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My self-summary
Neurotic, adventurous romantic looking for connection and new experiences. Favorite pastimes include making s'mores, riding in rickety vans through remote North African deserts, and staying up until 2 AM talking about the meaning of life. I'm definitely not your "typical laid back chill dude" but that's fine with me. I travel a lot, love to discuss ideas and can also build an awesome campfire.

I'm open to all kinds of connection: love, friendship, jedi apprenticing, spiritual companionship, or any combination of the above. If you're confident, authentic and kind, and you're up for an adventure (or just going out for a drink) message me.
What I’m doing with my life
Traveling to distant lands, exploring what it means to be human, thinking, writing, loving, living. And somehow getting paid for it. Also getting a Ph.D.
I’m really good at
Questioning social norms. Analyzing social situations. Distinguishing between different shades of colors that are only slightly off. Sniffing out bullshit (sometimes my own). Empathizing with people. Giving advice. Understanding culture.
The first things people usually notice about me
Big brown eyes. Zany sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Discipline and Punish, The Road to Serfdom, The Phantom Tollbooth, Ibn Khaldun's Muqaddimah (if you know what that is I'll reply to your message even if you have an extensive criminal record).

Movies: The Shawshank Redemption, Star Wars, My Cousin Vinny, Superbad, Lord of the Rings, Harold and Kumar Go to White Castle, Casablanca, The Matrix, Field of Dreams

Music: Hozier, Dispatch, Old Crow Medicine Show, Ray LaMontagne, Paul Simon, Hamid al-Kasri, Oudaden, Naseer Shamma, Miles Davis, John Coltrane, Charlie Parker

Shows: Al Jazeera, Kitchen Nightmares.

Food: Ethnic food. In no particular order: Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Indian, Yemeni, Tunisian.
The six things I could never do without
1) Love
2) Friendship
3) Intellectual stimulation.
4) Laughter
5) Music
6) Tea.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
why dragons exist in the mythology of so many different cultures that had no contact.
On a typical Friday night I am
Going to clubs/bars/parties and studying the interactions of people in the same way that anthropologists study primitive tribes in remote areas of New Guinea.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I fucking love Star Wars
You should message me if
You are passionate about good communication and understand its importance in a relationship.

You know where my username comes from.

You know what you want in life and aren't afraid to go for it.

You could see yourself traveling to (and maybe living in for short periods of time) exotic, far off lands.

You're not afraid to love and be loved.

You can challenge me a little and might enjoy being challenged back.

This music resonates with you: