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My self-summary
I am a real estate broker in Santa Cruz. I love helping people realize their dreams. I believe when we help others, in the end we are helping ourselves too. When we love others, we are really loving ourselves.

I have done all the things I want to do as a single person. Now I want to care for and love one person. To place them before all others. Before myself. Knowing that this love will care for me the same way.


Here is a poem that really touches my heart. To me it's a man opening his heart and laying it out for his lover. Trying to express how he is limited in this world by his flesh. And that his soul yearns to create a reality suitable to her magnificence. And that he has given his heart and very soul to her. Beautimas!

HAD I the heavens’ embroidered cloths,
Enwrought with golden and silver light,
The blue and the dim and the dark cloths
Of night and light and the half light,
I would spread the cloths under your feet:
But I, being poor, have only my dreams;
I have spread my dreams under your feet;
Tread softly because you tread on my dreams.

W.B. Yeats.

I'd love to hear what this poem means to you.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a few hobbies. One is volunteering to serve on the board of directors of a local non-profit. Part of my service is the designing and over site of, and management of, the construction of the facilities improvements. Basically a project manager. With multiple projects running simultaneously. I am able to design systems. Manage construction. And build some of these systems myself. It is really fun and satisfying for me. Another hobby I have is firearms training. I love to help people become proficient in both safe gun handling and shooting skills. I really enjoy seeing people become competent and confident with their firearms. I also love to learn from others. So whenever I get a chance to listen and learn I do my best to absorb people's knowledge. I also really enjoy swimming, especially in the ocean. I like to body-surf. I also really enjoy kayaking. And even kayak surfing. It's an amazing feeling getting tubed riding a sit on top kayak. I also really enjoy cooking. Other fun things for me would be hiking, camping, dining out, movies, road trips, laughing, and people watching. People are really entertaining.

Here is a quote that epitomizes me.

It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.

T. Roosevelt

Which are you?
I’m really good at
Seeing past the distractions
Problem solving
Eye hand coordination
Remembering what matters
Spotting predictive programing
Situational awareness
The first things people usually notice about me
Not sure how I'm supposed to know this.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Matrix, The Stranger, The Running Man, Yes Man, Ace Ventura Pet Detective, Shawshank Redemption, Serenity/Firefly (Space version of the Civil War), Dune , The Usual Suspects, 1984, The Terminator, Alien, The Fifth Eliment, Dumb anb Dumber (the original), Soldier, Idiocracy, Morressey, Nine Inch Nails, Prodigy, Violent Fems, Depeche Mode, Charlie Daniels Band, Johnny Cash.....

Chinese Food
Japanese Food
Mexican Food
Italian Food
Food Food
BBQ Food
Six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The intricacies of dynamic systems and how I interact with them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Thinking about designs of my current and future building projects
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm old fashioned and appreciate the simple things in life. And I may be Amish at heart.
You should message me if
If you like to laugh and have fun!
The two of us