31 Salem, United States
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My self-summary
I consider myself a geek, okay, a big geek. You are more likely to find me playing boardgames or discussing comics with friends rather than out clubbing around town. Probably discussing some movie, book, or silliness as if the world depended on it. then again, I am just as likely to be debating politics or consider the human condition too.

...or poop jokes.

Orignally from Chicago, I moved to Oregon about 3 years ago and haven't looked back. I lived in Bend for a bit, but I'm one of the oddballs that likes the Willamette valley more.

I'm looking for a intimate kind of relationship. One based on friendship and companionship over sex and other things. I'd like to find a partner to enjoy my time with and grow with, but before that, I'd like her to be a damn good friend that I want to spend time with doing mundane things with just as much as the audacious.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in IT and am currently working toward some goals for a secure future. Besides that, I am exploring the mild extrovert lifestyle and enjoying new events while meeting new people.
I’m really good at
I can take a mean nap!!!

I am awesome at my job! I can fix just about anything PC related. But, my true passion is being a good buddy. I know, it's dorky and implausible, but its very important to me to be there for my friends as they are for me.

Oh, new development, I make a mean guacamole!
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm black.
Like seriously, there are no black people here. I am 1 of like 15 in Salem, I swear.

A lot of people hav said they feel "safe" with me. Not sure what that means, but they all seemed happy with it.

Beyond that, I am a friendly fella. Quick to chat up anyone with a smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Have you seen "Stranger things"? no?

you need to stop reading this and go watch it.

Books/Comics/Authors: Octavia butler, Ernest Cline, any thing that is a graphic novel or comic with Batman

Do you play card games or tabletops? I do. If you do, we should talk.

Black Dynamite is my all time favorite movie, ever.

Game of thrones, Justified, Boondocks, dragonball z, Scandal, Sex in the city, the amazing world of gumball, adventure time....I have a varied choice in television shows.

I like to cook on occasion, I am no chef, but I do pretend from time to time. Mexican, Korean, BBQ, Pizza...sweet mother of god pizza...

sushi is a life choice.

Music: Bonobo, Flying Lotus, Lupe Fiasco, Pharcyde, A Tribe called quest, Portishead, Rattatat, Kendrick lamar, RHCP, Metallica...basically anything that isn't country or crappy modern rap/hip- hop.....
The six things I could never do without
Good Friends
Future plans
A chill place to relax
Something to work my mind
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I worry about the current state of America in regards to the election, class separation, racism, corruption of police, and corporate lobbying that is plaguing our nation...

...and candy.

But, of course i think about love. Will I find it? Will it be awesome? Will I get the chance to be a father? Can I dress my Kid up as Robin and be their Batman? Where I can find the special lady to enjoy a somber night on the couch with under blanket?
On a typical Friday night I am
You'll usually find me spending time with my friends with a cider in my hand. Perhaps I might be out at a pub or music venue? Or, playing a game? Perhaps a movie? Depends on my mood
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I fear butterflies. Seriously, you can't predict which way they will fly!!
You should message me if
You are looking for a date that is built of friendship. If you are a nerd too, you should say hey to me! We can chat about our interests and why they are so dang awesome!