.
I am open and honest with my world and respect the desires of others for privacy.
I have also brewed some amazing beer over the last 8 months (new hobby).
The first things people usually notice about me
I am friendly, funny, silly...
I have been told that my eyes are beautiful and their hazel color changes with the seasons or my emotions.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Sci Fi Specially Heinlein, Asimov, Vonnegut...
Movies: I enjoy them all...
Music: Recently, have been turning on Pandora and allow the organic nature of my interest allow algorithms to show me new music and artists. I like rock, jazz, and so much more.
Food: Yes I like food... where are we going???
The six things I could never do without
Humor: to me, funny is where the heart is
Performing arts
Furry little animals
An incredibly beautiful wife and wonderful and amazing girlfriends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My life's motto is 'funny first'. I live for the punchline or the moment where the perfect line can lighten the mood of any situation. I like to laugh and make others laugh. So, when I am in a business meeting, or at a funeral, I am constantly trying not to snicker at whatever joke my mental filters just kept me from blurting out.

I am also a science geek and consider the discipline of Quantum Physics... I think most of the answers to the universe are in the sciences discovered and still undiscovered.
On a typical Friday night I am
In 2008 I fell and injured my back. I was suffering with back problems and fretted going out. I am now healed, off of pain pills and regaining my life back.

I am hanging out with friends and going on dates more often. I can stay home and have friends over, or just pick up a book but I am trying to live and experience more. So, I like to be out doing anything.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I really am willing to try anything at least once... twice if it is free and feels good.

I tell false stories of giant pigeons that will carry off your cats and dogs!
You should message me if
You are looking for intelligent and funny conversations. You consider yourself a geek and live for music, art, comedy, science, or just being true to yourself.

If you are interested in poly or are poly then you should also send me a note.

Live for challenges and if you are an enigma, I want to meet you.