(1) Do NOT ask me to contact you outside of OKCUPID. If I want to, I will ask for your info, but a few back and forth messages are not enough to get my contact information! I'm sick of being asked.
(2) If you're someone looking for a hook-up or expecting sex soon after we meet...then keep looking. I'm not that kind of girl.~~
I'm a big kid: a newly graduated former college student who loves celebrating and doing all the things that she's too old for now like pinatas and trick-or-treating!
I say that just because I'm an adult doesn't mean I should stop enjoying and doing the things that made me happy as a child!
I'm also so freaked out about the future that I just try to avoid thinking about it as much as possible! Great coping skill, right? ^w^;;
I warn people that I'm like white water rafting. Don't fight it, just go with the flow...or else you're gonna end up frustrated and very very wet. (No innuendo, I swear! :-P)
Oh, and despite my badges, I AM both spontaneous and a huge planner. Ain't contradictions great?
I am boisterous, vivacious, and all-over-the-place.
Edit: Some things I'd like to add...
First: I do not smoke pot but I do not feel that it is a necessarily bad drug.
I have done research on it. I have smoked it once and would seriously consider smoking it again. I would simply be careful of the source, how pot might effect my health, and the legal problems I might face.
But I do feel that pot deserves serious, and unbiased researching to fully understand its negative and positive effects.
Second: I am an Atheist. However, if you are Christian, or Muslim, or Jewish, or Buddhist, or whatever...my big issue with you is being told that I'm 'going to Hell' either directly or coyly. It REALLY annoys me when someone gives me a sh*t-eating grin and speaks in a tone of false concern when they inform me that if I don't believe in a god, (or their god) that I won't be able to receive their god's love or go to Heaven or whatever.
If you're religious, great. Enjoy.
If you think I'm going to Hell, then don't talk to me. Ever.
Last, I'm not here for dates. Not anymore. If you want to compliment me...great! I'm flattered! I may do the same! I'm a flirty person! But I'm not interested in dating. Or having sex.
So, if that's all you want, then please move on. I'm sure you'll find someone else.
I'm also good at stressing. I have an anxiety disorder, so stress comes natural to me. I am happy to go out and have fun (it's not a social anxiety, it's OCD). But, I do stress a lot. I can't help it.
Next would be my personality. I'm not very tactful but I'm better than I used to be. I like to say that 'I have a hole in my tact-filter'.
Oh! And I'm a big klutz! My clumsiness is how I screwed-up my knee one summer (which resulted in surgery and physical therapy)! I'm fine now though. Back to my old schemes! Bwahahaha!!
Alright, let's see...
We'll go with 'books I'm very fond of' instead of 'favorites' because it's very hard for me to choose favorites for most things:
Books: My reading tends to revolve around whatever is on my computer, or my textbooks in college. However, I have enjoyed books like The Pinballs, Slake's Limbo, and The Acorn People. Yes, those are all young adult, sue me, I was a young adult when I first read them. I really like the children's book: There is a Monster at the End of this Book, a book to this day that I find funny and clever. Currently, on my bookshelf I have Phantom of the Opera reading material (most of which I've never finished but have kept despite the fact because I loved the musical), a ton of Dragon magazine issues (I wish they were still physically printing them!!), all of the cumulative issues thus far of Dork Tower, all of Nodwick (LOVE NODWICK!), and a few D&D guidebooks which I read not for the stats but for the amazing descriptions and imagination on each page.
Movies: I LOVED Wall-E, however I have older likes such as the Princess Bride, the Jerk, a number of Mel Brooks movies such as History of the World: Part 1, (Jokes, girls with great bodies, jokes everywhere, and ancient Greece! Awesome ^w^), Young Frankenstein (though I think I may be temporarily sick of watching it so much), I also love Robin Williams on Broadway (a hilarious comedy routine), and enjoy most things with Lewis Black (or atleast the scenes with him in them). The guy always looks like he's about to have an aneurysm.
Music: I have dried more towards 80's music these days. I still enjoy country and soft rock as well as a number of show tunes and pop songs. In my mp3 collection, I do have other songs such as selections from Sweeney Todd, Les Miserables, Phantom of the Opera, Chicago, music by Stephen Lynch, and one or two songs by Madonna, Coolio, Christina Aguilera (she has one or two good songs), Brittney (again, she has one or two good songs), Weird Al Yankoviks, and others.
Food: My favorite food is something my mother makes: barbecue ribs. She is one of only two people that I've found that makes them the way I like them. And my favorite deserts? Another tough one, but I do love Ben and Jerry's Chocolate Fudge Brownie, and Perry's Peanut Butter Cup or their plain Chocolate or their Death by Chocolate!
Games: I enjoy computer games such as Black & White 2, The Sims 1,2 and 3, Diablo 3, Drawn: The Painted Tower, A Vampyre Story, and Elder Scrolls: Skyrim, etc.
There, how's that?
When I hunker down in front of my computer, I call it: 'defragmenting my brain' or 'going into hermit mode'.
Or I might be at gaming club at SUNY Brockport.
Not to say that I would not want to talk about some things.
Here's something that isn't the most private thing but is still interesting (and may weird some people out):
I'm a yaoi fangirl. I draw m/m art and I read m/m fictions or fanfictions and look at m/m art or fanart. And I rp m/m rpgs!
....Still with me or have you fled in terror?
You can also message me if you like girls who have senses of humor, who try to be open-minded to different ways of life, who love to laugh. And are a bit child-like. ^^