The nicest thing a friend ever said to me was "The fact that you have so much love for so many people and so little hate in you says a lot about who you are as a person."
People generally tend to regard me as a nice, kind, loving, caring person who has compassion and empathy, but I'm wise enough to know that all humans need self love and self compassion and a certain degree of selfishness to balance that stuff out so as not to be a walking guilt complex (and I don't condone ableism towards low empathy/confused empathy people either. Doesn't mean they can't be kind, caring or compassionate! Just let's not be dicks to anyone ok?) I love anime, manga and animation and comics more generally, cuddles, cosy thing like fluffy socks and blankets, cats, dogs, tea, friendship, sloths, sex (but that's not all I'm interested in FFS), love in all it's forms, sausages, and the cool, refreshing taste of Pepsi Max (the ginger flavour is super nice! Deffo recommend). I am here looking for loving connections whether friendships, friendships involving sex or romantic relationships. I have mental health issues and am neuroatypical so if you're not understanding, patient and compassionate about such things please do not message me, it wastes both our time. I'm not going to go into lots of detail about things related to sex but what I will say is this: If you don't enjoy giving as much as receiving and/or do not feel comfortable and enthusiastic about all parts of women's bodies do not contact me looking for a sexual relationship whether romantic or non-romantic.
I might be open to hookups but only, I mean ONLY if you accept that you might not get into my pants or be invited into my home the first time we meet, as a reasonable, basic safety measure, I might want to wait until a second meeting.
Also, I'm a big fat chick so if that's not your thing then move along. I can be a size 26-32 for non-stretchy clothing, to give some idea of my size.
Anansi Boys as read by Lenny Henry
The Song of Achilles
Fruits Basket (and the anime)
The Flowers of Evil (and the anime)
King of Thorn (not seen the anime tho)
Vampire Hunter D (both first one and Bloodlust but especially the first one)
Bringing Up Baby
Fullmetal Alchemist (both 2003 and Brotherhood but especially 2003 and the Conqueror of Shamballa movie)
His and Her Circumstances/Kare Kano
Dad's Army (not an obsessive devotee of older British comedy but I'm really fond of this particular show)
Electric Six (seen them live several times and Dick Valentine solo twice as well! I met him! He kissed my forehead! He's a lovely bloke :) )
Meat and Dairy
Fried onions (also nice with peas :F )
Also, I really mean that thing in my sidebar about not wanting kids. Refuse to give birth to them and refuse to adopt them. I don't hate children at all (I actually rather like them), but neither pregnancy nor motherhood are for me. Please respect this.
While I'm completely straight edge (well unless you count caffeine, which I do sometimes have but try to moderate my intake a tad. Once in a blue moon I will try a sip of a friend's alcoholic drink out of curiosity about the taste) I am 420 friendly and don't judge people for their alcohol/smoking/drug habits. Most of my friends drink alcohol, I'm not in a cult ;) Also I don't call myself straight edge XD
OK, things I like:
French language (tho I don't speak it so if you send me a message that's in French I will have no idea what it says :L)
Shorter than average men (don't be put off if you're tall! I'm just saying this so some guy reading this doesn't think "she'd never like me I'm only 5"5"). Seriously short guys are cuuute <3
Bigger women <3
Doesn't matter if you're cis or trans* (be the best that you can be, Pokemon Johto... sorry but that is stuck in my head forever). Been in love with all types of people :)
All races and ethnicities welcome :)
Bigger isn't better in the trouser department, for me at least.
Basically I'm just delighted to meet nice/nice and cute people :)
Tell me your best/worst puns? Good/rubbish jokes? Link me some music you like or a favourite AMV? Send cute animal pics? Tell me your favourite love song :)