I love comfort and freedom, being and exploring.
I value the full range of life from the subtle and quiet, to the passionate.
I love it when a man can be present, and take the time to understand me and himself.
I delight in being met by an equal. When a man let's me see the secret sides of him, it can completely open up both of our worlds.
Because it's a crazy beautiful broken world, I love to be protected and protect back.
I revel in a man's differences, and am not ashamed that of course women need men, we all need each other.
Need isn't a dirty word in my book, it's an understanding of how nature made us.
There is nothing more exciting to me than opening to a man through my feminine, and feeling safe to surrender.
Honest men of deep character who are motivated to care for and protect others AND themselves are my favorite.
A man who is committed to being trustworthy, spiritually attuned, AND in touch with his animal self melts me.
The union of instinct and spirit is what I desire.
Raw fresh vanilla, with an authentic streak of intimate taboo is my favorite flavor.
I don't need perfect, or performance (and I certainly can't offer them). Presence, openness, and willingness are the qualities I seek.
I most often resonate with men who are involved in some form of men's work/ psychological/spiritual or social change work.
I'm passionate about helping people experience trust, love, and pleasure, and I'm passionate about walking the path too.
It gives me great satisfaction to help people live from a deeply sourced place, with joy and ease.
Depth of perception.
Benevolent warm leadership.
Once I know and trust a person, an open joyful girlish innocence.
Typologies are like maps, not the actual territory, but helpful. I'm an ENFJ in the Jungian based myers-briggs.
"What stands out about you is that you have this sparkling way of relating. You're truly connected, responsive, and expressive. You have a quick dynamic intellect and put ideas together in brilliant new ways. You're truly living what you're talking about."
I have an appetite for learning, and opening up to new understanding.
I love music! From the pleasures of r&b and hip hop, to the soulful perceptiveness of India Arie's "Back to the Middle", "Talk to Her", and "Beautiful" to Josh Garrels prophetic poetic album "Love and War and the Sea in Between".
I love dance, on my own, with a partner, or for a man who loves to watch ;-)
I practice yoga regularly, and get out into beautiful nature often. I love them both.
I eat mostly local, organic, lots of plants, and a little bit of ethical animal. I've got a little bit of a hedonist side too, and love doing it in a really healthy way.
Cooking healthy delicious food together, and making creative conversation...these make everything taste better :-)
There are ways of Being that I couldn't do without...
Truth and laughter!
Intellectually stimulating conversation
Wisdom, in all of it's sacred and profane forms
Love and sex positivity swirled together
Music and dancing
Adventures in the wild
Art of all kinds, from everyday raw beauty, to fine art.
Deep insights that emerge from surfing sorrow and joy, and discovering the grace in the grit.
Taboos, which one's to honor, and which one's to break.
How to create an amazing life at home.
With that said, I'd love a partner in crime in adventuring in the world.
I've traveled to some beautiful places, inner and outer, and am ripe for more.
🐠 Snorkeling off of a tiny island in the Sea of Cortez amidst fluttering schools of rainbow fish.
🌟 Floating in a glowing bioluminesent ocean hotspring on the shores of Baja while gazing at a sea of stars above, like floating in the cosmos.
💦 Plunging into crystal alpine lakes, ringed by white smooth granite boulders.
🐚 Soaking in a local beach hot spring with hundreds of glowing lime green and purple sea anemones blooming on the towering rocks.
🌵 Hiking the wild calm of the canyons of the west. Coral hued hoodoos, etched in lace, rising to meet the blue sky. Whimsical stone, arched in sensuous defiance of gravity. A sanctuary in the desert expanse.
Other things I think about while navigating this crazy modern world...
How can we "be the change" and live sustainable pleasure, in ways that contribute to a beneficial relationship to each other and nature. We ARE nature after all. I'd love to meet a man who is inspired to walk a healing path, a green path.
You value wisdom in it's reverent and irreverent forms. You're doing work that you feel meant to do; it contributes to people, and supports you back. You're on a wise path, with strength and heart.
One at a time tho... ;-)
*Raw fresh vanilla* and *conscious kink* (emotionally safe, sober, consensual, and healing for both people) are my favorite flavors. I'm a confident feminine feminist in my everyday, and I love to surrender in the bedroom in ways that set both people free. Men who have a trustable loving dominant side, take pleasure in strong women who can reveal their vulnerability, ring my bell.
I don't believe the myth that a long term relationship leads to sexual boredom. Honesty, keeping our fingers on the pulse of desire, taking emotional risks together, adventuring, this opens up more possibilities than we often dare to hope. Learning how to let ourselves have what we want is the biggest challenge as far as I can see. It's my growing edge too.
I want a partnership in which we help each other climb out of the illusion that we have to do it all alone.
I want a partnership in which we see through our fancy minds, to true needs, and meet there.
I heard recently that true freedom is being loved well, and that resonated as 100% true. I want that.