38Costa Mesa, United States
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My self-summary
FL, Detroit, SF, SoCal are next up.

Ok, so this is a remake of my profile. Evidently, I can't change the name due to OKc's rules.

The reason? Two-fold: 1) The original profile was done at Christmas while I was housesitting. 2) A female friend suggested that I revamp it in order to better represent who I am, rather than the tongue-in-cheek version.

I admit, I'm far different than most males. First, I choose to like to treat a woman like a Queen. Why? Because of how much I respect women. I realize that women have always been the true strength behind a powerful man.

I have no problem with revering women. Yes, I'm confident and self-reliant, yet realize Women are superior and I know men are far better men when they have a strong woman in their lives
A sense of reverence and genuine admiration works well.

I Live in SoCal, travel all over. 38 can't be fixed.

Since 1989, I've sought someone to devote the rest of my life to. Not just anyone....I seek something very different: Anything more is too much, Anything less is too little.

I seek someone playful and confident, doesn't NEED me, but WANTS me despite my capricious character...someone who holds the value of connection above all else... who recognizes the importance of the bondage of communication... and is self-assured enough to admit and Demand what they truly want instead of just what they think I want to hear.

I cherish someone who is not afraid to tell me when their feelings are changing, even as they change - instead of letting me continue to run the bases after their internal umpire has called "foul"...a way with words is appreciated if they can both keep up with my cunning linguistical acrobatics as well as forgive my sometimes cheesy metaphors and puns.

I'm the type of guy who believes in possibility, but doesn't buy into all. I believe looks ARE important; as are Sense of Humor, Hygene, Fitness, Sense of Self, Open-mindedness, and TRUTH. Adventure, Creativity, Sensuality, Caring, Sharing, and Daring are also fine attributes.

I seek someone who KNOWS,/em> what she wants and isn't afraid to go after it. Someone who expects the best and can seduce me into reaching both our goals quickly, yet realizes that reaching the dream is about the adventure, not add-water-and-stir.

Long Distance is even ok with the right chemistry, Closer is better. I am not the jealous type, so if you are "Free-Spirited", that is fine by me, and No, I do not expect the same in return - just be honest and open and all is fine with me. (I'd make a very devoted and endeared accomplice.)

I'm the type that does well on my own, yet often want an "side kick" in life.

Do you want to build castles in the sky? Want to weave dreams in waterfalls?
Want to be amused from time to time or pampered consistently?

If this strikes a pleasant note with you, or you get a good feeling from it, or can see yourself as truly happy yet always enjoying more, I'd love to hear from you!

I'm even open to switching it up on occasion!

NOTE: I may just have more interests than I checked
...and I am a cuddlewhore on occasion!

Whether you are monogamous or Poly, I'm find. You dabble in BDSM - that's fine by me. I'm not judgmental.
What I’m doing with my life
Nothing serious at first. Just seeking someone fun to run and jump and play. See if chemistry developes.
I’m really good at
Having fun!
Appreciating A Woman
Coaching Business Owners
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, my fun outlook on life, and my ability to turn anything toward FUN!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Most of the books I've read are Personal Development. I consider myself pretty "awake" and "aware" but always delving deeper.

Music-wise, I tend to be a fan of the Beatles from all three periods. I do like other styles, but not a major music buff. Most of the other stuff I like is something most people have never heard, but like.

I'm always game for a movie but really don't take the time to do so. I think I saw 5 movies in the theater this year and 3 were on the same day. I'm the type who also stays until all the credits are through... You find some quirky things in there and I am a huge fan of needless information.

As far as movies at home, I tend to be into a variety, including some classics:
One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Sling Blade, The Conversation, Magic, The Cuckold, Monty Python's Meaning of Life, The Conversation, Pee Wee's Big Adventure, Chastity, Dr. Seuss Cartoons :)

Food? Now you've hit my hot button ;)
Six things I could never do without
Food, Air, Water, Sleep
My Imagination
Helping Entrepreneurs Succeed
Teaching kids "Life Skills" that they won't ever learn in school.
Ok, I'll admit it, sex & companionship are important too.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
various things
On a typical Friday night I am
Flexible if not tied up.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Is certainly going to force you to get to know me first :)

I'm pretty open, but I'm not willing to put it on a page where the FBI might use it against me 50 years from now if it ever becomes an issue!

Ok, perhaps I'm not opposed to getting together for beverage to discuss the finer points of tantra and even kink.
You should message me if
My profile or photos appeal to you and you'd like to see if there is chemistry.

If you've an interest in me, I'm not really that concerned about the percentages of the algorithm. Often times, I find that the questions may not be too far off!

By the way, just because I put 'casual sex' as a selection, doesn't mean I'm looking for a one-night stand. There has to be chemistry and some promise. Ideally, I'm seeking someone to devote the rest of my life to, though realize that solid short-term relationships can enrich souls too.

Also, "Near Me" could mean anywhere I travel to. I am in SoCal and travel all over. For example, I spend at least 50 days each year in Lake Las Vegas. My mother lives in Florida so she gets a visit. I have family around the Great Lakes. I also enjoy Ireland and Costa Rica and The Caribbean and NYC. Got any other travel ideas?
The two of us