40Rochester, United States
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My self-summary
At the ripe young age of 36, I find myself about 4 months away from being a paramedic. I was a chef like 12 years. I got sick of the business and reenlisted in the military and now Im back in school. I’m a father of two wonderful boys, and divorced. I’m pretty laid back most of the time. Who am I kiding, I'm laid back all the time. I like to joke and be a tad sarcastic most of the time, but never at the expense of those who don't deserve it. I love discussing...pretty much anything. I love having those, your brow starts to sweat talk's over to much wine a full stomach, I am a great cook so I have to be a great eater.
What I’m doing with my life
SO!!!! Like I mentioned I’m in school. Paramedic school was a tad bit tougher than I had anticipated, but the toughest part is over. I’m out of the restaurant business after working my ass off for better than a decade. I spend a ton of time with my little guys. I work full time for a commercial ambulance agency and I volunteer for another. Between classes, clinical, lab, work, kids, trying to maintain a household, and sleeping from time to time I stay pretty damn busy. I’m also a Military Police officer, which I love. I spent three weeks in southern NY doing hurricane relief. I was going to be heading to Afghanistan this past feb., but plans changed. It'll be Combat Medic school when I finish my Paramedic stuff!
I’m really good at
I think I'm best at being a dad. I'm a really great cook. I'm a good person. I'm pretty handy to. I'm a damn good medic I think. I try and treat everyone like they're a member of my family. I'm a natural smart ass, but I'm funny. I wouldn't go as far to say I'm the life of the party but I try and keep it interesting!
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm approachable. I like to smile and have a good time. I try to make people feel comfortable when they are with me. I'm am genuinely interested in people and they're lives and interested and I try to make it show. I'm also dashing!! Just kidding.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
. It's been nothing but text books and medical journals for the past year or two really. Currently I'm reading the Cell by Mr King. I ripped through a couple zombie books as of late.

I listen to all sorts of music depending on when and what I'm doing at the moment.

I eat everything!! I'm a real foodie, and the weirder the better!
Six things I could never do without
1. My boys
2-6. I could live without just about everything else. Things come and go. People come and go. The only thing that I have to have and could never do without is knowing that my boys are healthy and safe.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking about school. I spend a lot of time thinking about my boys. I spend a lot of time thinking about ending up single and alone as an old man. I mean older than I am of course.
On a typical Friday night I am
On a typical Friday night! I'm usually sitting in an ambulance for 12 plus hours. If I have one off it's with the kids. If it's not with the kids it's sleeping, and if I have all that finished it's a couple cocktails and a whole lot of laughs. My kids eat like four things so I haven't had a ton of time to cook for anyone as of recent, but I have a couple diner parties planned over the next few months.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
it's not private if I'm willing to admit it know is it. I'll share more with you once I get to know you!
You should message me if
You should message me if you like funny, intelligent, self confident men. I don’t dig negativity, so please none of that. I would love to meet someone that was happy being them and was looking for someone that wanted to make them feel even better!
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