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My self-summary
Writing the following novel about how awesome I am, is hardly of any value if I can't put my works into action, do you not agree? Never-the-less, for both my amusement and yours. Analyze and interpret as you will :-)

-I'm brand new to the SE Ma area (as of February 2016)

-I have a lot to offer, and am quite valuable in terms of overall quality If you are someone who is looking for a unique, interesting, intelligent, fun, honest, witty, and warm person to experience at least portions of your life with.

-I do have a man in my life, he is awesome, and he is father to our two children. We have a very open and honest relationship. He is aware that I am here, and he's happiest if I'm happy.

-I've traveled a lot. Most recently, I spent 3.5 years living in N. Yorkshire, England. I moved back to the States late February 2013.

-I haven't lived in Massachusetts in 20 years.

-I'm a positive person with a healthy heart and a good attitude towards life.

-I'm very thoughtful of others, and probably more honest than most.

-I typically consider myself to be very patient and kind.

- It's not difficult for me to see the good in people . I find that practicing compassion and making thoughtful choices works well for me. So does surrounding myself with people who usually make wise choices.

-During more challenging times I can be stoic and cynical, but my sarcastic sense of humor, perseverance, and neurotic tendencies do tend to get me through relatively unscathed.

-I'm a thinker, analyzer, and interpreter. This is a skill that I'm awesome at, it is not a weird personality flaw intended for the purpose of exhausting you, nor am I intentionally trying challenge your thinking capacity.

-I often get bored with those who I may consider to have lived a sheltered life and/or those who have become complacent.

-I'm a woman who is very much interested in living in a peaceful world, so I genuinely do my best to play my part in trying to make that happen. I really care about people, nature, and the planet a lot. I consistently and genuinely do my best to make thoughtful choices.

-I believe in "Being the change" I wish to see in the world. I volunteer a lot of my time advocating for human rights in many ways.

- I try my best to learn from and embrace my mistakes.
What I’m doing with my life
- Advocate for non-violent parenting.

- Training for the Boston Marathon 2018

- Considering grad school.

- Actively involved with various Autism coalitions. My 7 year old son has Aspergers.

-Creating art one kind or another.
I’m really good at
-Thinking critically and outside the box.
- Being articulate.
- Being highly skilled in communication.
- Being redundant.
- Making statements and being heard. Puzzles.
-Making a difference.
-Being present.
-Facing challenges head on and with confidence, and not allowing my fears to control how I behave.
- Being redundant.
-Embracing life.
-Living an example of kindness, compassion, love, and patience.

*I'm also fairly close to perfecting the art of being a dork. 8-D
The first things people usually notice about me
This all depends. Which direction am I being approached from exactly?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Yes, I have all of the above.
Six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-The best means of achieving the goals I set for myself.
-How bizarre it is that I have this extremely rare chance to be a part of life.
-The dynamics of interpersonal relationships.

*How life is mutually subjective and objective. That there is no right or wrong. People are either willing to compromise, or they're not. I often think that if more people truly understood this simple fact of life, and we're mindful of it, that compassion and peace would be far more abundant in the world. It took me years of mistakes and doing things the hard way to realize this very simple thing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Often doing something atypical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Nearly every time I hear someone use the words "conversate" or "irregardless"; I see red, blackout, and then can't seem to recall why I suddenly have blood on my hands when I regain consciousness.
You should message me if
- You are someone who more or less knows what they want out of life, and you are actively doing the necessary things to make it all happen for yourself.

-You are someone who is motivated and shares many of the same core values as I.
-If you are a musician or music junky and want to have a discussion about it.

-If you like science, art, nature, animals, or traveling.

-If you have some good stories you'd like to share.

**More important**
You definitely SHOULDN'T message me if you are even remotely hesitant about dating/befriending someone with children. My number 1 priority in life is to see to it that I'm leaving the world much better than it was when I arrived. I intend to do this through raising thoughtful, curious, and passionate children. If I choose to welcome you in my life, it also means I'd be choosing to welcome you in theirs. This is a huge deal to me, so if that's not OK with you, it really would be pointless trying to engage me.
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